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Cara Friend – 50 years young

25/06/2025 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

Cara Friend50 years young, Cara Friend is celebrating its half century in style.  The bastion of hope and support for so many, during the time of repression, persecution and at times physical attacks for the LGBTQI+ community, Cara Friend is remembering its beginnings and looking forward to its future.

Northern Ireland, in many ways,  has always been reluctant to move forward with change.  In 1967, the Sexual Offences Act decriminalised sexual activity between men over 21 in private in England and Wales; it did not apply to the Armed Forces, Merchant Navy or Scotland (later decriminalised on February 1st 1981), the Channel Islands, or the Isle of Man.

But, Northern Ireland didn’t see change until 1982 with the Homosexual Offences (Northern Ireland) Order, which legalised homosexual acts between consenting adults.  This change was brought about through the result of the Dudgeon v United Kingdom government case, which was the first successful case brought before the European Court of Human Rights (ECHR) on the criminalisation of male homosexuality.

This trial was supported by NIGRA (Northern Ireland Gay Rights Association), the 1974 Committee, and Cara Friend, along with many other organisations andprivate individuals.

During April 2025, there have been several events celebrating Cara Friends’ half century of excellence:

  • A photographic exhibition of volunteers was launched and then put on display in the Linen Hall Library (which is very supportive of our community).  This was brought about through funding from The National Lottery Heritage Fund NI (and again, others, too many to list here – see back of the wonderful booklet “Dear Friend, The History of Cara-Friend 1974-2000”).  The launch took place at a private showing for Cara Friend’s befrienders and selected guests on the evening of February 3, 2025, with the general public able to access it from February 4 to February 28, 2025.  This exhibition of 21 exquisite portraits explores the experiences of Cara-Friend volunteers, including those who founded the charity and guided it through the 1970s and 1980s. 
  • On the 12th February, a panel of four befriender originators of Cara Friend was held in the Linen Hall Library from 1=2pm.  It was very well attended (and honest, no one fell asleep).
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  • A wonderful booklet, as mentioned above, “Dear Friend, The History of Cara-Friend 1974-2000”, researched and produced by Michael Lawrence as part of a six-month internship with CF from Queen’s University.

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It is anticipated that the exhibition will travel to various Northern Ireland and UK venues, and will also be on show at Kent State University, USA.

The thanks of everyone involved in the project (befrienders, volunteers) are also given to photographer Timothy O’Connell and oral historian Dr. Molly Merryman. Many thanks also to the team at the Queer NI – Sexuality Before Liberation Project (funded by the AHRC, AH/V008404/1), including Dr. Charlie Lynch, for their support throughout the project.

  • Founding Cara-Friend Panel Discussion
  • Cara Friend
  • PRONI
  • Queen’s University – Cara-Friend Annual Reports 1971-2005
  • ‘Gay people were living in fear’ – play marks 50 years of helpline
  • Professor Molly Merryman, Ph.D., associate professor in Kent State University’s School of Peace and Conflict Studies
  • NIGRA Communications Forum
  • Founding Cara-Friend

 

 

 

 

Filed Under: Editor to ACOMSDave Tagged With: 50th anniversary, Cara Friend, community support, equality, LGBT rights, LGBTQ advocacy, LGBTQ+ History, LGBTQI+ community, LGBTQI+ organization, LGBTQI+ support, Northern Ireland, Northern Ireland LGBTQ, Pride, queer history

LGBTQIA+ Heritage Symposium 2024

15/11/2024 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

I was fortunate to attend the LGBTQIA+ Heritage Symposium 2024, at Queen’s University Belfast. Queens University the hosts, granted the community the opportunity to use the esteemed Canada Room.

Cara-Friend has expressed it’s heartfelt thanks to all the speakers and audience members who attended the LGBTQIA+ Heritage Symposium.

This symposium gathered a diverse group of academics, heritage institutions, LGBTQIA+ community workers, artists, students, and volunteers dedicated to preserving and exploring LGBTQIA+ heritage.

The Lord Mayor of Belfast, Cllr. Micky Murray also attended and actively engaged with everyone in attendance.

This event was part of the ‘Founding Cara-Friend: Preserving At Risk LGBTQIA+ Heritage Project,’ which has received generous funding from The National Lottery Heritage Fund Northern Ireland for £24,900.

