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Boys or Jongens – A Gay Movie Review

21/06/2025 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

“Boys or Jongens” – A Movie Review

BoysSieger, just 15, had his eyes glued to the stopwatch and the track, convinced he knew his limits—physically, emotionally, personally. As he trains for the national relay champs, everything shifts when he crosses paths with Marc. A boy as wild and free as the wind, as unpredictable as a summer storm. Through shared laughs and quiet moments of ease, a connection sparks that goes way beyond friendship. When feelings start to deepen, Sieger embarks on more than just a race—it’s a journey into self-discovery, courage, and the true meaning of love.

Gijs Blom plays a particularly nuanced role as Sieger, coming to terms with being gay, whilst being part of the athletic world. As Sieger moves forward, he becomes friends with Marc (played by Ko Zandvliet), and they both enjoy the youthfulness of being in each other’s company.  A kiss happens whilst they are at a lake.  It has all the tenderness of a first kiss, with the sparcity of sex being thought about.

Boys or Jongens is a wonderful introduction to how love develops, the complexities and the joys.

Boys Boys Boys

 

 

 

Links:

  • YouTube – Boys or Jongens
  • IMDB – Boys or Jongens
  • Abysse 

Filed Under: Movie Reviews Tagged With: boys, coming of age, courage, emotional journey, friendship, Jongens, love, personal growth, relay race, self-discovery, sports drama, summer storm, teenage drama, youth

Lucky Blue – A Short LGBTQ Movie Review

06/05/2025 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

Lucky BlueLucky Blue: Alright, so picture this: every summer, for as long as I can remember, my dad and I have this little tradition. We pack up the tent and head to the same camping ground, the one with the slightly dodgy showers but the best view of the lake. It’s not just us, though. There’s a whole crew of familiar faces, people we’ve camped with for years. It’s our little summer bubble, and it always wraps up with a gloriously off-key karaoke night.

Now, I’m not exactly the life of the party. I’m more of a quiet observer, happy to just soak it all in. I guess you could say I’m a bit introverted, maybe a little innocent even. I just… accept things, I suppose. People are nice, the world is mostly good, and love? Well, it just is.

But this one summer, something shifted. Our family friend, bless her heart, decided to bring her nephew, Kevin. Now, Kevin was different. You could tell he was a ‘city boy’ right away – a bit reserved, a bit wary. And he had this little budgerigar, a bright blue flash of feathers that he seemed genuinely attached to.

And then, because that’s just how things happen sometimes, I messed up. The budgie, in a moment of feathered rebellion, zipped out of its cage, and just like that, it was gone. Panic, a flurry of apologies from me, and a whole lot of quiet tension from Kevin.

What followed wasn’t what I expected. Instead of anger, there was… a sort of connection. Searching for that little bird, we started talking. And I started to see it – the layers of caution around Kevin, the way he seemed to flinch away from genuine warmth. It hit me that he’d probably had a tougher time of it than I ever had, that maybe love and acceptance weren’t as simple and straightforward for him as they were for me.Lucky Blue

And somewhere between searching for a runaway budgie and sharing hushed conversations under the stars, something new started to bud. A friendship, yes, but something deeper too. It was like he was learning to trust, and I was learning that love isn’t always just given; sometimes, it needs to be found, carefully and patiently, especially when it’s been lost before. It was a summer I won’t forget, the summer a little blue bird flew away and brought two very different people together.

 

Links:

  • Lucky Blue [2007] 
  • IMDB – Lucky Blue [2007]
  • Reel by Jens Choong – A Short LGBTQ Movie Review

 

Filed Under: Movie Reviews Tagged With: acceptance, budgerigar, camping, city boy, friendship, introverted, karaoke, love, Lucky Blue, relationships, summer tradition, trust

Listen, in life you have to take your time…

19/09/2021 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

I was reading the Guardian Weekend magazine from the 4th of September and came across a series of articles on grandchild and grandparents.  The basis of the articles was how much do these groups really understand each other?  Each story was interesting in that the individuals from each group seemed to respect and understand each other, but one story stood out for me; that Louis Brow (21) and Bob Smith (80).  They both seemed to love and appreciate each other and to have a deep understanding of where they were, but it is Bob Smith’s response to Louis that I really loved..

