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Review of “Oskar | A Coming-of-Age Short Film”

27/01/2026 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

OskarJoris Deffte’s “Oskar” is a student project that delves into familiar territory, focusing on the poignant transition of letting go of old friendships to embrace new beginnings. Deffte himself acknowledges a degree of dissatisfaction with the final product, yet his decision to share it offers viewers a glimpse into the challenges and rewards of youthful self-discovery.
 
The film centres around Oskar, played by Julian Maucher, as he navigates the shifting sands of adolescence. The narrative hinges on Oskar’s relationship with his old friend, Nick (played by Joris Deffte), and the necessity of moving on to find “new people and more joy in life.” While the description remains vague about the specific events that trigger this change, it’s clear that the film explores themes of growth, change, and the sometimes painful process of leaving the past behind.
 
The supporting cast, including Lara Jermann as Anna and Hamo Othman as Alex, likely play roles in Oskar’s journey, perhaps representing the “new people” he encounters. The involvement of family members, with Heike Werner von Niessen as Oskar’s Mother, Silke Deffte as Nick’s Mother, and Michael Deffte as Nick’s Father, suggests that the film also explores familial relationships and their impact on adolescent development.
Oskar Oskar
 
Technically, the film benefits from the work of Jan-Oliver Schenke as Director of Photography, with Linda Schmitz and Christopher Meier-Wilkening handling light and sound. The music, featuring Jack Vallier’s “Change Your Mind,” likely complements the film’s emotional tone.
 
Despite Deffte’s reservations, “Oskar” presents a relatable narrative about the complexities of growing up. Its exploration of friendship, change, and the search for personal fulfilment resonates with audiences who have experienced similar transitions in their own lives. While its status as a student project might imply certain limitations, the film’s heart and its willingness to tackle universal themes make it a worthwhile watch. The film is available on Joris’s YouTube channel.
Oskar
 
 
Oskar – CAST
Oskar – Julian Maucher
Anna –  Lara Jermann
Alex –   Hamo Othman
Nick-   Joris Deffte
Oskar’s Mum –  Heike Werner von Niessen
Nick’s Girlfriend –  Linda Schmitz
Nick’s Mother –  Silke Deffte
Nick’s Father –  Michael Deffte

CREW
Director of Photography –  Jan-Oliver Schenke
Light & Sound –  Linda Schmitz + Christopher Meier-Wilkening
Helping Hands –  Alexander Kläsener + Elvira Antipova

Editing =  Joris Deffte

MUSIC
Jack Vallier – Change Your Mind

Written and directed by Joris Deffte
Produced by Linda Schmitz & Joris Deffte

Links:

  • Oskar | A Coming-of-Age Short Film
  • ’17’ A Small Hookup Story with a Heavy Echo – A movie review
 
 

Filed Under: Movie Reviews, Reviews Tagged With: change, coming of age, English subtitles, friendship, growth, independent film, Joris Deffte, Oskar, short film, student project

Mrs. McCutcheon – Movie Review

11/08/2025 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

Review: Mrs. McCutcheon – A Radiant Short About Identity, Friendship, and Daring to Dance
By David McFarlane

Mrs McCutcheon Now and then, a short film comes along that says more in 16 minutes than some features manage in two hours. Mrs. McCutcheon, directed by John Sheedy and co-written with Ben Young, is one such gem — a heartfelt, unapologetic embrace of childhood difference, gender identity, and the bravery it takes to simply be yourself in a world that prefers conformity.

…Hey

This here, is my skin

This here is your skin

You got to be proud of that…

 

At the heart of the film is Tom — or rather, Mrs. McCutcheon — a 10-year-old child who knows, without hesitation, that the name assigned at birth does not reflect who they truly are. In a world that struggles to handle nuance, Mrs. McCutcheon strides forward in floral dresses and honesty, yearning not for attention but for belonging. Alec Golinger’s performance is luminous — tender without being twee, assured without being overly precocious. It’s the kind of portrayal that feels rare: childlike, but deeply wise.

Navigating a new school for the third time, Mrs. McCutcheon is predictably met with the usual cocktail of curiosity, ridicule, and cruelty. But amid the storm stands Trevor, played beautifully by Wesley Patten — a boy who understands what it means to be on the outside. As an Aboriginal child in a predominantly white school, Trevor’s marginalisation quietly mirrors Mrs. McCutcheon’s. Their friendship is the film’s heartbeat: subtle, sturdy, and transformative.