This funding will empower Cara-Friend to safeguard at-risk heritage related to its inception in 1974 and the crucial early years of the charity during the 70s and 80s.

Linked in this article are the three panels that ran as voice recordings (next time I will be better prepared), and also are photographs that I took during the symposium.

I would welcome any comments and observations that you have, as I am sure the Cara Friend will welcome all the support that you can offer them.

 

Links:

LGBTQIA+ Heritage Symposium 2024

                                                                 LGBTQIA+ Heritage Symposium 2024

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  1. School of Peace and Conflict Studies, Kent State University 
  2. Cara-Friend
  3. NIGRA Communications forum
  4. The Carpenter Club

 

Filed Under: Community Journalist Tagged With: Cara Friend, Cllr. Micky Murray, Community Engagement, Heritage Symposium, LGBTQIA+, LGBTQIA+ history, NIGRA, Northern Ireland, preservation, Queen's University Belfast

Queer Narratives: Lived Experience, Activism & Change in Northern Ireland

27/07/2023 By ACOMSDave

PERFORMANCE AREA | £6.50 / £5.00 (MEMBERS)

QUEER NARRATIVES: LIVED EXPERIENCE, ACTIVISM & CHANGE IN NORTHERN IRELANDQUEER NARRATIVES: LIVED EXPERIENCE, ACTIVISM & CHANGE IN NORTHERN IRELAND – To mark Belfast Pride, we have invited artists and activists from the LGBTQ+ community to explore The Linen Hall’s LGBTQ+ archives. Hilary McCollum, Amanda Verlaque, Heather Fleming, and Mícheál McCann will choose an item from the archive – an artefact, a newspaper article, or a letter – to talk about their own lived experience and the history of gay rights in Northern Ireland.

PANELLISTS

Hilary McCollum
Hilary McCollum is an Irish writer and feminist activist with a long-standing interest in creative responses to trauma. She has explored issues related to violence against women and girls through narrative non-fiction, fiction, and drama. Her writing often focuses on women’s resistance to abuse and oppression. Her first novel, Golddigger, won the Golden Crown Literary Society prize for historical fiction in 2016. She has a PhD in Creative Writing from QUB and is a Senior Policy and Liaison Officer for Northern Ireland with the Society of Authors.

Amanda Verlaque
Amanda Verlaque writes for stage, screen, and VR. The Lyric produced This Sh*t Happens All the Time, her critically acclaimed play about homophobia, misogyny and coercive control. The MAC produced her critically acclaimed debut play Distortion, a satire about political hypocrisy, homophobia and PR spin. Amanda adapted and wrote the pilot for An Irish Country Doctor based on Patrick Taylor’s award-winning novel and she made her directorial debut with Egg, her VR short film in collaboration with RETìníZE. One of the Irish Theatre Institute’s Six in The Attic artists for 2022/23, she is also under commission to the National Theatre (GB) and the Abbey. Amanda worked in TV drama for 25 years as a script editor, storyliner, producer and executive producer before starting her writing career.

Heather Fleming
Heather Fleming came out, when she was seventeen, in rural Co Down in 1977. She moved to Belfast, became involved in LGBTQ+ activism; joining NIGRA, volunteering for CaraFriend /Lesbian Line and founding Lavender Lynx (a safe space for lesbians, especially those just coming out). Heather is a visual artist and has exhibited widely throughout Ireland and internationally. Creative writing was confined to her sketchbooks but in the last few years, it has become more public. A number of her “Ten X 9” stories were broadcast on BBC Radio Ulster’s Tall Tales. A recording of one of her stories about being lesbian in NI is now part of the Irish Studies curriculum at the prestigious Swarthmore University in Philadelphia. In 2023, two of her poems were ‘Highly Commended’ for the CAP/Executive Office Good Relations Award and she had a poem printed in the Seamus Heaney Award for New Writing Anthology.

Mícheál McCann

Mícheál McCann is a poet from Derry. His poems have appeared in The Poetry Review, The Stinging Fly and Poetry Ireland Review, and anthologised in Queering the Green and Romance Options: Love Poems for Today. He has published pamphlets of poems, most recently Waking Light (Skein Press) and Keeper (14publishing). He was a co-editor of Hold Open the Door (UCD Press), Trumpet (Poetry Ireland) and is a founder and editor of Outburst Arts’ catflap magazine. He lives in Belfast where he is completing a PhD in the Seamus Heaney Centre for Poetry.

