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Lucky Blue – A Short LGBTQ Movie Review

06/05/2025 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

Lucky BlueLucky Blue: Alright, so picture this: every summer, for as long as I can remember, my dad and I have this little tradition. We pack up the tent and head to the same camping ground, the one with the slightly dodgy showers but the best view of the lake. It’s not just us, though. There’s a whole crew of familiar faces, people we’ve camped with for years. It’s our little summer bubble, and it always wraps up with a gloriously off-key karaoke night.

Now, I’m not exactly the life of the party. I’m more of a quiet observer, happy to just soak it all in. I guess you could say I’m a bit introverted, maybe a little innocent even. I just… accept things, I suppose. People are nice, the world is mostly good, and love? Well, it just is.

But this one summer, something shifted. Our family friend, bless her heart, decided to bring her nephew, Kevin. Now, Kevin was different. You could tell he was a ‘city boy’ right away – a bit reserved, a bit wary. And he had this little budgerigar, a bright blue flash of feathers that he seemed genuinely attached to.

And then, because that’s just how things happen sometimes, I messed up. The budgie, in a moment of feathered rebellion, zipped out of its cage, and just like that, it was gone. Panic, a flurry of apologies from me, and a whole lot of quiet tension from Kevin.

What followed wasn’t what I expected. Instead of anger, there was… a sort of connection. Searching for that little bird, we started talking. And I started to see it – the layers of caution around Kevin, the way he seemed to flinch away from genuine warmth. It hit me that he’d probably had a tougher time of it than I ever had, that maybe love and acceptance weren’t as simple and straightforward for him as they were for me.Lucky Blue

And somewhere between searching for a runaway budgie and sharing hushed conversations under the stars, something new started to bud. A friendship, yes, but something deeper too. It was like he was learning to trust, and I was learning that love isn’t always just given; sometimes, it needs to be found, carefully and patiently, especially when it’s been lost before. It was a summer I won’t forget, the summer a little blue bird flew away and brought two very different people together.

 

Links:

  • Lucky Blue [2007] 
  • IMDB – Lucky Blue [2007]
  • Reel by Jens Choong – A Short LGBTQ Movie Review

 

Filed Under: Movie Reviews Tagged With: acceptance, budgerigar, camping, city boy, friendship, introverted, karaoke, love, Lucky Blue, relationships, summer tradition, trust

Reel by Jens Choong – A Short LGBTQ Movie Review

21/04/2025 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

Review of “Reel” by Jens Choong

Reel by Jens ChoongIn “Reel,” director and writer Jens Choong delivers a poignant exploration of friendship, identity, and the bittersweet nature of growing up. Set against the backdrop of a city on the cusp of change, the film centres on Victor (Fanny Ketter) and his best friend Robert (Toft Hervén) during the last day before Victor moves away. This timeline cleverly encapsulates the fleeting moments before a significant life transition, making the stakes feel personal and urgent.

The film opens with Victor and Robert engaging in their favourite pastimes—skateboarding, spraying graffiti, and simply hanging out. Each scene is imbued with a palpable sense of nostalgia and youthful exuberance, allowing viewers to reminisce about their friendships. However, beneath the light-hearted banter and carefree moments lies an undercurrent of tension, as the boys grapple with unspoken feelings and the impending distance that will soon separate them.

Choong’s direction is skilful, capturing both the joy of companionship and the struggles of self-discovery. The chemistry between Ketter and Hervén is electric, making their evolving dynamic feel authentic and relatable. As they navigate their day together, subtle shifts in their interactions signify a deeper connection, bringing to light the complexities of love and friendship at this age.

The cinematography enhances the narrative, with vibrant visuals that mirror the boys’ emotional journey. The streets of their city become a canvas for theirReel by Jens Choong expressions, both a playground and a reminder of what they stand to lose. The film’s pacing allows for moments of reflection, giving audiences space to absorb the weight of their impending separation.

“Reel” resonates not just as a short gay teenage friendship tale but as a universal exploration of identity and acceptance. It’s a heartfelt reminder that friendships can be transformative and often come with an intimacy that can be difficult to articulate. As Victor prepares to leave, the audience feels the ache of possibilities unvoiced, encapsulating the essence of what it means to navigate the complicated waters of growing up.

In conclusion, Jens Choong’s “Reel” is a beautifully crafted short film that not only captures the essence of youthful friendships but also delves into the profound realisations that come with them. The performances from Fanny Ketter and Toft Hervén are commendable, and together with Choong’s sensitive storytelling, they create a lasting impression that lingers long after the credits roll. This film is a touching exploration of the ties that bind us and the bittersweet nature of change, reminding us that sometimes, the truest connections are the hardest to leave behind.