 

“Listen, in life you’ve just got to take your time and go slow because if you go too fast you miss the beauty of life” 

and Louis seemed to get the drift, for he said ‘It’s stuck with me, has that’

 

Listen, in life you have to take your time... Listen, in life you have to take your time...

 

Links:

  • Louis Brow
  • ‘Know how to flex on Insta?’: grandchildren and grandparents explain the world to each other

 

 

Filed Under: Editor to ACOMSDave Tagged With: bob Smith, Grand-children, Grandparents, Louis Brow, love, respect, The Guardian, Understanding

Boys On Film 2: In Too Deep

15/08/2016 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

BOYS ON FILM 2
In Too Deep
Peccadillo Pictures
2007
5 060018 651637
peccapics.com
Boys On film 2: In Too Deep

**Boys On Film 2: In Too Deep: A Collection of Encountering Desire and Identity**

The title of this collection, *In Too Deep*, offers a cheeky nod to one of the contributions, “Kali Ma,” set near a swimming pool, hinting at the tangled web of sexual and emotional connections explored across the nine films compiled here. This eclectic mix features two entries from the USA, both set in the vibrant backdrop of New York City, alongside two from Australia’s sunny Sydney. Adding a splash of international flair, we have one film each from Sweden, Canada, France, and Mexico—where “Bramadero” unfolds, a visually striking piece that embraces the surreal, featuring two striking men meeting in a seemingly abandoned building. The film dances on the line between social realism and magic realism, artfully capturing their intimate encounter in a mesmerizing, desolate setting.

Among the shorter contributions, *The Island* from Canada presents Trevor Anderson trudging through the snowy expanse of northern Alberta. The film cleverly critiques a macho talk show suggestion that all “homos” should be isolated on an imaginary island to prevent the spread of HIV. As Trevor walks through the winter landscape, his daydream visions of a “homo utopia” burst forth in vibrant animation, humorously juxtaposing the harsh realities with fantastical notions of sunshine, sex, and sangria, excluding the chaos of storms or calamities. This delightful short is a warm breath of fresh air.

*Love Bite* dives into the lives of two teenage boys sharing a spliff and, ultimately, a secret. One boy, who believes the other is disgusted at the thought of him being queer, is actually hiding his own monstrous secret—he’s a werewolf. This lighthearted narrative takes a dark turn with a gory climax that leaves a lasting impression.

Then there’s *Working It Out*, a comedic examination of jealousy within a couple at the gym, where charm takes a backseat to style, and one partner’s insecurities are on full display. Despite the performers’ less than engaging presence and the gym’s unremarkable setting, the story captures a slice of modern relationship dynamics, though it may not resonate with everyone.

Futures & Derivatives offers a baffling narrative revolving around a businessman trying to impress his superiors with a presentation. However, the true focus shifts to a quirky outsider who, while working through the night, infuses the dull office environment with creativity—a charming mix of corporate seriousness and whimsical style.

Meanwhile, *Lucky Blue* transports us to Sweden, where the pet budgerigar of a traveling family becomes a sweet backdrop to young Lasse’s crush on Kevin, the tall, blonde boy he yearns for. The film wraps up with Lasse’s endearing love song to Kevin, leaving viewers with a sense of hopeful innocence.

*Cowboy*, hailing from Germany, introduces us to Oliver Scherz’s character—an estate agent surveying a rundown farm where he encounters a captivating, enigmatic wild boy played by Pit Bokowski. Their passionate, explicit connection amidst the decay of the farm hints at deeper themes of desire and escape.

*Weekend in the Countryside* presents an intriguing dynamic between two young men, Théo Frilet and Pierre Moure, and a slightly older man overseeing their stay at a rural estate. With fears and tensions simmering, the narrative captures complex emotions against the backdrop of the countryside, leading to an ambiguous conclusion that invites contemplation.