Tagged With: Activism, Cara Friend, Carpenter Club, change, library, Linen Hall, Lived Experiences, Narratives, NIGRA, Northern Ireland, queer

The Carpenter Club

25/07/2023 By ACOMSDave 2 Comments

In the beginning

 

The Carpenter Club, named after Edward Carpenter a hugely influential socialist, critic, writer, poet, thinker, vegetarian, and mystic, was born in premises located in Long Lane, Belfast; an area which has now disappeared after the redevelopment of Cathedral Quarter, which meant Long Lane disappeared under Writers Square.

On 10 April 1981 Jeff Dudgeon and Richard Hodgson purchased the vacant warehouse property at 8/10 Long Lane. At some stage in its past, it had been two separate premises which had then been converted into a single building and used as a plumber’s warehouse. The building had been vacant for some time and parts needed repair.  Once possession was obtained, Richard and Jeff set about converting and renovating the premises into a social and recreation centre. they engaged architects and contractors and had the benefit of much voluntary help from members of the gay community. The ground floor was converted to provide a coffee bar and lounge, large disco, toilets, and storage. Extensive fire prevention regulations were complied with. It had been their original intention to renovate the whole building, but due to higher costs than anticipated, work was restricted to the ground floor.

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The Club then opened for business on 3 July 1981, and ran until 31 January 1988. The initial proprietors being Richard Hodgson, Jeff Dudgeon, and NIGRA in a limited partnership.

However, that partnership was ended at a meeting held on 8th January 1984 when a member’s club was formed. The club members became the owners of club profits from that date and later owned the building itself and the replacement premises in Hill Street (more to follow on this site later in the year). NIGRA transferred its investment to the members club under the same terms as with the partnership. 

The first floor was developed and opened in 1984 with a second disco and coffee bar.

[Long Lane was an entry running from North Street to Church Street. When this photo was taken all the buildings had been demolished, for the construction of the new Tourist Board offices, and the lane existed in name only. 110 years earlier it contained “One House, remainder stores”. The Art College (before reconstruction) J3374 : The Art College, Belfast is at middle left while St Anne’s Cathedral J3374 : New spire, St Anne’s, Belfast had still to acquire its “knitting needle”.  –  https://www.geograph.ie/photo/1000880]

 

Writers square July, 2010 -

Writers square July, 2010

 

Arrow shows Long Lane 1887 highlighted in purple

Insurance Plan of Belfast approx 1887 showing Long Lane

Insurance Plan of Belfast approx 1887 showing Long Lane

 

Long Lane, Belfast

Long Lane highlighted from OS Map 1920

More About Who Was Involved

The Carpenter Club, whose proprietors where Richard Hodson, Jeff Dudgeon and NIGRA in a limited partnership, was an extensive, unlicensed disco and coffee bar on two floors operating from the early to mid-1980s.  Cara Friend had offices upstairs, and there was also a large meeting room which was used by various groups for their meetings, including NIGRA.  There was also a small room which had been turned into a library and repository of items of interest e.g. such as banners, placards, leaflets, badges etc.

The front of The Carpenter Club

The front of The Carpenter Club

 

Carpenter Club

view of the ground floor coffee bar looking towards the door leading to the entrance foyer.

But what was important for those frequenting the Carpenter Club, was that it was a safe area from police entrapment, or indeed sometimes homophobia. Thomas Ward, a researcher at Queens University in ‘queer history’, said

 

… “Prosecutions for cottaging, such as gross indecency and lewd behaviour, rose substantially following the 1967 Act. The police became better at entrapment, leading to the ‘pretty policeman’ phenomenon whereby the police would attempt to solicit men they believed to be cottaging or anyone who presented outside masculine norms, and arrest them for gross indecency. This itself led to a number of moral panics around gay sex in public toilets throughout the 1970s, 1980s and 1990s.” These anxieties led to the closing down of public toilets and other council spaces, often in the face of public expenditure cuts…

What people also have to remember is that during this time the Carpenter Club was located in the middle of Belfast during the ‘troubles’. 

Security Barriers - Donegall Place, Belfast. 1980s – Northern Ireland Historical Photographical Society

Security Barriers – Donegall Place, Belfast. 1980s – Northern Ireland Historical Photographical Society

 

This meant that you had to go through security checkpoints/gates to get to the club, and basically as little else was open in that area, all the security personnel knew where you were heading. Most of the squaddies (British Soldiers) just laughed and made jokes with us, but unfortunately some of the UDR and some of the police were not that kind.