 

 

 

Reel by Jens choong Reel by Jens Choong

 

Links:

  • Youtube – Reel by Jens Choong
  • “Turn it Around” – by Niels Bourgonje – Gay Movie Review

Filed Under: Movie Reviews Tagged With: acceptance, bittersweet, coming of age, emotional journey, friendship, gay cinema, Identity, Jens Choong, LGBTQ, nostalgia, Reel, relationships, Robert, short film, short gay film., skateboarding, transformation, Victor, youth

“Turn it Around” – by Niels Bourgonje – Gay Movie Review

08/04/2025 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

**”Turn it Around” by Niels Bourgonje: A Spiraling Journey of Self-Discovery and Redemption**

Turn It AroundIn “Turn it Around,” Niels Bourgonje crafts a compelling narrative that delves into the intricate landscape of self-discovery and the transformative power of redemption. The story follows the protagonist’s tumultuous journey, filled with struggles and revelations that resonate on multiple levels.

At the heart of the narrative is a poignant exploration of personal failings and the pursuit of change. Bourgonje masterfully portrays the character’s internal battles, highlighting the struggle to confront past mistakes while navigating the complexities of relationships and identity. As the protagonist grapples with their choices, readers are invited to join in a reflection on the universal themes of regret, growth, and the yearning for a second chance.

The storytelling is both vivid and intimate, allowing readers to connect deeply with the protagonist’s emotions. Each moment is steeped in introspection as the characters inch closer to understanding not only themselves but also the impact of their actions on those around them. Through gripping scenes and relatable dialogue, Bourgonje effectively captures the essence of what it means to “turn it around”—to embrace the possibility of change and forge a new path.

Bourgonje’s writing style is engaging and approachable, balancing moments of heart-wrenching honesty with flashes of hope and humor. The pacing maintains a rhythmic flow that keeps readers invested in the character’s journey, making it difficult to put the story down.

Ultimately, “Turn it Around” is more than just a tale of redemption; it serves as a reminder that the human experience is rich with opportunities for growth and transformation. Niels Bourgonje delivers an evocative narrative that resonates long after the last page is turned, inspiring readers to reflect on their journeys of self-discovery and the courage it takes to change. This is a must-read for anyone seeking a story that reflects the complexities of life, love, and the unyielding pursuit of a better tomorrow.

Original title – Turn it Around

Director – Niels Bourgonje

Writer – Paul Bontenbal

Producer – François Pieneman

With – Valentijn Avé, Tonko Bossen, Timo Dries Year – 2017

Links:

  • YouTube – Turn It Around
  • Sequin in a Blue Room

 

Filed Under: Movie Reviews Tagged With: character study, emotional narrative, gay sefl discovery, literature, Niels Bourgonje, personal growth, redemption, relationships, self-discovery, transformative journey, Turn it Around

Boyfriends with Girlfriends by Alex Sanchez

06/12/2015 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

BWG
Boyfriends with Girlfriends by Alex Sanchez — Reviews, Discussion, Bookclubs, ListsLance has always known he was gay, but he’s never had a real boyfriend. Sergio is bisexual, but his only real relationship was with a girl. When the two of them meet, they have an instant connection–but will it be enough to overcome their differences?
Allie’s been in a relationship with a guy for the last two years–but when she meets Kimiko, she can’t get her out of her mind. Does this mean she’s gay? Does it mean she’s bi? Kimiko, falling hard for Allie, and finding it impossible to believe that a gorgeous girl like Allie would be into her, is willing to stick around and help Allie figure it out.
Boyfriends with Girlfriends is Alex Sanchez at his best, writing with a sensitive hand to portray four very real teens striving to find their places in the world–and with each other.

Boyfriends with Girlfriends by Alex Sanchez — Reviews, Discussion, Bookclubs, Lists
Hardcover, 217 pages
Published April 19th 2011 by Simon & Schuster Books for Young Readers

Boyfriends with Girlfriends
ISBN
1416937730 (ISBN13: 9781416937739)

Filed Under: Book Reviews Tagged With: Alex Sanchez, relationships, teens

NUS: Less than 20% of students discuss LGBT issues in sex education

01/02/2015 By David McFarlane Leave a Comment

The NUS is calling for statutory SRE in all schoolsAn interesting survey, I wonder how much slant the survey took when students from Northern Ireland were incorporated – indeed what is not indicated is whether Queen’s University, Belfast or the Ulster University were included in the survey.

 
Less than a fifth of all university students discussed LGBT issues in their Sex and Relationships Education (SRE), a survey by the National Union of Students (NUS) reveals.
Gaps in teaching were uncovered, with three-quarters (75%) saying they found out about sex and relationships through friends.
According to respondents, consent was never touched upon in lessons for two-thirds of them, while relationships were covered for less than half.
The NUS said more than a third did not rate their SRE positively on equality and diversity, with less than a fifth saying they were taught about LGBT relationships.
More than half felt the issues they needed to know about were not taught, with only a third feeling they could practically apply their SRE to their real life.
Students agreed that porn was now a standard part of a young person’s life, but three-quarters felt it provided “unrealistic expectations”.
 
