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The Letter Men – Movie Review

03/08/2025 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

Review: The Letter Men – A Quiet Masterpiece of Queer Remembrance

The Letter MenIt’s not every day that a story finds you — especially one as moving and improbable as that of The Letter Men. But that’s precisely what happened to director Andy Vallentine. In his own words, he stumbled across the love story of Gilbert Bradley and Gordon Bowsher while scrolling online, yet what followed was no casual discovery. It became a deeply personal pilgrimage to honour lives lived in secret, with love expressed in ink but forbidden in the flesh.

 

…No conception of what our love is…
 
…How far away we seem from the rest of the world…

 

Gilbert Bradley kept Gordon’s letters until he died in 2007, and they were then rediscovered in 2015. bringing their love story to light.

Based on the largest surviving collection of queer love letters from the Second World War, The Letter Men does more than dramatise a historical romance. It gives voice to the silenced — not in anger, but in reverence. Vallentine’s Director’s Statement reveals not only the historical weight of the story but also the emotional and ethical responsibility he felt in telling it. This isn’t opportunistic filmmaking; it’s stewardship.

The casting of Garrett Clayton as Gilbert and Matthew Postlethwaite as Gordon brings authenticity and tenderness to roles that could so easily have slipped into caricature. But under Vallentine’s hand, every gesture, glance, and silence feels earned. This is a film about longing — not just the yearning between two men separated by war, but the aching for recognition, dignity, and permanence in a world determined to forget them.The Letter Men

It’s also a visually rich experience. Oren Soffer’s cinematography is painterly, with the production and costume design capturing 1940s England not in sepia-toned nostalgia, but with a lived-in texture. Even the visual effects — subtle as they are — seem to serve the memory of these men, never overshadowing the human drama at the core.

What struck me most, however, wasn’t the historical significance — which is undeniable — but the contemporary resonance. As Vallentine notes, telling diverse, underrepresented stories is not just a moral imperative, but the very reason for making art at all. In a cultural moment where LGBTQ+ histories are still at risk of erasure or dismissal, The Letter Men becomes more than a film. It becomes testimony.

It’s a rare thing to watch a director so transparently moved by his subject and so determined to let it speak for itself. Andy Vallentine doesn’t just tell Gilbert and Gordon’s story; he listens to it. That humility, that attentiveness, is what elevates this short film into something unforgettable.

In the end, The Letter Men isn’t only about love letters. It is a love letter — to the past, to the possibility of queer futures, and to all those who wrote their truths down in hope, never knowing if anyone would ever read them.

Links:

  • IMDB – The Letter Men
  • Wikipedia – Man in an Orange Shirt
  • BBC – Forbidden love: The WW2 letters between two men
  • YouTube – The Letter Men
  • Escapade – Movie Review

Filed Under: Movie Reviews, Reviews Tagged With: Andy Vallentine, director's statement, Garrett Clayton, gay love letters, gay romance, Gilbert and Gordon, historical drama, LGBTQ+ cinema, LGBTQ+ film, LGBTQ+ storytelling, LGBTQ+ visibility, Matthew Postlethwaite, queer history, queer remembrance, queer representation, short film review, The Letter Men, wartime romance, WWII love story

Escapade – Movie Review

31/07/2025 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

EscapadeThis short gay film, Escapade,  is a raw, unflinching portrayal of teenage rebellion and the desperate search for freedom—a stark mirror to the suffocating realities of home life. At just under 22 minutes, it delivers a punch of realism that hits hard from the opening scene on the bridge, capturing the turbulent emotions of 17-year-olds Quint and Thijmen as they clash with their oppressive parents.

Gijs Blom, known for his role in *Jojens*, shines as both writer and actor, bringing a visceral authenticity to the story. His portrayal of Thijmen, alongside Robin Boissevain’s Quint, exposes the quiet rage and yearning for autonomy that define adolescence. The film’s visual and auditory textures—especially during the bridge and partying scenes—are tactile and immersive, immersing viewers in a gritty, honest world where every shot is meticulously crafted.

