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The Killing of Georgie – Rod Stewart

15/08/2025 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

Unveiling the Powerful Story Behind Rod Stewart’s ‘The Killing of Georgie”

The Killing of GeorgieRod Stewart’s poignant ballad, “The Killing of Georgie,” provides a unique and powerful narrative that, drawing from the provided transcript, offers a groundbreaking portrayal of a non-straight individual and the challenges faced within society during a period of “changing ways” and “so-called liberated days”. The song traces the life and tragic death of Georgie, presenting a deeply personal story that was remarkable for the popular music of its era.

 

A Story of Identity and Rejection

The song introduces Georgie as a “Georgia boy”, a “kindest guy”. **Crucially, the narrative immediately establishes Georgie’s identity as non-straight through the reaction of his mother**, who questions “how can my son not be straight after all I’ve said and done for him”. This direct acknowledgement of his sexual orientation and his mother’s struggle with it, was a significant step for a mainstream song. As a result of this lack of acceptance, Georgie was “cast out by the ones he loves” and left home on a Greyhound bus. This highlights the painful reality of family rejection faced by many individuals identifying as non-straight.

Finding Acceptance in the City

Upon leaving his home, Georgie sought refuge and a new life in New York City. The song describes his swift integration and acceptance into a more liberal environment: “very quickly settle down, he soon became the toast of the Great White Way, accepted by Manhattan’s elite”. In New York, Georgie found a place where “no party was complete without [Georgie]”, suggesting a vibrant and accepting social circle. This stark contrast between the rejection he faced from his family and the widespread acceptance he found in the city provided a powerful commentary on the differing societal attitudes towards non-straight individuals. The song further reveals that “in the summer of ’75 he said he was in love,” indicating he found personal happiness and connection in this new environment.

The Tragic End and Societal Indifference

The narrative takes a dark turn with Georgie’s tragic death. While taking a shortcut home from another Broadway show, he was attacked on a side street by “a new church” with a “switchblade knife”. The source states that the assailant “did not intend to take his life, to just pushed his luck”, but the outcome was fatal. The song then poses a powerful question: “George is life and death, but I ask who cares?”. This rhetorical question implies a broader societal indifference or a lack of justice surrounding such incidents, particularly for those on the margins. Although the song doesn’t explicitly label it a hate crime, the sudden, violent nature of his death, coupled with the previous themes of rejection and the societal context, implicitly points to the dangers faced by non-straight individuals.

Georgie’s Enduring Philosophy

Beyond the tragedy, the song immortalises Georgie’s profound philosophy on life. According to the lyrics, Georgie once advised, “never wait or hesitate, get it, get before it’s turn you may never get another chance, cuz it’s a mask but they don’t last, live it long and live at fancy. Georgie was a friend of mine”. This message encourages living life fully and authentically, embracing opportunities without hesitation. In the context of a story about a non-straight individual who faced rejection but found acceptance and ultimately a tragic end, this philosophy becomes even more poignant, advocating for living one’s truth despite the brevity and fragility of life.

A Groundbreaking Contribution

“The Killing of Georgie” was groundbreaking not only for its ‘direct and empathetic portrayal of a non-straight character’s life journey’ but also for its ‘unflinching depiction of the societal challenges, from family rejection to tragic violence’, that such individuals could face. By bringing this personal story into the mainstream, Rod Stewart’s song contributed significantly to visibility and understanding, making it a pivotal work in the broader conversation about LGBT experiences.

Links:

  • Rod Stewart – The Killing Of Georgie (Part I & II) (Official Video)
  • Consign homophobia to history, urges ex-Irish president Mary McAleese
  • X-Men star opens up about first on-screen gay kiss in music video

 

Filed Under: Editor to ACOMSDave Tagged With: 1970s, acceptance, gay identity, Georgie., groundbreaking song, homosexuality, LGBT, music history, narrative, New York City, rejection, Rod Stewart, social commentary, The Killing of Georgie, tragedy

Lucky Blue – A Short LGBTQ Movie Review

06/05/2025 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

Lucky BlueLucky Blue: Alright, so picture this: every summer, for as long as I can remember, my dad and I have this little tradition. We pack up the tent and head to the same camping ground, the one with the slightly dodgy showers but the best view of the lake. It’s not just us, though. There’s a whole crew of familiar faces, people we’ve camped with for years. It’s our little summer bubble, and it always wraps up with a gloriously off-key karaoke night.