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Extended History for the Area

 

The Albert Clock, Belfast, was not far from the Carpenter Club and North Street, and in its past was once infamous for being frequented by prostitutes plying their trade with visiting sailor[s]

The Albert Clock

The Albert Clock

However, the history of Long Lane began long before the Carpenter Club.  According to the Ulster Architectural Heritage Society it had two previous names Bigart’s Lane or Back Rampart’s Lane (from the nearby town ramparts) and running from North Street to Great Patrick Street with Long Lane being bisected when Donegall Street was laid out in the mid-18c.

During this time there was the wonderfully named bar ‘The Monkey Shaving the Goat’ doings its trade in Long Lane

The Monkey Shaving the Goat’ doings its trade in Long Lane

The Monkey Shaving the Goat’ doings its trade in Long Lane

 

In November 1981, the A Centre was established as an alternative cultural space in Belfast city centre.  It ran on Saturday afternoons and was organised by the Belfast Anarchist Collective.  It used the Carpenter premises [on loan] was soon became ‘a den of delight and subversion by the exhibition of numerous agitprop posters of the day; and was always under observation by the RUC [Special Branch] of the day.  Please see the video from Northern Visions on the A Centre

Punk scene Belfast – Photo taken at the A Centre (Carpenter Club), Long Lane, Lower North Street Belfast 1981

Punk scene Belfast – Photo taken at the A Centre, Long Lane, Lower North Street Belfast 1981

Part of the ongoing history of the Carpenter Club was the number of events that originated in the meeting room, e.g.

  • NI Aids Helpline was set up after a conference in the club
  • 3rd All Ireland Lesbian & Gay man’s Conference (Belfast)
  • Developed an outline module for LGBTQ+ Studies to Ulster University

Tom Hulme, Queen’s University Belfast,  wrote in his article ‘Out of the Shadows: 100 Years of LGBT Life in Northern Ireland’.

…’ Belfast has been home to a male cruising culture since at least the 1880s.  Busy streets, dark alleyways, public toilets, and sprawling parks; all provided opportunities for men seeking other men, from the dockworker to the diplomat (as Roger Casement’s diaries confirm)!..

 

Also, Tom wrote in his article, ‘Queer Belfast during the First World War; masculinity and same-sex desire in the Irish city’…

‘the extraordinary cases of two ordinary men. Edgar John Milligen, twenty-nine years old and from just outside Lisburn, County Antrim, was arrested in November 1916 for committing ‘acts of gross indecency with another male person’. The son of a wealthy Scottish-born Ulster industrialist, Milligen had allegedly been meeting adolescent newsboys on the streets of Belfast and paying them for sex in ice cream parlours, hotels and his country house in the village of Lambeg,  About a year later, Vincent Cassidy, a twenty-five-year-old from Armagh, was arrested for a similar crime. Not long back in Ulster after a two-year stay in the United States, he had been living in a hotel in the centre of Belfast and holding all-male parties in his rooms; soldiers and civilians alike danced, drank cocktails and shared the one bed.

… however, that homosexual interactions could take place against the backdrop of ostensibly ‘heterosexual space’. Sheehan described how he and Cassidy made frequent visits to music halls and supper saloons where they consumed meat, fish, oysters and wine…

They also made use of local hotels in York Street, Donegall Place as examples, something that was almost impossible in the 1970s and 1980s.

Carpenter Club, Long Lane, Belfast C1940.

Long Lane, Belfast C1940.

In Jan 2022 Mark Thompson on Twitter (@MarkThompStuff) wrote

…Long Lane, Belfast C1940.  There had been a “Burns Tavern” there, where a Burns Supper, attended by Robert Burns jnr, was held in August 1844, following a major Burns Festival that had been held in Ayr…  (pic from the FB Group “Images and Memories of old Northern Ireland)

 

History of Long Lane Census Figures – 1805 up to 1960 History of Long Lane Census Figures – 1805 up to 1960

Links:

 