Finally, “Kali Ma” is a layered narrative set against the backdrop of New York City. It centers around a mother-son duo grappling with bullying and cultural identity. As *Ma*, portrayed by Kamini Khanna, confronts the tormentor of her son, the film evolves into a fierce exploration of maternal instincts and vengeance, culminating in a humorous yet poignant moment of rebirth and camaraderie between the boys.

Each film in *In Too Deep* explores the intersections of identity, desire, and intimacy, crafting narratives that resonate with the complexities of modern life. This collection invites viewers to reflect on their experiences and emotions while providing a richly diverse lens on love and the human condition. A captivating assembly, these films offer a fresh perspective, showcasing the vibrancy and diversity of contemporary storytelling across the globe.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Links:

  • Amazon.co.uk – Boys On Film 2: In Too Deep [DVD] [2008]
  • “Silver Road” – Gay Short Film 2006 – Movie Review
 
Segments and Cast:
  • “Cowboy” (Till Kleinert):
    • Oliver Scherz as Christian
    • Pit Bukowski as Cowboy
  • “Lucky Blue” (Håkon Liu):
    • Tobias Bengtsson as Olle
    • Tom Lofterud as Kevin
  • “Weekend In The Countryside”:
    • Théo Frilet as Pierre
    • Pierre Moure as Marc
    • Jean-Claude Dumas as Father
  • “Kali Ma”:
    • Kamini Khanna as Kali Ma
    • Brendan Bradley as Peter King
    • Manish Dayal as Santosh
  • “Bramadero”:
    • Cristhian Rodríguez as Hassen
    • Sergio Almazán as Jonás
  • “Love Bite”:
    • Will Field as Noah
    • Aidan Calabria as Gus
  • “The Island”:
    • Trevor Anderson as Himself
  • “Futures (and Derivatives)”:
    • Kelly Miller as Roger
    • Cam Kornman as Adele Lenz
    • Bill Barnett as Marty Simko
    • Bigi Ebbin as Roger’s Secretary
    • Vin Knight as Gordon Heath
    • Mark Hervey as Elliott
  • “Working It Out”:
    • Simon Kearney as Marcus
    • Paul Ross as Peter
    • Glaston Toft as Jeremy 
       

Filed Under: Movie Reviews Tagged With: boys, cowboys, gay, love, movies, werewolves

Watch an Intimate Scene Between Young Men in ‘Charlie’

23/12/2015 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

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BY OUT.COM EDITORS
DECEMBER 21 2015 
Charlie Movie starring Shawn Ryan

Breaking Glass Pictures

No one ever listened to Charlie until he stopped speaking.

Written and directed by Shawn Ryan (Bones, America’s Got Talent), who also plays the film’s title character, a young man named Charlie who goes mute after putting his abusive past behind him and then faints in front of the Sanderson family home on Christmas Eve.
“Charlie” was nominated for the Emerging Filmmaker Award in the American Pavilion at the 2015 Cannes Film Festival, and Ryan won Best Actor at the Riverbend Film Festival. The film was also recognized as the Best Short at the Gulf Coast Film Festival, and Best International Short at the Shropshire Film Festival.
You can watch it now on WatchBGPfilms.com.

Filed Under: Movie Reviews Tagged With: Charlie, emerging film, love, movie, tender love story, young men

Stunning Portraits Of LGBT People Show Where Love Is Illegal All Over The World

22/08/2015 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

Editorial:  I make not apologies for putting this up on our site, whilst we in Northern Ireland have hopefully moved on, there are still elements who would have us treated as second or even third class citizens, and ho attack our homes and even us as individuals.

Please remember,

HATE IS NOT ACCEPTABLE IN A WELCOMING, SUPPORTIVE, AND LOVING SOCIETY

 
Photographer Robin Hammond has created a stunning photo series exploring what it’s like to be LGBT in the places where loving someone of the same sex is illegal.
Portraits from the ‘Where Love Is Illegal’ project span seven different countries, and explore the intolerance, abuse and hatred that many LGBT people are subjected to.
Hammond told National Geographic: “My projects often come from an experience or a view of an injustice, something that makes me angry. It became vital to me to tell these stories—the ones that had not yet been told.”
 