What Mrs. McCutcheon captures so well is the dual truth of childhood — that it can be both wildly cruel and deeply compassionate. The school dance, that almost-mythic rite of passage, becomes a stage for something far greater than a night of awkward swaying and bad punch. Without spoiling the moment, let’s just say the ending is bold, liberating, and quietly revolutionary. It left me teary-eyed and hopeful.

Technically, the film is a joy. Its cinematography bathes the story in warmth and colour, refusing to dull its vibrancy for the sake of “grit.” There’s humour, too — gentle, clever, and never at the expense of its characters. Sheedy and Young never preach, but they do remind us that courage isn’t always loud. Sometimes, it’s wearing a dress to a school dance and daring the world not to look away.Mrs McCutcheon Mrs McCutcheon

Mrs. McCutcheon is not just a celebration of gender diversity and youthful resilience — it’s a reminder that our differences are not flaws to overcome but truths to be honoured. And in today’s climate, where LGBTQ+ youth still face so many barriers, stories like this aren’t just important. They’re essential.

This award-winning short, lauded across festivals from Melbourne to São Paulo, deserves to be seen, shared, and remembered — not only for what it says, but for how beautifully it says it.

Director

John Sheedy

Writers

Ben Young

John Sheedy

Stars

Alec Golinger

Wesley Patten

Nadine Garner

 

Links:

  • YouTube – Mrs. McCutcheon
  • IMDb – Mrs. McCutcheon
  • Movie Lists

 

Filed Under: Movie Reviews, Reviews Tagged With: Alec Golinger, Australian short film, award-winning short, coming of age, diversity in film, friendship, gender identity, inclusive storytelling, John Sheedy, LGBTQ+ film, LGBTQ+ representation, Melbourne Queer Film Festival, Mrs. McCutcheon, queer cinema, Sao Paulo Short Film Festival, school dance, short film, Stream Short Films, trans youth, Wesley Patten

Boys or Jongens – A Gay Movie Review

21/06/2025 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

“Boys or Jongens” – A Movie Review

BoysSieger, just 15, had his eyes glued to the stopwatch and the track, convinced he knew his limits—physically, emotionally, personally. As he trains for the national relay champs, everything shifts when he crosses paths with Marc. A boy as wild and free as the wind, as unpredictable as a summer storm. Through shared laughs and quiet moments of ease, a connection sparks that goes way beyond friendship. When feelings start to deepen, Sieger embarks on more than just a race—it’s a journey into self-discovery, courage, and the true meaning of love.

Gijs Blom plays a particularly nuanced role as Sieger, coming to terms with being gay, whilst being part of the athletic world. As Sieger moves forward, he becomes friends with Marc (played by Ko Zandvliet), and they both enjoy the youthfulness of being in each other’s company.  A kiss happens whilst they are at a lake.  It has all the tenderness of a first kiss, with the sparcity of sex being thought about.

Boys or Jongens is a wonderful introduction to how love develops, the complexities and the joys.

Boys Boys Boys

 

 

 

Links:

  • YouTube – Boys or Jongens
  • IMDB – Boys or Jongens
  • Abysse 

Filed Under: Movie Reviews Tagged With: boys, coming of age, courage, emotional journey, friendship, Jongens, love, personal growth, relay race, self-discovery, sports drama, summer storm, teenage drama, youth

Abysse – A Short Movie Review

15/06/2025 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

 

AbysseAbysse is about loss. Félix and Matthieu have been friends since childhood, bound by years of shared memories. When Félix returns to Bordeaux for the summer, it’s with the hope of reconnecting and reliving those carefree days. But one evening, Matthieu vanishes without a trace, leaving Félix haunted by unanswered questions. He plunges into a world of silence and confusion, embarking on a relentless, almost senseless quest to reclaim a friendship that feels lost forever.

 

 

A film crafted with care by writer and director Justin Berrocal.