Now, I’m not exactly the life of the party. I’m more of a quiet observer, happy to just soak it all in. I guess you could say I’m a bit introverted, maybe a little innocent even. I just… accept things, I suppose. People are nice, the world is mostly good, and love? Well, it just is.

But this one summer, something shifted. Our family friend, bless her heart, decided to bring her nephew, Kevin. Now, Kevin was different. You could tell he was a ‘city boy’ right away – a bit reserved, a bit wary. And he had this little budgerigar, a bright blue flash of feathers that he seemed genuinely attached to.

And then, because that’s just how things happen sometimes, I messed up. The budgie, in a moment of feathered rebellion, zipped out of its cage, and just like that, it was gone. Panic, a flurry of apologies from me, and a whole lot of quiet tension from Kevin.

What followed wasn’t what I expected. Instead of anger, there was… a sort of connection. Searching for that little bird, we started talking. And I started to see it – the layers of caution around Kevin, the way he seemed to flinch away from genuine warmth. It hit me that he’d probably had a tougher time of it than I ever had, that maybe love and acceptance weren’t as simple and straightforward for him as they were for me.Lucky Blue

And somewhere between searching for a runaway budgie and sharing hushed conversations under the stars, something new started to bud. A friendship, yes, but something deeper too. It was like he was learning to trust, and I was learning that love isn’t always just given; sometimes, it needs to be found, carefully and patiently, especially when it’s been lost before. It was a summer I won’t forget, the summer a little blue bird flew away and brought two very different people together.

 

Links:

  • Lucky Blue [2007] 
  • IMDB – Lucky Blue [2007]
  • Reel by Jens Choong – A Short LGBTQ Movie Review

 

Filed Under: Movie Reviews Tagged With: acceptance, budgerigar, camping, city boy, friendship, introverted, karaoke, love, Lucky Blue, relationships, summer tradition, trust

Reel by Jens Choong – A Short LGBTQ Movie Review

21/04/2025 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

Review of “Reel” by Jens Choong

Reel by Jens ChoongIn “Reel,” director and writer Jens Choong delivers a poignant exploration of friendship, identity, and the bittersweet nature of growing up. Set against the backdrop of a city on the cusp of change, the film centres on Victor (Fanny Ketter) and his best friend Robert (Toft Hervén) during the last day before Victor moves away. This timeline cleverly encapsulates the fleeting moments before a significant life transition, making the stakes feel personal and urgent.

The film opens with Victor and Robert engaging in their favourite pastimes—skateboarding, spraying graffiti, and simply hanging out. Each scene is imbued with a palpable sense of nostalgia and youthful exuberance, allowing viewers to reminisce about their friendships. However, beneath the light-hearted banter and carefree moments lies an undercurrent of tension, as the boys grapple with unspoken feelings and the impending distance that will soon separate them.

Choong’s direction is skilful, capturing both the joy of companionship and the struggles of self-discovery. The chemistry between Ketter and Hervén is electric, making their evolving dynamic feel authentic and relatable. As they navigate their day together, subtle shifts in their interactions signify a deeper connection, bringing to light the complexities of love and friendship at this age.

The cinematography enhances the narrative, with vibrant visuals that mirror the boys’ emotional journey. The streets of their city become a canvas for theirReel by Jens Choong expressions, both a playground and a reminder of what they stand to lose. The film’s pacing allows for moments of reflection, giving audiences space to absorb the weight of their impending separation.

“Reel” resonates not just as a short gay teenage friendship tale but as a universal exploration of identity and acceptance. It’s a heartfelt reminder that friendships can be transformative and often come with an intimacy that can be difficult to articulate. As Victor prepares to leave, the audience feels the ache of possibilities unvoiced, encapsulating the essence of what it means to navigate the complicated waters of growing up.

In conclusion, Jens Choong’s “Reel” is a beautifully crafted short film that not only captures the essence of youthful friendships but also delves into the profound realisations that come with them. The performances from Fanny Ketter and Toft Hervén are commendable, and together with Choong’s sensitive storytelling, they create a lasting impression that lingers long after the credits roll. This film is a touching exploration of the ties that bind us and the bittersweet nature of change, reminding us that sometimes, the truest connections are the hardest to leave behind.