WHERE LOVE IS ILLEGAL

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Further Reading:

  • Huffington Post – Stunning Portraits Of LGBT People Show Where Love Is Illegal All Over The World

Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia, History Tagged With: illegal, lgbt. portraits, love

Two Male Dancers Break Your Heart With Their Muscular Bodies

29/03/2015 By David McFarlane Leave a Comment

The Huffington Post  |  By Priscilla Frank
Posted: 03/26/2015 8:48 am EDT Updated: 03/26/2015 8:59 am EDT

 

Two male dancers express what it is to be in love and then…

For most of us, the aftermath of a breakup involves a pint of ice cream and a box of tissues. For those of us who possess talent in the realm of dance, however, heartbreak sometimes leads to higher artistic outpouring.
Allow CODECdance to show you what we mean. In the short film below, the New York-based multidisciplinary dance company shows what happens in those final moments when a relationship fades into oblivion — well, at least for those of us who engage in serious choreography with our romantic partners.

Cry it out, people. And get more ballet fixes here, here, here and here.

Filed Under: Theatre Reviews Tagged With: CODECdance, falling out of love, love, male dancers

In ‘Time’ Video, Steve Grand Cozies Up To Model Daniel Williams, But It’s Far From A Perfect Love

28/03/2015 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

The Huffington Post  |  By Curtis M. Wong
Posted: 03/27/2015 2:17 pm EDT Updated: 03/27/2015 2:59 pm EDT

 
Singer-songwriter Steve Grand finds — and loses — love in snowy Chicago in his latest video, “Time.”
The out star, 25, gets cozy with hunky model Daniel Williams in the clip for the piano-driven pop ballad, which is a cut from his debut album, “All-American Boy,” released March 23.
The video explores the entire course of a relationship — from the couple’s first meeting on an empty train station platform to a fiery breakup, with a playful snowball fight in between — in just over five minutes. Still, there’s a surprise twist at the end.
“My lyric style is definitely very story-driven,” Grand, who has cited Billy Joel, Lady Gaga and Bruce Springsteen as musical influences, told HuffPost Live earlier this year. “I try to tell stories from my life, whether it’s one single moment in time or something that’s been recurring in my life.”
The album, he said, “is an arc, and every song is a plot point on that arc.”

Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia Tagged With: daniel williams, gay love, love, railway station, steve grand, time

In 'Time' Video, Steve Grand Cozies Up To Model Daniel Williams, But It's Far From A Perfect Love

28/03/2015 By David McFarlane Leave a Comment

The Huffington Post  |  By Curtis M. Wong
Posted: 03/27/2015 2:17 pm EDT Updated: 03/27/2015 2:59 pm EDT

 
Singer-songwriter Steve Grand finds — and loses — love in snowy Chicago in his latest video, “Time.”
The out star, 25, gets cozy with hunky model Daniel Williams in the clip for the piano-driven pop ballad, which is a cut from his debut album, “All-American Boy,” released March 23.
The video explores the entire course of a relationship — from the couple’s first meeting on an empty train station platform to a fiery breakup, with a playful snowball fight in between — in just over five minutes. Still, there’s a surprise twist at the end.
“My lyric style is definitely very story-driven,” Grand, who has cited Billy Joel, Lady Gaga and Bruce Springsteen as musical influences, told HuffPost Live earlier this year. “I try to tell stories from my life, whether it’s one single moment in time or something that’s been recurring in my life.”
The album, he said, “is an arc, and every song is a plot point on that arc.”

Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia Tagged With: daniel williams, gay love, love, railway station, steve grand, time

Love in black and white

13/03/2015 By David McFarlane Leave a Comment

Love in black and white: Farm’s pair of gay Humboldt penguins celebrate their first anniversary together

  • Peso and Squaddle coupled up after shunning females looking to mate
  • A year on, two-year-old Humboltd penguins only have eyes for each other
  • Staff gave couple a false egg during breeding season but they threw it out

Mail Online – By KHALEDA RAHMAN FOR MAILONLINE

PUBLISHED: 14:47, 12 March 2015 | UPDATED: 15:21, 12 March 2015

These gay penguins have been together for a year, but are still as loved-up as ever.