The narrative underscores how seemingly similar neighbouring homes conceal vastly different worlds: Thijmen’s overprotective family and Robin’s abusive, uncaring father. Both characters embody the universal struggle of young people seeking independence amid oppressive circumstances. The film’s construction, with its clever shot placement and pervasive filming style, captures the intensity and vulnerability of these moments with extraordinary clarity.

With a compelling mix of realism and artistry, this film encapsulates what it truly means to be a teen—conflicted, rebellious, and desperately seeking identity. It’s a gripping, honest look at youth’s fight for freedom and the scars left behind. A must-watch for anyone interested in the raw truths of teen life and the silent battles fought behind closed doors.

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Duration : 21mn 48s

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Links:

  • YouTube – Escapade
  • “Silver Road” – Gay Short Film 2006 – Movie Review

Filed Under: Editor to ACOMSDave, Movie Reviews Tagged With: coming of age, Escapade, Gijs Blom, honest storytelling, LGBTQ+ short film, raw teen drama, teen rebellion, teenage struggle, youth and freedom, youth oppression

Lobster Trap [2023] – Movie Review

26/07/2025 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

Lobster Trap  “Lobster Trap” (2023) is a compelling short drama that plunges into the turbulent world of youth and rebellion. Directed by Charlie Statires, the film masterfully captures the raw emotion and vulnerability of Chance, a troubled teenager navigating a chaotic home life. After being expelled from his trailer, where he shares a strained existence with his alcoholic brother, Wesley’s impulsive night leads him to an unexpected escape—finding himself aboard a lobster boat in the open sea.

The film’s brevity belies its depth, delivering a poignant exploration of seeking freedom amidst adversity. Statires expertly portrays Chance’s joLobster Trapurney, earning the film the Best Performance award at the New Hampshire Film Festival. The ocean setting serves as a powerful backdrop for themes of isolation, liberation, and self-discovery, resonating long after the credits roll. “Lobster Trap” is a visually evocative anLobster Trapd emotionally honest piece that reminds us of the resilience and yearning for escape that exists within troubled youth. An impressive short that leaves a lasting impression.

 

This is not a gay movie, but the main actor, Chance, played by Charlie Statires, is attractive to look at, and is on screen for most of the nearly 20 minute long movie.

FILM CREDITS Written and Directed by: Charlie Statires

Produced by: Eric Charles Jorgenson and Versa Manos and Charlie Statires

Cinematography by: Nicola DiTomaso Edited by: Kenny Yates

Composed by: Lubomir Rzepka

CAST CHANCE: Charlie Statires

LOBSTERMAN: Eric Charles Jorgenson

JOHNNY: Braxton Hale

RUBY: Gabriella Santinelli

THOMAS: John Potvin

EDNA: Sylvia Hummel

CHRISTINE: Lisa Miller

Links:

  • YouTube – Lobster Trap
  • Love in the tent

Filed Under: Movie Reviews Tagged With: adventure film, best performance award, Charlie Statires, coming of age, emotional film, emotional storytelling, Lobster Trap, New Hampshire Film Festival, ocean escape, short drama, teen rebellion, youth resilience

Orange Cheesecake – a gay movie review

06/07/2025 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

Orange CheesecakeThe movie is “Orange Cheesecake,” a short film that came out in 2025. It’s a gay short film directed by Sam Liddell, with Harry Jenkins serving as the producer. The story centers around Joe, who gets invited to dinner, and as the night progresses, tensions start to rise as his father’s true intentions come to light. On IMDb, some user reviews describe it as “sweet, sad, and awkward,” capturing the film’s emotional complexity.

 

 

  • Director
    • Sam Liddell
  • Writer
    • Sam Liddell
  • Stars
    • Harry Jenkins
    • Adrian Yearsley
    • Laura Dunleavy
       

Links:

  • YouTube – Orange Cheesecake
  • A Sight on You (Despues de verte) – Gay Movie Review
  • IMDB – Orange Cheesecake

Filed Under: Movie Reviews Tagged With: 2025 film, coming of age, emotional short film, emotional storytelling, family secrets, family tensions, gay short film, Harry Jenkins, indie short film, Orange Cheesecake, Sam Liddell

A Sight on You (Despues de verte) – Gay Movie Review

27/06/2025 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

 

‘A Sight on You’

A Sight on You‘A Sight on You’ is a quietly intense indie drama that feels like a whispered secret. With a careful hand and a subtle touch, it delves into the tangled emotions between two estranged brothers—Tim (Lluís Febrer) and Julio (Xavier Batista)—who reunite after a year apart. What starts as tentative reconnecting gradually shifts into something darker and more psychologically charged.