 

 

 

Reel by Jens choong Reel by Jens Choong

 

Links:

  • Youtube – Reel by Jens Choong
  • “Turn it Around” – by Niels Bourgonje – Gay Movie Review

Filed Under: Movie Reviews Tagged With: acceptance, bittersweet, coming of age, emotional journey, friendship, gay cinema, Identity, Jens Choong, LGBTQ, nostalgia, Reel, relationships, Robert, short film, short gay film., skateboarding, transformation, Victor, youth

From Roommates to Lovers – Gay Short Movie Review

03/04/2025 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

From Roommates to Lovers – What unfolds when two college roommates—one gay and the other straight—embark on an unexpected journey of love? This touching LGBTQ+ short film tells the story of a dashing junior who finds himself drawn to his straight senior roommate. As the days roll by, feelings intensify, culminating in a surprising confession during a casual game of cards. Just when it seems like nothing could come from it, the straight roommate starts to confront his own emotions and opens up to the possibility of love.

From Roommates to Lovers

This romantic short film (From Roommates to Lovers) captures the essence of self-discovery, acceptance, and the transformative power of love that transcends labels. Join them as their love story develops over five weeks in a college dorm, brimming with raw emotion, passion, and a profound connection that alters their lives forever.

 

 

 

Link:

  • YouTube – From Roommates to Lovers
  • Andy Marshalls, a humble oyster fisherman – Movie Review

Filed Under: Movie Reviews Tagged With: acceptance, college roommates, coming of age, emotional journey, friendship, gay cinema, LGBTQ, love story, romance, self-discovery, short film, transformation

“Family Escapes Birmingham Gay Village Attack, Seeks Refuge in Ireland”

24/09/2024 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

"Family Escapes Birmingham Gay Village Attack, Seeks Refuge in Ireland"

Stop Homophobia

A family has fled to Ireland following a distressing attack that occurred in Birmingham’s gay village. The incident involved a violent assault on the father, who was targeted for his sexual orientation. The family shared their experience, describing the trauma and fear they endured as a result of the attack, which has led them to seek safety in a new country. Their story highlights the ongoing issues of homophobia and violence against LGBTQ+ individuals, as well as the challenges faced by those seeking refuge. The family hopes to rebuild their lives in Ireland, where they can find a more accepting environment.

 

  • Family flees to Ireland after attacking several people in Birmingham’s Gay Village
  • Homophobia and Terrorism are not limited to Muslims.

Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia Tagged With: acceptance, Birmingham, discrimination, family, gay village, Hate crime, homophobia, Human Rights, Ireland, LGBTQ, personal story, refugee, safety, violence

Religion and homosexuality

26/04/2015 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

Editorial:According to some estimates, there are roughly 4,200 religions in the world.  The relationship between religion and homosexuality can vary greatly across time and place, within and between different religions and denominations, and regarding different forms of homosexuality and bisexuality. Present day doctrines of the world’s major religions vary vastly generally and by denomination on attitudes toward these sexual orientations.  The following article covers just three religions – but it does make for interesting reading.  

Further reading:

  • Wikipedia – Religion and Homosexuality

  • Wikipedia – List of religions and spiritual tradition

What Hinduism, Buddhism, Sikhism and Jainism really think of LGBTI people will surprise you

Gender-fluid deities, gay sex in temples and much more

Reprinted from Gay Star News – 24 APRIL 2015 | BY HARRY ESS
Erotic Hindu temple art, showing same and opposite sex activity.

Photos by Otgonbayar Ershuu, Michael Hoefner, Jean-Pierre Dalbéra.
Think all religion is anti-LGBTI? Think again.
While many know the arguments for and against equality from Christians, Muslims and Jews, have you considered the world’s other major religions?
In my last article for Gay Star News I was struck by the number of readers who commented that religion was our enemy.
If you think that, much of what follows will surprise you.