  • Wikipedia – Gay Star and Upstart –  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gay_Star_and_Upstart
  • Web Archive – upstart Publishing – https://web.archive.org/web/20140407081943/http://upstartpublishing.com/about
  • In The Archives: A Journey Through LGBTQ+ Records – https://collabarchive.org/projects/in-the-archives-a-journey-through-lgbtq-records
  • The A Centre or the Lost Tribe of Long Lane – https://vimeo.com/14859971
  • Mapping 100 Years Of Belfast Gay Life – http://www.thevacuum.org.uk/issues/issues0120/issue11/is11arthunyea.html
  • A timeline of LGBTQ communities in the UK – https://www.bl.uk/lgbtq-histories/lgbtq-timeline
  • List of venues that the LGBT community went to during the later 1970s and 1980s
  • A brief history of the public toilet as a political battleground – https://www.dazeddigital.com/politics/article/56499/1/uk-single-sex-public-toilets-compulsory-new-building-trans-rights
  • https://www.lennonwylie.co.uk/
  • Irish Historical Studies – Queer Belfast during the First World War: masculinity and same-sex desire in the Irish city – https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/irish-historical-studies/article/queer-belfast-during-the-first-world-war-masculinity-and-samesex-desire-in-the-irish-city/0E0073BA37296DD7B824ED16B7206685
  • Wikipedia – Edward Carpenter – https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Edward_Carpenter
  • The Edward Carpenter Community –https://www.edwardcarpentercommunity.org.uk/about-us/edward-carpenter
  • Jeff Dudgeon, MBE –https://jeffdudgeon.com/
  • Tom Hulme –https://pure.qub.ac.uk/en/persons/tom-hulme
  • 1991 A Belfast Pride to be remembered! – https://bit.ly/3Y4NRfX
  • Edward Carpenter A Video Biography – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B-ERNmNTkH0&t=8s
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Filed Under: Community Journalist, Editor to ACOMSDave Tagged With: Belfast, Cara Friend, Carpenter Club, COSO, Jeff Dudgeon, LGBTQ+ Centre, Long Lane, MBE, NIGRA, Richard Hodgson

The History of LGBT (now LGBTQ+) in Northern Ireland

13/07/2023 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

The History of LGBT (now LGBTQ+) in Northern Ireland

Our Pride 1991 – by Terry McFarlane

 

 

The history of the LGBT (now LGBTQ+) in N Ireland is layered with groups that started to pursue a particular ideal missing from the community at the time.

 

 

 

Groups such as:

  • NIGRA
  • Cara Friend
  • COSO
  • GLYNI
  • Belfast Butterfly Group
  • Queerspace
  • Rainbow Project

Out of these groups came various local publications, e.g.

  • Gay Star
  • upstart
  • Update
  • NIGRA News
  • Gay Community News

The History of LGBT (now LGBTQ+) in Northern Ireland

 

But we also provided meeting spaces for individuals and groups, and the development of our own local lending library in the Carpenter Centre, Long Lane, Belfast.  This library held:

  • Books (both fiction and non-fiction)
  • Magazines

o   Foreign:

      • The Advocate (USA)
      • Christopher Street (USA)
      • Curve (USA)
      • Physique Magazine (USA) – a few copies
      • Zipper (*****)
      • Gai pied (French)
      • Lambda (Italian)
      • De Gayt Krant (Dutch)

o   Great Britain

      • Boyz
      • The Quorum
      • ScotsGay
      • Pink News
      • Gay Times
      • Gay News
      • Attitude
      • Diva
      • Fyne Times

o   Posters (both local and from abroad)

o   Banners (for various organisations)

o   Placards

 

NIGRA Banner at Pride

It was in a lot of ways our history repository.

The History of LGBT (now LGBTQ+) in Northern Ireland

Unfortunately, when we had to move to the Cathedral Buildings due to redevelopment, a lot of our history was lost, but still some of has found its way to.

 

  • The Ulster Museum – https://www.ulstermuseum.org/
  • The Linen Hall Library – https://www.linenhall.com/
  • PRONI – https://www.nidirect.gov.uk/campaigns/public-record-office-northern-ireland-proni

For people to access and learn about our history.

We need to develop spaces for writers, artists, and musicians within our community.  Yes, we need those spaces for well-being, befriending etc., but why have we limited ourselves?