The story is straightforward on the surface: Tim welcomes Julio back into his life after a long silence. But beneath that simplicity lies palpable tension—more communicated through lingering looks and silence than words. Things take a haunting turn after Tim makes a mysterious discovery one night. The film keeps the details under wraps at first, but it casts a long, shadowy pall over everything that follows.

What makes ‘A Sight on You’ stand out is its atmospheric approach. Director [Name] employs muted, natural lighting and long, static shots that build a creeping senseA Sight on You of unease and intimacy. The house where they stay becomes a quiet battlefield, filled with unspoken truths lingering like dust in the air.

The film’s greatest strength lies in its ambiguity. The true nature of Tim’s discovery unfolds slowly, pushing viewers to question what’s real, what’s remembered, and what’s hidden beneath the surface of family bonds. It’s reminiscent of films like *The Invitation* or *Martha Marcy May Marlene*, where the threat isn’t always external but rooted in the past, in the mind, or the people closest to you.

*A Sight on You* isn’t for everyone—it’s slow, introspective, and sometimes frustratingly opaque. But if you’re willing to lean into its ambiguity and emotional subtlety, it becomes a haunting, memorable experience.

Verdict:

A slow-burning family mystery with psychological depths, *A Sight on You* sticks with you long after the credits roll. Anchored by compelling performances and a chillingly understated twist, it leaves more questions than answers—and that’s what makes it unforgettable.

Links:

  • Gay Films Matter – ‘A Sight on You’ – current viewing
  • Boys or Jongens – A Gay Movie Review

 

Filed Under: Movie Reviews Tagged With: A Sight on You, ambiguous, atmospheric film, emotional depth, family secrets, film analysis, haunting, indie drama, movie review, psychological thriller, slow burn

Boys or Jongens – A Gay Movie Review

21/06/2025 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

“Boys or Jongens” – A Movie Review

BoysSieger, just 15, had his eyes glued to the stopwatch and the track, convinced he knew his limits—physically, emotionally, personally. As he trains for the national relay champs, everything shifts when he crosses paths with Marc. A boy as wild and free as the wind, as unpredictable as a summer storm. Through shared laughs and quiet moments of ease, a connection sparks that goes way beyond friendship. When feelings start to deepen, Sieger embarks on more than just a race—it’s a journey into self-discovery, courage, and the true meaning of love.

Gijs Blom plays a particularly nuanced role as Sieger, coming to terms with being gay, whilst being part of the athletic world. As Sieger moves forward, he becomes friends with Marc (played by Ko Zandvliet), and they both enjoy the youthfulness of being in each other’s company.  A kiss happens whilst they are at a lake.  It has all the tenderness of a first kiss, with the sparcity of sex being thought about.

Boys or Jongens is a wonderful introduction to how love develops, the complexities and the joys.

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Links:

  • YouTube – Boys or Jongens
  • IMDB – Boys or Jongens
  • Abysse 

Filed Under: Movie Reviews Tagged With: boys, coming of age, courage, emotional journey, friendship, Jongens, love, personal growth, relay race, self-discovery, sports drama, summer storm, teenage drama, youth

Abysse – A Short Movie Review

15/06/2025 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

 

AbysseAbysse is about loss. Félix and Matthieu have been friends since childhood, bound by years of shared memories. When Félix returns to Bordeaux for the summer, it’s with the hope of reconnecting and reliving those carefree days. But one evening, Matthieu vanishes without a trace, leaving Félix haunted by unanswered questions. He plunges into a world of silence and confusion, embarking on a relentless, almost senseless quest to reclaim a friendship that feels lost forever.

 

 

A film crafted with care by writer and director Justin Berrocal.