Starring: Vincent Lambin, Baptiste Miremont, Romane Braud, Oscar Lalanne, Justin Berrocal

Director of Photography: Florian Gislier
Original Music: Paul Klein
Editing: Thomas Lescure
Sound Engineer: Florian Gislier
Colour Grading/Mixing: Florian Gislier

Length: 15.48 mins

Links:

  • YouTube – Abysse
  • I’m Not Gay (2020) – Gay Short Movie Review

 

 

 

 

Filed Under: Movie Reviews Tagged With: Bordeaux, childhood, cinematography, disappearance, drama, emotional, film, film review, friendship, Justin Berrocal, loss, music, mystery, search, silent quest

Lucky Blue – A Short LGBTQ Movie Review

06/05/2025 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

Lucky BlueLucky Blue: Alright, so picture this: every summer, for as long as I can remember, my dad and I have this little tradition. We pack up the tent and head to the same camping ground, the one with the slightly dodgy showers but the best view of the lake. It’s not just us, though. There’s a whole crew of familiar faces, people we’ve camped with for years. It’s our little summer bubble, and it always wraps up with a gloriously off-key karaoke night.

Now, I’m not exactly the life of the party. I’m more of a quiet observer, happy to just soak it all in. I guess you could say I’m a bit introverted, maybe a little innocent even. I just… accept things, I suppose. People are nice, the world is mostly good, and love? Well, it just is.

But this one summer, something shifted. Our family friend, bless her heart, decided to bring her nephew, Kevin. Now, Kevin was different. You could tell he was a ‘city boy’ right away – a bit reserved, a bit wary. And he had this little budgerigar, a bright blue flash of feathers that he seemed genuinely attached to.

And then, because that’s just how things happen sometimes, I messed up. The budgie, in a moment of feathered rebellion, zipped out of its cage, and just like that, it was gone. Panic, a flurry of apologies from me, and a whole lot of quiet tension from Kevin.

What followed wasn’t what I expected. Instead of anger, there was… a sort of connection. Searching for that little bird, we started talking. And I started to see it – the layers of caution around Kevin, the way he seemed to flinch away from genuine warmth. It hit me that he’d probably had a tougher time of it than I ever had, that maybe love and acceptance weren’t as simple and straightforward for him as they were for me.Lucky Blue

And somewhere between searching for a runaway budgie and sharing hushed conversations under the stars, something new started to bud. A friendship, yes, but something deeper too. It was like he was learning to trust, and I was learning that love isn’t always just given; sometimes, it needs to be found, carefully and patiently, especially when it’s been lost before. It was a summer I won’t forget, the summer a little blue bird flew away and brought two very different people together.

 

Links:

  • Lucky Blue [2007] 
  • IMDB – Lucky Blue [2007]
  • Reel by Jens Choong – A Short LGBTQ Movie Review

 

Filed Under: Movie Reviews Tagged With: acceptance, budgerigar, camping, city boy, friendship, introverted, karaoke, love, Lucky Blue, relationships, summer tradition, trust

Reel by Jens Choong – A Short LGBTQ Movie Review

21/04/2025 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

Review of “Reel” by Jens Choong

Reel by Jens ChoongIn “Reel,” director and writer Jens Choong delivers a poignant exploration of friendship, identity, and the bittersweet nature of growing up. Set against the backdrop of a city on the cusp of change, the film centres on Victor (Fanny Ketter) and his best friend Robert (Toft Hervén) during the last day before Victor moves away. This timeline cleverly encapsulates the fleeting moments before a significant life transition, making the stakes feel personal and urgent.

The film opens with Victor and Robert engaging in their favourite pastimes—skateboarding, spraying graffiti, and simply hanging out. Each scene is imbued with a palpable sense of nostalgia and youthful exuberance, allowing viewers to reminisce about their friendships. However, beneath the light-hearted banter and carefree moments lies an undercurrent of tension, as the boys grapple with unspoken feelings and the impending distance that will soon separate them.

Choong’s direction is skilful, capturing both the joy of companionship and the struggles of self-discovery. The chemistry between Ketter and Hervén is electric, making their evolving dynamic feel authentic and relatable. As they navigate their day together, subtle shifts in their interactions signify a deeper connection, bringing to light the complexities of love and friendship at this age.

The cinematography enhances the narrative, with vibrant visuals that mirror the boys’ emotional journey. The streets of their city become a canvas for theirReel by Jens Choong expressions, both a playground and a reminder of what they stand to lose. The film’s pacing allows for moments of reflection, giving audiences space to absorb the weight of their impending separation.