I was thinking about when I first realised, I was gay, and how access to books and magazines seemed to be so restrictive.  But, after careful consideration what I have realised was that in terms of today, we had many more venues in which we could get a book or a magazine.  We had at least eight different bookstores we could visit, and then there were the various corner stores and bars that welcomed LGBT clientele (some grudgingly) but also stocked the various free gay magazines and papers. An enticement no doubt to bring people in, but at least they were there.

Today, we are a larger more supportive society, but, though we have the internet, Amazon, online magazines (which we mostly have to pay for) and a quarterly printed magazine (Attitude) available in some selected outlets (or by post), we seem to have less well written and researched news, less knowledge about the books that are available or the movies that are coming out (unless they are blockbusters).

We are also getting to that time in history when people who fought and made our history are reaching the end of their life.  Often without their history being noted, recorded, and save for our future.  Once they die, there is no way of returning that historical knowledge.

We have in part a way of saving our history, which is the LGBTHISTORYNI online archive site, but our community needs to get behind it, get involved with it and start telling everyone about our history.

The History of LGBT (now LGBTQ+) in Northern Ireland

LGBTHistoryNI

 

 

Links:

  • 1991 A Belfast Pride to be remembered!
  • Stories of hidden LGBT history

 

 

Go to LGBTHistoryNI

Visit LGBTHistoryNI and get involved in recording our history

Go NOW

 

 

Filed Under: Campaigns, Editor to ACOMSDave Tagged With: Belfast Butterfly Group, book shopos, Cara Friend, Carpenter Club, COSO, gay books, GayStar, GLYNI, history, LGBTHistoryNI, LGBTQ, library, NIGRA, queerspace, Rainbow project, Upstart, venues

A CENTURY AND MORE OF BELFAST GAY LIFE

23/10/2021 By Jeff Dudgeon Leave a Comment

A CENTURY AND MORE OF BELFAST GAY LIFE

A CENTURY AND MORE OF BELFAST GAY LIFE

A CENTURY AND MORE OF BELFAST GAY LIFE

A CENTURY AND MORE OF BELFAST GAY LIFE

A CENTURY AND MORE OF BELFAST GAY LIFE

A CENTURY AND MORE OF BELFAST GAY LIFE

A CENTURY AND MORE OF BELFAST GAY LIFE


A CENTURY AND MORE OF BELFAST GAY LIFE

 

A CENTURY AND MORE OF BELFAST GAY LIFE – Northern Ireland’s gay geography, history and people: 1903-2021

According to Roger Casement’s diaries, of 1903 and 1910-11, the gay cruising areas in Belfast were at the Albert Clock probably around the Customs House toilet, Botanic Gardens, Ormeau Park, and the Giants Ring. Cottaging went on in Victoria Square in an elegant wrought iron edifice (which was still operating in the 1960s and is now in the Ulster Folk and Transport Museum) and at the Gasworks. Only the Giants Ring remains popular, although policed.

From then until after the 2nd World War, the GNR station in Great Victoria Street and Dubarry’s bar at the docks were recognised haunts, the latter, as in other cities, being shared with prostitutes. According to one old-timer, a teenager in 1941, the cottages were particularly busy the morning after the big German air raid in Belfast city centre, only yards from the smouldering rubble of High Street and Bridge Street.

He also recalled, after the raids, special difficulty in the fields in East Belfast, where he used to go regularly with a soldier friend. They were filled instead with people who were sleeping out of doors to avoid the bombing. The blackout from 1939, and the arrival from 1943-4 of 100,000 American troops in Northern Ireland had a huge impact and a special place in gay memories.

The Royal Avenue (RA) Bar in Rosemary Street (the hotel’s public bar, opposite the Red Barn pub) as portrayed in Maurice Leitch’s fine 1965 novel The Liberty Lad, probably the earliest description of a gay bar in Irish literature, was the first in the city. It operated from some time in the 1950s being shared at times with deaf and dumb customers who often occupied the front of the bar.

The two (straight) staff in the RA ran a tight but tolerant ship. Two lesbians, Greta and Anne, were the only females in the 1960s who were regular customers. At that time and until the end of the 1970s, pubs closed sharply at 10 p.m. The café burger café in High Street then served as an after hours venue and later a café in Victoria Square run by the distinguished Indian hotelier and mogul, now Lord Rana of Malone.

 When the Royal Avenue Hotel was on its last legs due to the troubles, Ernie Thompson and Jim Kempson (both now deceased), from 1974, ran, in its elegant ballroom, Belfast’s first ever and highly memorable discos, also the first in Ireland.