Hinduism

Hindu views of LGBTI issues are diverse and different Hindu groups have distinct views.
Overall homosexuality is regarded as one of the possible expressions of human desire. Although some Hindu dharmic texts contain injunctions against homosexuality, a number of Hindu mythic stories have portrayed same-sex experience as natural and joyful. There are even several Hindu temples with carvings that depict both men and women engaging in homosexual sex.
Hindu scriptures contain many surprising examples of diversity in both sex and gender. Many of the deities are androgynous and some even change gender in order to participate in homoerotic behavior.
For instance, medieval texts narrate how the god Ayyappa was born of intercourse between the gods Shiva and Vishnu when the latter temporarily took a female form.
In another story, hero-king Bhagiratha, who brought the sacred river Ganga from heaven to earth, was miraculously born to and raised by two co-widows, who made love together with divine blessing.
A number of 14th-century texts in Sanskrit and Bengali tell this story, including the Krittivasa Ramayana, a devotional text still extremely popular today. These texts explain that Bhagiratha’s name comes from the word bhaga (vulva), because he was born of two vulvas.
This behavior is not limited to gods. Another sacred text, the fourth-century Kamsutra, emphasizes pleasure as the aim of intercourse. It categorizes men who desire other men as a ‘third nature’.
The text goes on to subdivide such men into masculine and feminine types and describes their lives and typical occupations – including flower sellers, masseurs and hairdressers. It may be a stereotype by modern standards but it shows understanding.
The Karma Sutra also includes a detailed description of oral sex between men and refers to long-term unions between male partners.
Some right-wing Hindu groups, active both in India and in the United States, have expressed virulent opposition to homosexuality.
However, several modern Hindu teachers emphasize that all desire, homosexual or heterosexual, is the same, and that aspirants must work through and transcend desire.
For example, Hindu philosopher Jiddu Krishnamurti said that homosexuality, like heterosexuality, has been a fact for thousands of years, and that it becomes a problem only because humans focus too much on sex.
When asked about homosexuality, Sri Sri Ravi Shankar, founder of the international Art of Living movement, said: ‘Every individual has both male and female in them. Sometimes one dominates, sometimes other; it is all fluid.’
Mathematician Shakuntala Devi interviewed Srinivasa Raghavachariar, head priest of the Srirangam temple, in her 1977 book The World of Homosexuals. Raghavachariar told her same-sex partners must have been cross-sex partners in a former life. The gender may change, he said, but the soul retains its attachments; hence love impels them toward one another.
And when, in 2002, Hindu scholar Ruth Vanita interviewed a Shaiva priest who had performed the marriage ceremony for two women, the priest said that having studied Hindu scriptures, he had concluded ‘Marriage is a union of spirits. And the spirit is not male or female.’
So it is clear, there is nothing against homosexuality or same-sex relationships in Hinduism – homophobes who claim otherwise are merely using religion as a shield for their own prejudices.

Sikhism

Sikhism has no specific teachings about homosexuality and
the Sikh holy book, the Guru Granth Sahib, does not explicitly mention it.
Views on homosexuality tend not to be a primary concern in Sikh teachings, as the universal goal of a Sikh is to have no hate or animosity to any person, regardless of race, caste, color, creed, gender, or sexuality.
But while the holy scripture, Guru Granth Sahib Ji, does not explicitly mention homosexuality, it does encourage married life time and again. And whenever marriage is mentioned, it is always in reference to a man and a woman.
Sikhs consider Guru Granth Sahib Ji to be the complete guide to life and salvation. As a result, some Sikhs believe that if a marriage between two people of the same sex is not mentioned, it is therefore not right.
The counter argument is that marriage is mentioned as a spiritual unity and since the soul does not have a gender, homosexuality should be permitted.
This argument is not enough though, to secure gay and lesbian marriages in the Sikh temples, the Gurdwara Sahibs. The religion only allows ceremonies which are clearly permitted to be conducted in their places of worship.
Sikhism does not hate LGBTI people or believe that homosexuals are damned to hell. Gurbani, the Sikh gurus, tell us that God is without hatred and animosity. We are all children of God.
Likewise, the temples, Gurdwara Sahibis, are open to all. God loves everyone regardless of one’s thoughts or actions. LGBTIs are free to attend the Gurdwara Sahib and participate in services.
There is still controversy, however.
Giani
Joginder Singh Vedanti, of the Akal Takht (the temporal Sikh authority in India), has condemned homosexuality while reminding visiting Sikh-Canadian Members of Parliament (MPs) of their religious duty to oppose same-sex marriage.
In a report published in March 2005, Vedanti said: ‘The basic duty of Sikh MPs in Canada should be to support laws that stop this kind of practice of homosexuality, because there are thousands of Sikhs living in Canada, to ensure that Sikhs do not fall prey to this practice.’
However, the Sikh-Canadian MP voted in support of marriage equality. Many Sikhs believe there is nothing wrong with homosexuality in Sikhism, and reject what is said by some of the preachers.
The greatest argument has to be the fundamental Sikh belief in equality – and here, at least, LGBTIs are on a strong footing.