“Reel” resonates not just as a short gay teenage friendship tale but as a universal exploration of identity and acceptance. It’s a heartfelt reminder that friendships can be transformative and often come with an intimacy that can be difficult to articulate. As Victor prepares to leave, the audience feels the ache of possibilities unvoiced, encapsulating the essence of what it means to navigate the complicated waters of growing up.

In conclusion, Jens Choong’s “Reel” is a beautifully crafted short film that not only captures the essence of youthful friendships but also delves into the profound realisations that come with them. The performances from Fanny Ketter and Toft Hervén are commendable, and together with Choong’s sensitive storytelling, they create a lasting impression that lingers long after the credits roll. This film is a touching exploration of the ties that bind us and the bittersweet nature of change, reminding us that sometimes, the truest connections are the hardest to leave behind.

 

 

 

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Links:

  • Youtube – Reel by Jens Choong
  • “Turn it Around” – by Niels Bourgonje – Gay Movie Review

Filed Under: Movie Reviews Tagged With: acceptance, bittersweet, coming of age, emotional journey, friendship, gay cinema, Identity, Jens Choong, LGBTQ, nostalgia, Reel, relationships, Robert, short film, short gay film., skateboarding, transformation, Victor, youth

From Roommates to Lovers – Gay Short Movie Review

03/04/2025 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

From Roommates to Lovers – What unfolds when two college roommates—one gay and the other straight—embark on an unexpected journey of love? This touching LGBTQ+ short film tells the story of a dashing junior who finds himself drawn to his straight senior roommate. As the days roll by, feelings intensify, culminating in a surprising confession during a casual game of cards. Just when it seems like nothing could come from it, the straight roommate starts to confront his own emotions and opens up to the possibility of love.

From Roommates to Lovers

This romantic short film (From Roommates to Lovers) captures the essence of self-discovery, acceptance, and the transformative power of love that transcends labels. Join them as their love story develops over five weeks in a college dorm, brimming with raw emotion, passion, and a profound connection that alters their lives forever.

 

 

 

Link:

  • YouTube – From Roommates to Lovers
  • Andy Marshalls, a humble oyster fisherman – Movie Review

Filed Under: Movie Reviews Tagged With: acceptance, college roommates, coming of age, emotional journey, friendship, gay cinema, LGBTQ, love story, romance, self-discovery, short film, transformation

Book Review: Just good friends: why a gay/straight friendship is at heart of The Organised Criminal

11/05/2015 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

After two gay-themed novels, Jarlath Gregory is happy that his latest, about family and crime in south Armagh, can have a gay character without feeling that he’s smuggled him in

Reprinted from The Irish Times –

Jarlath Gregory

Tue, May 5, 2015, 15:11

First published:Tue, May 5, 2015, 15:11
Jarlath Gregory: “Boom and bust aside, one major social change which has happened  is the almost total sweeping aside of casual homophobia amongst the younger generation”Jarlath Gregory: “Boom and bust aside, one major social change which has happened is the almost total sweeping aside of casual homophobia amongst the younger generation”

In 2007, having previously published two gay-themed novels, I applied for a modest Arts Council literature bursary, and began working on a literary thriller set in south Armagh. I felt that I’d said all I had to say, for the time being, about the gay male experience of my peers.

My first novel, Snapshots, explored the doomed erotic obsession of a student for the closeted object of his affections, against the backdrop of the Troubles. My second novel, G.A.A.Y One Hundred Ways to Love a Beautiful Loser, was a romantic comedy about an inner-city Dublin boy-band wannabe who falls for his sister’s ambiguously bisexual English Muslim boyfriend. Popular culture was catching up with lived experience, and the representations of LGBT characters in fiction, on television, and online were exploding and becoming more complex and nuanced. Crucial to this was the increasing number of people, particularly younger people, coming out and demanding to have their voices heard.

I had, in my own small way, added some gay representation to Irish fiction. Oisin and Jude in Snapshots were ordinary and laddish, their problems a reflection of the repressed and violent society they grew up in. Anto in G.A.A.Y was working-class, cute, and confident, a character with many stereotypically gay traits, but with the crucial difference of having an inner life, and not being merely the Gay Best Friend of a straight girl looking for a boyfriend. He was in love with a black, foreign religious minority. He turned the tables on his bullies. He got a happy ending – not something which happens often in fiction, even now.