 After the Royal Avenue closed, the Casanova Club (prop. Louis Wise) in Upper Arthur Street (presently part of the British Home Stores site) flowered briefly until bombed by the IRA in c. 1976 for reputedly serving police officers!

Meanwhile the Gay Liberation Society (GLS) was meeting at Queen’s University Students Union from 1972 with significant town as well as gown membership. Initiated by Andy Hinds and Martin McQuigg it was taken forward by Dick Sinclair, Maeve Malley, Joseph Leckey and Brian Gilmore.

Later from about 1975 until the early 1980s it ran highly successful Saturday night discos in the McMordie Hall, attended by up to 300 gays (and indeed many apparent straights). This was a time when there was no other night life in the city. Key helpers included Kevin Merrett, Billy Forsythe, John McConkey, and Michael McAlinden. The early and mid-70s were the most brutal years of the troubles, when there was next to no night life in the city and only gays ventured out for fear of murder.

Cara-Friend started its befriending and information operation as a letter service in 1974. After a brief telephone service at the QUB Students Union which ended in the switchboard collapsing, it moved on to a permanent telephone service in about 1976, operating first from Doug Sobey’s flat in Ulsterville Avenue (Doug from Prince Edward Island in Canada is still a Cara-Friend officer after 30 years). Lesbian Line and Foyle Friend developed later. Cara-Friend was grant aided by the Department of Health and Social Services, at Stormont, from as early as 1975 with £700 p.a.

NIGRA (a groups’ group originally) started in the summer of 1975 when USFI became corrupted. Early NIGRA Presidents have included Dr Graham Carter (who sadly died young), former life-President Richard Kennedy, and Tim Clarke, ably supported by Sappho sisters Geraldine Sergeant and Maureen Miskimmin.

A significant number of NIGRA officers married and had children which was baffling for some. The Strasbourg case taken by Jeff Dudgeon to the European Court of Human Rights, which in 1982 ultimately resulted in the ending of life imprisonment for gay men and was the first European recognition of gay rights, was started by NIGRA in 1975. P.A. MagLochlainn, NIGRA President, filled the post longer than any of his predecessors.

From about 1975 until the early 1980s, Gay Lib or the QUB Gay Liberation Society (GLS) met in No. 4 University Street, a large 3-storey Georgian terrace house loaned by the university, where Cara-Friend had a room with a telephone cubicle. It was in constant use for regular Thursday meetings and parties. From there was organised the successful case at Strasbourg against the British Government funded by the Queen’s discos and the later-married pop singer Tom Robinson (Glad to be Gay and Motorway).

1976 was also the year of the totally unexpected gay raids when all the NIGRA and Cara-Friend committee were arrested and the Director of Public Prosecutions (DPP) decided to charge Jeff Dudgeon and Doug Sobey, and Richard Kennedy and another (for sex acts inter se). All of us were over 21 and thus could not be charged in England. Only a political intervention from London forced the DPP to drop the cases in 1977, just as the instruction to police to charge us was issued and literally retrieved from the post room at the last minute.

The Strasbourg case took seven years to go through the court and was won in 1981 when the UK was found guilty of a human rights violation of the European Convention. This was because it criminalised all gay male sexual activity with a possible sentence of life imprisonment for buggery, and two years jail for any other sexual act (“gross indecency”) thereby interfering with the right to a private life. A year later a reluctant British government pushed an Order in Council through Westminster legalising certain gay sexual activity with an age of consent of 21.

The Chariot Rooms in Lower North Street was the first gay-run bar in Belfast. It and its own disco were operated successfully, and with flair, by Ernie and Jim in the darkest years of the troubles. It was in the central gated area where no other night life existed for several years. We had to be processed by the civilian searchers to enter the central area leading to many camp and ribald remarks. The reasons for the Chariot Rooms closing are obscure although it was well frequented and much loved even by soldiers who duck patrolled through the dance floor, lingering in the warmth and safety. (Ernie and Jim were both processed through the courts in October 1967 and jailed or committed to a mental hospital along with a dozen others in the last big round-up of gays in Bangor.)

Off and on in the 1970s and 80s, the Europa’s Whip and Saddle bar in Great Victoria Street was the city’s only gay venue. Despite, at times being the only customers in such a bombed hotel, we were never entirely welcome and were ultimately driven out. At one point in the 1970s NIGRA mounted a picket because of a member being barred for a serious indiscretion – a kiss.