Starring: Vincent Lambin, Baptiste Miremont, Romane Braud, Oscar Lalanne, Justin Berrocal

Director of Photography: Florian Gislier
Original Music: Paul Klein
Editing: Thomas Lescure
Sound Engineer: Florian Gislier
Colour Grading/Mixing: Florian Gislier

Length: 15.48 mins

Links:

  • YouTube – Abysse
  • I’m Not Gay (2020) – Gay Short Movie Review

 

 

 

 

Filed Under: Movie Reviews Tagged With: Bordeaux, childhood, cinematography, disappearance, drama, emotional, film, film review, friendship, Justin Berrocal, loss, music, mystery, search, silent quest

I’m Not Gay (2020) – Gay Short Movie Review

06/06/2025 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

 

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At first glance, ‘I’m Not Gay’ (2020) might seem like a title meant to grab attention, provocative, even. But underneath that boldness lies a subtle, layered film that explores the nuances of identity, repression, and masculinity. It’s a quietly powerful character study that challenges how we perceive others and, more importantly, how we confront our own truths when no one’s looking.

Plot Summary

The movie centres on Jake Donovan (Lucas Hedges), a college athlete from a conservative Midwest town where masculinity is rigid, emotions are hidden, and identity feels like it’s handed down rather than chosen. Jake appears to fit the mould: confident, straight, tough. But everything shifts when he befriends Adam (Justice Smith), an art student with a gentle spirit and an unapologetic authenticity that both intrigues and unsettles Jake.

What starts as late-night talks and shared secrets gradually morphs into something unspoken — a connection neither of them is ready to define. As rumours spread and external pressures mount from teammates, family, and community, Jake’s repeated insistence of “I’m not gay” becomes a shield, a way to cling to his constructed identity. But inside, his world is quietly unravelling. The real conflict isn’t just societal—it’s internal, a battle with fear, desire, and self-denial.

Artistic Approach

Directed by Eliza Hittman (*Beach Rats*), “I’m Not Gay” captures that tense silence of repression with intimate cinematography and a visual language that speaks volumes. The camera lingers on subtle gestures — a hesitant touch, a prolonged glance, the weight of unspoken words filling the space.

There’s a raw honesty to how scenes unfold — no melodramatic moments, just quiet internal struggles spilling over. The muted colour palette, soft lighting, and ambient sounds create an almost tactile sense of emotional discomfort. The score by Rob Simonsen delicately weaves piano and atmospheric textures, emphasising the emotional layers without overpowering the subtle storytelling.

Performances

Lucas Hedges delivers a deeply affecting performance. He’s not just playing a guy questioning his sexuality; he embodies the fear of losing himself, the denial wrapped around vulnerability. Every look, every hesitation, feels authentic — a layered portrayal of someone caught between who they are and who they’re supposed to be.

Justice Smith’s Adam is a quiet force — calm, genuine, fully realised. His presence serves as a mirror for Jake, pushing him to confront what he’s been avoiding. Their chemistry crackles with complexity, blending fear, tenderness, and confusion in a way that feels real and raw.

Supporting roles deepen the story — Cherry Jones as Jake’s emotionally distant mother adds a layer of generational tension and cultural context, underscoring the silent pressures that shape Jake’s world.

Emotional Depth

This film isn’t about easy answers or neat resolutions. It plunges into the discomfort — the kind that comes with feeling like you don’t fit into any box, craving connection but fearing the cost. It’s less about coming out and more about coming to terms with oneself in silence.

*I’m Not Gay* asks: what happens when we spend our lives trying to prove something, only to realise we’ve been trying to prove it to ourselves all along? Jake’s journey is painfully authentic, resonating with anyone who’s ever struggled with fear, denial, or the longing to be understood without judgment.

The final scene, a quiet moment of truth between two characters in a dimly lit room, speaks volumes in its silence, more than any dramatic confession ever could.

Tone and Rhythm

The film’s pace is slow and contemplative, mirroring the natural process of emotional change. It’s a deliberate, restrained storytelling choice — feelings don’t shift overnight, and repression isn’t broken in a single scene. Instead, the movie reflects the gradual, often painful, peeling away of armour, revealing the quiet bravery of facing oneself.