Gay duty done, I was interested in exploring the dramatic possibilities of a fictional family who run a smuggling business in my native Crossmaglen. We read a lot of journalism about organised crime in south Armagh. The facts and figures are a matter of public record. But why not use the borderlands as the backdrop for a family drama? I began with something elemental, classic – the prodigal son returning home after a long absence, a wealthy but dangerous father who offers him one shot at redemption, a betrayal – knowing that I’d like to take the characters on a journey through the fallout of economic corruption, to an unexpected twist at the end. And then a strange thing happened right at the time I sat down to begin work on The Organised Criminal: the recession.

One of the truisms being bandied about at the time was that books were recession-proof. It soon became apparent to anyone working in a bookshop or a publishing house that this was not true. The simple fact was that books, to most people struggling through the unexpected financial meltdown, were a luxury which they could live without, get for free from their local library, or buy second-hand online for a few cent (although the cost of postage and packaging has, predictably, increased hugely in recent years).

I was fortunate enough to keep my job in the independent Chapters Bookstore, while chainstores such as Waterstone’s closed their doors in Dublin. On the other hand, it soon became clear that the book I’d written during the first throes of the recession was not a fashionable commodity. It was too political. It was too depressing. It was too Northern Irish. Readers wanted escapism. Publishers were not taking risks on edgy fiction. Publishers, it seemed for a very long time, were not taking anything – until the wealth of issues thrown up by our post-Celtic Tiger reality became the very lifeblood of our current literary renaissance.

Interestingly, it has been the independent publishers such as Lilliput, Liberties and Tramp who have relished the challenge of finding books which best express how we live now. After what seemed like an inordinately long time, but was actually the new average for an industry weathering the financial storm, Liberties offered to publish my novel and, as I sat down once again to edit it before a final submission, I asked myself if the book still had contemporary relevance.

Luckily, I felt that it did. While many new novels had tackled the recession as it affected the Republic of Ireland, this was very much a story of economic corruption in Northern Ireland, which, thanks in part to television shows like The Fall and Game of Thrones, has become slightly less uncool than it used to be. What struck me most upon rereading it, however, was a human aspect of the story which had grown organically as I wrote it, becoming an integral part of the tale without my consciously engineering it so.

At the heart of the book is the friendship between Jay O’Reilly, the narrator, a straight university student whose father is the most successful smuggler in south Armagh, and Martin Furey, his slightly younger friend, a tradesman who happens to be gay. The sexualities of these friends is wholly incidental to the plot. There are no love interests and no sex scenes – the book does not require them. Their sexualities are a subject of banter between them, a part of who each man is, but largely irrelevant to their friendship.

It came as a shock, even to me, to realise that to write about a friendship like this would not have been wholly credible 10 or 15 years ago – but it is now. Boom and bust aside, one major social change which has happened in that time is the almost total sweeping aside of casual homophobia amongst the younger generation. You need only look as far as the current marriage equality movement to see how far we have come since homosexuality was decriminalised in 1993. Record numbers of young voters have found an issue they passionately support. DCU and Cork Institute of Technology have suspended exams for the afternoon of May 22nd to allow students the chance to vote, while Trinity is holding only one exam, for fewer than 10 students. It seems the vast majority of students have pledged to vote Yes in favour of extending marriage rights to same-sex couples. USI president Laura Harmon has said that “polls consistently show that the large majority of young people are in favour of marriage equality in Ireland and the student vote cannot be underestimated”.

The most heart-warming aspect of the LGBT Pride parade in recent years has been the incredible upswell of support it has enjoyed from younger people, of all sexualities and gender identities. The labels which once separated us are still meaningful, but no longer mean that we can’t be friends. It’s rapidly becoming the norm that being lesbian, gay, bisexual or trans is not a barrier to staying friends with the straight pals you might once have frightened off by coming out – and that’s great for everyone.


Filed Under: Book Reviews Tagged With: friendship, Jarlath Gregory, snapshots, the organised criminal

Gay youth group reaches out to Arab minority in Israel

27/04/2015 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

‘In Jaffa, some people think being gay is a disease,’ says Arab counselor for Israel Gay Youth.