The union, which surveyed 2,500 students, said the results showed an urgent need for statutory SRE in all schools.
The NUS is calling for the measure to be introduced as part of its New Deal general election manifesto.
NUS Vice President Colum McGuire said: “SRE is failing millions. It is not currently compulsory for schools to teach young people about sexual consent and healthy relationships, and LGBT relationships.
“Ignoring all of this is just completely unrealistic. It will never go away – its life. Sexual consent, learning about equal and respectful relationships and gender stereotypes must be alien to this government as they don’t rate them high on the list to educate young people on.
 
“The government has a responsibility to provide a safe and reliable environment to explore sex and relationships. This is about providing the knowledge young people need in order to make good decisions for themselves.”
A Department for Education spokesman said: “Good quality relationship education is an important part of preparing young people for life in modern Britain, and our statutory guidance makes clear that it must be taught in an age appropriate way.
“Sex and relationship education is compulsory in all maintained secondary schools and many primary schools also teach it in an age appropriate manner.
“We also expect academies and free schools to deliver relationship education as part of their provision of a broad and balanced curriculum.
“We have set up a new expert subject group on personal, social and health education (PSHE) to support teachers, made up of leading professionals in the field, and will clarify the key areas on which teachers most need further support and produce new resources where necessary.”
The Education Select Committee will publish its findings on SRE in schools imminently, with the Conservatives yet to announce their position. Both Labour and the Liberal Democrats Labour are committed to introducing compulsory SRE
 
Statutory status would allow SRE to be treated as other subjects – with teachers getting enhanced training, and enough time being allocated in school time-tables for the subject to address real life issues including – respectful relationships consent and LGBT.
 
Original article: http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2015/01/29/nus-less-than-20-of-students-discuss-lgbt-issues-in-sex-education/

Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia, History Tagged With: education, NUS, relationships, sex, Sex and Relationships Education, SRE, survey

UK gvmt tells faith-based schools they must promote gay ‘rights’

06/11/2014 By David McFarlane Leave a Comment

Thaddeus Baklinski, LifeSiteNews.com, Nov, 3, 2014
do_not_tolerate_intoleranceEducation Secretary Nicky Morgan has informed UK faith-based schools that if they don’t comply with new rules requiring them to “actively promote British values,” including teaching tolerance of homosexuality, they could face closure.
“Schools should broaden horizons, not close minds, and should encourage pupils to respect other people even if they do not agree with them. I should have thought this is a principle with which the vast majority of people would agree,” said Morgan.
Morgan is on record for having voted against same-sex “marriage,” but has since said she changed her mind about the issue.
The new rules introduced by the Department of Education give inspectors from the Office for Standards in Education (Ofsted) power to downgrade the ratings of, or even close, schools that do not conform to the Equality Act.
So the question now is will the Ulster Assembly enact this for faith schools in Northern Ireland – on June 13, 2013 Gary Spedding wrote:
…In Northern Ireland, there is already curriculum covering relationship and sex education, but, difficulty comes in the lack of consistent implementation. This must be addressed urgently by the Education Minister, John O’Dowd. I hope that he and indeed many others will share in the opinion, that implementing PSHE and RSE (Relationship and Sex Education) as compulsory topics of study in the NI curriculum would be an exceptionally positive initial step forward for Northern Ireland…
 
The Rainbow Project in Northern Ireland wrote:
…Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender (LGB&T) young people are a vulnerable group in our society. The Department of Education has an obligation to ensure that these young people are not discriminated against and to actively promote equality of opportunity for them.
Educational structures in Northern Ireland are inherently and systemically heterosexist institutions. By heterosexist we mean that to be heterosexual is not simply considered as more common than same-sex attracted but as normal, correct and morally superior…We now face the absurd anomaly that an LGB&T sixteen-year old with a part time job is better protected in their place of employment than in their place of education.Challenging Homophobia in Primary Schools
 
Further reading:

  • It’s Time to Put Consent in the Northern Irish Curriculum
  • Education in Northern Ireland

 

Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia, Campaigns Tagged With: assembly, faith-based, gay, MLAs, Northern Ireland, relationships, schools

Relationships

23/02/2014 By David McFarlane Leave a Comment

When you start thinking on relationships, you suddenly realize that every one of us has a myriad of relationships which cover every strata of our lives.
A dictionary definition which I like is ‘an emotional or other connection between people’ – for me this says it all; however for some people it will probably not encompass the relationships that they have with their pets, cars, homes etc.
A wonderful quote I came across is:
“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.”
Christopher Isherwood said:
It seems to me that the real clue to your sex-orientation lies in your romantic feelings rather than ijn your sexual feelings.  If you are gay, you are able to fall in love with a man, or woman, depending on your preference, and not just enjoy having sex with him or her. (with a small adjustment by the editor).
There has been a wonderful photographic project put together by Braden Summers entitled ‘ALL LOVE IS EQUAL’.  The pictures are brilliant in their composition and in the feelings that they encompass and portray.
 
Three photographs from the project:

At One With Nature Eastern Promise Friendship with Age

Filed Under: History Tagged With: gay, lesbian, LGBT, relationships

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