Final Thoughts

*I’m Not Gay* (2020) is a courageous, honest portrait of identity and repression. It’s less about labels and more about the universal human desire to be loved for who we are, not who we’re told to be. It lingers long after the credits, in unspoken words, lingering glances, and the hearts of those still trying to understand their truth.

 

Links:

  • IMDB – I’m Not Gay
  • Vimeo – I’m Not Gay
  • Scraps

 

Filed Under: Movie Reviews

Scraps – A Short LGBTQ Movie Review

29/05/2025 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

Scraps Experience the poignant coming-of-age story of SCRAPS, a gay romance skateboarding short film that captures the vibrant energy of skate culture intertwined with tender moments of self-discovery. Set against the rugged backdrop of rural 2003 Montana, this indie LGBTQ+ film follows a closeted teen artist as he falls for an openly skateboarding boy, confronting the fears of small-town judgment and the courage to embrace his identity. Featuring compelling performances by Dorian Giordano and Peder Lindell, SCRAPS echoes the emotional depth of films like Mid-90s, Call Me By Your Name, and The Perks of Being a Wallflower. It’s a heartfelt journey of love, vulnerability, and growth during a defining summer in a small town.

 

 

Links:

  • YouTube – Scraps
  • Lucky Blue – A Short LGBTQ Movie Review
  • Amazon – Scraps: A Gay Skateboarding Romance Novel

Filed Under: Movie Reviews Tagged With: 2003 Montana, coming of age, Dorian Giordano, heartfelt LGBTQ+ story, LGBTQ+ indie film, LGBTQ+ short film, LGBTQ+ youth, love and identity, Peder Lindell, rural Montana, skateboarding romance, small-town judgment, summer romance, teen love story

Lucky Blue – A Short LGBTQ Movie Review

06/05/2025 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

Lucky BlueLucky Blue: Alright, so picture this: every summer, for as long as I can remember, my dad and I have this little tradition. We pack up the tent and head to the same camping ground, the one with the slightly dodgy showers but the best view of the lake. It’s not just us, though. There’s a whole crew of familiar faces, people we’ve camped with for years. It’s our little summer bubble, and it always wraps up with a gloriously off-key karaoke night.

Now, I’m not exactly the life of the party. I’m more of a quiet observer, happy to just soak it all in. I guess you could say I’m a bit introverted, maybe a little innocent even. I just… accept things, I suppose. People are nice, the world is mostly good, and love? Well, it just is.

But this one summer, something shifted. Our family friend, bless her heart, decided to bring her nephew, Kevin. Now, Kevin was different. You could tell he was a ‘city boy’ right away – a bit reserved, a bit wary. And he had this little budgerigar, a bright blue flash of feathers that he seemed genuinely attached to.

And then, because that’s just how things happen sometimes, I messed up. The budgie, in a moment of feathered rebellion, zipped out of its cage, and just like that, it was gone. Panic, a flurry of apologies from me, and a whole lot of quiet tension from Kevin.

What followed wasn’t what I expected. Instead of anger, there was… a sort of connection. Searching for that little bird, we started talking. And I started to see it – the layers of caution around Kevin, the way he seemed to flinch away from genuine warmth. It hit me that he’d probably had a tougher time of it than I ever had, that maybe love and acceptance weren’t as simple and straightforward for him as they were for me.Lucky Blue

And somewhere between searching for a runaway budgie and sharing hushed conversations under the stars, something new started to bud. A friendship, yes, but something deeper too. It was like he was learning to trust, and I was learning that love isn’t always just given; sometimes, it needs to be found, carefully and patiently, especially when it’s been lost before. It was a summer I won’t forget, the summer a little blue bird flew away and brought two very different people together.

 

Links:

  • Lucky Blue [2007] 
  • IMDB – Lucky Blue [2007]
  • Reel by Jens Choong – A Short LGBTQ Movie Review

 

Filed Under: Movie Reviews Tagged With: acceptance, budgerigar, camping, city boy, friendship, introverted, karaoke, love, Lucky Blue, relationships, summer tradition, trust

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