By Yarden Skop | Apr. 24, 2015 | 7:26 PM
Reprinted from Haaretz Website

Revelers wave rainbow flags during the annual gay pride parade in Tel Aviv June 13, 2014

Revelers wave rainbow flags during the annual gay pride parade in Tel Aviv June 13, 2014. Photo by Reuters


The Israel Gay Youth organization will be operating an Arab-language website as of this weekend, as part of its plan to work with gay Arab youngsters. This is the first time since the organization’s founding 13 years ago that it has approached the Arab minority.
The organization also plans to open Arabic-language forums for teenage boys and girls who need help and guidance regarding their sexual identity.
“One of our main challenges is working with gay Arab youth,” says the group’s CEO Ran Leabel. “We want to create a place that Arab youth can choose to be part of. We won’t blur their Arab identity but try to give it weight and space.”
The organization at first attempted to set up an Arab speaking group, but after recruiting guides, its leaders reached the conclusion that the ground had to be prepared first.
“From our meetings we learned that in Arab society, there isn’t a lot of discourse on the gay issue,” says Leabel. “So at this stage we’re not opening a group, but have translated our site, so that at least the information will be accessible to Arabic-speaking youth. We’re also setting up forums in which Arab-speaking guides will provide answers.”
One of the two Arab counselors who have been working with Israel Gay Youth for the past six month is Anton, who asked that his full name not be published for the sake of his parents, who know he’s gay but could face antagonism if their community knew, he says.
“I was a member of the Orthodox Scouts movement in Jaffa, and when I came out of the closet at the age of 19, they kicked me out,” says Anton, 22.
“The Arab community has fears that don’t exist in other communities, especially among teenagers who want to come out of the closet or have doubts about their sexual identity. Even in Jaffa, which is seen as more progressive, the gay issue is totally suppressed,” he says.
“Our society knows it exists but it isn’t spoken about. My family is wonderful, they took it hard when I came out, but they didn’t turn me away from home. I found it harder to deal with the social oppression in Jaffa. Everyone knows everyone else, so when someone declares himself to be gay, everyone knows about it and his person’s parents feel shame. It’s sad,” he says.
Anton says Arab gay youth have no sources of information about being gay, hence the importance of the assistance Israel Gay Youth can offer. “Until the age of 18, I thought I was the only gay person in the world,” he says. “I was completely cut off. We didn’t even have sex education at school. I went looking for a boy who had left our school, and I was told he was gay. I met him, he was in an art school and he introduced me to the community. Until 12th grade I never met a gay person or went to a gay party.”
The other counselor taking part in the project asked not to release even his first name because his family doesn’t know he’s gay. He is 32 and grew up in one of the Arab towns in the Triangle.
One of the reasons he didn’t join the organization earlier was its Zionist image. “But today I feel even more Zionist than the Jewish guides,” he says jokingly. “I don’t think there’s anything so Zionist in the organization’s activity that could be a problem for an Arab member.
“I want to help these kids, answer their questions, because I had no one,” he says. “I didn’t know what gay was and no one to talk to me about sexuality, a condom and the most basic, important things.
“I think we need a separate group for Arabs, because their mentality is different,” he continues. “Most of the families don’t live in Tel Aviv. The families in the north don’t know what gay is. In Jaffa, too, some think being gay is a disease. Our education is very different from the Jewish one. There are many in the closet and have to learn how to live like that, unlike Israelis who come out from the age of 12 or 13.”

Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia Tagged With: Arab, friendship, gay youth, Israeli, LGBT groups

Straight best friends become first-time boyfriends in most adorable internet thread ever

26/04/2015 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

You have to read this

20 APRIL 2015 | BY JOE MORGAN
 

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It’s the oldest gay story in the book.
Two guy best friends, both ‘straight’ to the other, have a drunken fumble and realise they have deeper feelings than they realised.
Well, maybe it’s not the oldest story, but it’s definitely a good one.
This happened to two guys in Georgia, and it all developed over Yik Yak.
The app, much like Whisper, allows people to share their secrets anonymously with strangers according to their location.
The original poster (he’s in green) asks for advice: ‘Last night, my best friend and I got really drunk and slept together. We’re both guys. It was fucking great.
‘But he’s “straight” and I’m questioning AND IM FREAKING OUT WHAT DO I DO HELP.’
Read the whole thing below, it’s got a great ending:

LINK:Straight best friends become first-time boyfriends in most adorable internet thread ever

Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia Tagged With: friends, friendship, gay, sex, straight

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