Buddhism


Is homosexuality forbidden in Buddhism? Is it sexual misconduct? Let’s look at what Gautama Buddha, the founder of the religion says.
Gautama Buddha stated in one of the five precepts that lay-people should refrain from sexual misconduct. He never really elaborated on this point, only to say that a man should not fool around with a woman who is married or betrothed.
He did of course say in the Vinaya, which are the rules for monks and nuns, that they have to take a vow of celibacy, but no such rule was made for lay-people.
Buddha taught the five precepts to steer us away from cause harm to ourselves and others. It should be noted here that the precepts are not commandments, and are five things we should try to refrain from.
If the sexual act is not going to cause harm it should be consensual, affectionate, loving and not breaking any marriage vow or commitment. It should also not be abusive, such as sex with an under-age person or rape, and this includes forcing your partner into having sex.
So I believe in this way a consenting, loving homosexual act isn’t in any way against Buddha’s teachings.
Secondly we should look to Buddha’s last words as he was dying.
At the time the Venerable Anand, his companion, was weeping because Buddha was leaving the body and he said to Buddha: ‘You are leaving and I have not yet become enlightened. What about me? What will happen to me? The world will be absolutely dark for me – you were the light. And now you are going. Have compassion on us.’
Buddha opened his eyes and said ‘Appo deepo bhava’, which means ‘Be a light unto yourself’ – don’t follow anybody.
Buddha asked us to follow the light within us.
So it is clear there is nothing wrong with homosexuality if it is within us and if we do not harm the rights of other people or ourselves.
The celibate Dalai Lama has thrown his considerable moral weight behind equal marriage, condemning homophobia and saying lesbian and gay sex is fine as long as it is consensual.

Jainism


Jainism has not condemned homosexuality but it shuns all sexuality with the exception of procreation within a marriage.
This translates into no homosexual sex but does that mean it specifically shuns homosexuality? No. It reacts to homosexuality the same way it would pre-marital sex. Even sex within heterosexual marriage is only acceptable due to the need for more people to practice Jainism.
Jainism does not want to promote one sexuality or the other. All sexuality is oppressed, it just so happens that homosexual sex can not be for procreation, married or not, and therefore is not allowed at all.
So no follower from any of these faiths can claim ‘my religion says homosexuality is wrong’. At most, they can say that homosexuality is not formally endorsed by the faith – and even that requires a selective reading of the evidence.
Surely all religious heads have the moral and religious duty to re-think this issue in a modern light.

Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia Tagged With: acceptance, Buddhism, homosexuality, Jainism, religion, Sikhism

CHINESE VIDEO ENCOURAGING PARENTS TO WELCOME THEIR LGBT KIDS HOME

12/03/2015 By David McFarlane Leave a Comment

Reprinted from Debrief – Stevie Martin | Staff Writer | Thursday, 19 February 2015 
A video which might (should) make you cry!
China doesn’t have the best track record in terms of gay rights – homosexuality was defined until a mental disorder until 2001, and according to numerous reports, there’s still a lot of prejudice in the workplace and at home.
But Chinese LGBT organisation PFLAG (Parents, Families And Friends Of Lesbians And Gays) are combatting this with a short film that made us well up with happytears. And also sadtears. And then just all-the-emotion tears.
This week sees countless children come home, and families reunited for chun jie, as part of the Chinese New Year celebrations – but this can be hard when a child has come out, and is not accepted by their family.
Fielding difficult questions like ‘Where’s your girlfriend?’ and ‘When are you getting married?’ is hard enough if you’re straight, but when you’re gay and your family refuses to accept your sexuality, it can obviously be really upsetting. A lot of LGBT people are flat-out not accepted back into the home, and forced to celebrate Chinese New Year alone. It’s basically the equivalent of not being able to come home for Christmas, if Christmas lasted for way more than just one day.
The video, which has gone viral in China, follows a young gay guy who works up the courage to tell his mum about his sexuality, but finds himself cast out of the family. Then, after a long period of estrangement, his mother comes to him and tearfully accepts him back – with real mothers who have been in this very situation discussing the importance of acceptance, as the credits roll.
The main message for parents is: ‘Accept your children, welcome them home.’ And for children: ‘Don’t give up. Your parents might not understand today, but maybe they will tomorrow.’

We hope every family who has given their child a hard time for being gay, lesbian, bi or trans, watches this video, cries loads and calls them up immediately, to invite them back into their home.

Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia Tagged With: acceptance, chinese, LGBT, parents

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