Peso and Squaddle, two-year-old Humboldt penguins living at Folly Farm Adventure Park and Zoo in Pembrokeshire, coupled up a year ago after shunning females looking to mate.

While their fellow penguins prepare for breeding season, the pair only have eyes for each other as they get ready to celebrate their first anniversary this month.

Happy anniversary! Peso (right) and Squaddle (left) got together after shunning females looking to mate

Happy anniversary! Peso (right) and Squaddle (left) got together after shunning females looking to mate

Two's company! Zoo staff had given the couple a false egg during breeding season, but they threw it away

Two’s company! Zoo staff had given the couple a false egg during breeding season, but they threw it away

Staff at Folly Farm say the young lovers have no interest in procreating.

They had been given a false egg, so that they wouldn’t feel left out during breeding season – but they threw it out of their love nest.

Penguin keeper Catrin Thomas said: ‘We’re approaching breeding season and at around two years old, penguins become sexually mature, so we thought this year they may show some interest but they haven’t as yet.

‘All the other penguins are busy making nests at the top of the penguin beach, scrambling around hurriedly and gathering twigs, but Peso and Squaddle stay by the pool preening each other.’

Penguin posers: The Humboldts, who live at Folly Farm, Pembrokeshire, are celebrating their first anniversary 

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Penguin posers: The Humboldts, who live at Folly Farm, Pembrokeshire, are celebrating their first anniversary

They only have eyes for each other! The pair have no interest in procreating and threw the egg of their nest

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They only have eyes for each other! The pair have no interest in procreating and threw the egg of their nest

She added: ‘Peso and Squaddle don’t seem to be interested in anything else but each other, and certainly not procreating.

‘They’re just enjoying each other’s company.’

Tim Morphew, Folly Farm’s zoo manager, said: ‘We wanted to mark the occasion and the year anniversary of Peso and Squaddle getting together.

‘Everybody who comes to Folly Farm says theirs is a really sweet love story and we wanted to celebrate the fact they were still going strong a year on.’

Humboltd penguins, who are monogamous and mate for life, can take a partner aged between two and eight-years-old.

CAN PENGUINS BE GAY? FROM THE FAMOUS SAME-SEX COUPLE TO THE BEST PARENTS EVER 

Penguins have been observed engaging in homosexual behaviour from as early as 1911.

George Murray Levick documented the sexual behaviour of Adélie penguins in Antarctica, but his notes were considered too indecent to publish at the time. They were rediscovered and published in the journal Polar Record a century later in 2012.

More recently, a pair of chinstrap penguins called Roy and Silo became a famous ‘gay penguin’ couple after the New York Times published an article about them in 2004.

The penguins, who live in New York’s Central Park Zoo, were noticed performing mating rituals in 1998, by staff – although they were never seen to perform sex acts.

They were then given an egg to hatch and raise as their own – a practice copied by zoos across the world. Their chick, named Tango, grew up to form a same sex relationship with another female penguin.

Their story was the basis for a controversial children’s book in 2005 called ‘And Tango Makes Three’. But the couple later split, and Silo paired with a female penguin.

Last year, a pair of Humboldt penguins, called Jumbs and Kermit, from Wingham Wildlife Park in Kent, adopted the chick of a female called Isobel who had to abandon her egg to find food.

Staff at Wingham Wildlife Park said they were the two ‘best penguin parents’ the zoo has ever had.

But a French study in 2010 said penguins only have gay ‘flings’ because they are lonely, but ultimately end up in a heterosexual couple.

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2991709/Love-black-white-Farm-s-pair-gay-Humboldt-penguins-celebrate-anniversary-together.html#ixzz3UGKQ2kvW
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Filed Under: TV programme reviews Tagged With: gay, love, penquins

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