Due to the efforts of the late Kieran Hayes (d. 2011), a gay staffer’s, the Crow’s Nest in Skipper Street became a gay bar with a small disco from c. 1986. After several makeovers, it changed its name to the Customs House in 2002 and was re-invigorated as a gay bar hosting Men of the North events on alternate Fridays. It returned to the Crow’s Nest (or Raven’s Rectum) title later, after another makeover. (The Nest was demolished in 2008.)

The Carpenter Club in Long Lane (proprietors Richard Hodgson, Jeff Dudgeon, and NIGRA in a limited partnership) was an extensive, unlicensed disco and coffee bar on two floors operating from the early to the mid 1980s. Cara-Friend had offices upstairs. It was ultimately compulsorily purchased by the DOE to make way for the currently renamed Writers’ (formerly Skinhead) Square.

The Carpenter Club though gradually successful was vulnerable to any premises like a hotel on the skids (like the Midland Hotel) which had a drinks licence. Such licences were prohibitively expensive. Cara-Friend moved to new premises at Cathedral Buildings in Lower Donegall Street where Lesbian Line also had rooms and GLYNI and NIGRA met. Both C-F and Queer Space have run busy Saturday drop-ins at Cathedral Buildings, the latter having had previous rooms in Botanic Avenue and Eglantine Avenue.

After buying out his partners, Richard Hodgson, an accountant turned builder, was dubiously jailed for fraud after receiving compensation on the building’s compulsory purchase by the Department of the Environment. He developed other premises in Hill Street which never opened.

The Orpheus Bar/Disco in York Street had a successful three-year existence under the proprietorship of Ian Rosbotham in the mid-1980s, despite the rampant damp. It had a short afterlife once renovated.

The Dunbar Arms in Dunbar Link was firebombed by the INLA, with drag queen Aunty Mae (West aka Harry) the last out of the building being nearly singed to death, possibly due to a protection refusal. After rebuilding, it became the Parliament Bar, run by two straight guys, Martin Ramsay and Brendan, continuing as a gay venue with an upstairs disco from the 1990s until 2003 when it abandoned the gay market. It later returned to its roots as Mynt. Darren Bradshaw an off-duty gay policeman was murdered there by the INLA in 1997, having been picked out and shot down in front of dozens of customers.

Cruising areas too have been marred by murder – Anthony McCleave in Oxford Street, Belfast in the 1970s and Ian Flanagan in Barnett’s Park in 2002. There have been others.

One nighters have been operated since the mid-1980s in the Midland Hotel (Saturdays), Delaney’s, the Limelight (very successfully on Mondays for several years run by Patrick James), the Venue, White’s Tavern and Milk.

The Kremlin, an extensive, gay-owned bar and disco(s) in Upper Donegall Street, after opening in March 1999, became the dominant gay venue in the city, regularly enhancing its facilities. The owners were a New Zealander André Graham and Seamus Sweeney. A later development in the creation of a gay village in Belfast was the opening of their up-market Union Street pub with its many bars and dance rooms. The property they bought in nearby Union Street housed the Men’s Health Rainbow Project (formerly in Church Lane) and Belfast’s first ever gay sauna, the Garage. Another sauna opened across the street in time.

Sex in saunas, that is sex with more than two males present, was legalised in 2003 thanks to NIGRA’s successful campaign to have Northern Ireland included in the Sexual Offences Bill with its total abolition of the crimes of gross indecency and buggery and the equalising of penalties between gay and straight for sexual crimes.

Later rival venues were another Dubarry’s bar and disco which opened in Gresham Street and attracted the older clientele, being a bit less noisy (and having fewer straights). Despite success, it eventually reverted to a straight clientele. The advent of Maverick also in Union Street in the former McIlhattons Bar enabled both sides of the street to become LGBT dominated and in time pedestrian only.

The gay organisations – Rainbow, Cara-Friend and Here NI migrated for a decade to the former War Memorial Building in Waring Street taking over several floors. It was eventually sold for the purposes of a gay hotel venture which has yet to materialise, and new group premises were taken further down the street.

The only cloud on the commercial scene’s horizon has been cyber-sex through the likes of Grindr which have become ever more popular, night and day. Cruising and outdoor sex seem largely to be a thing of the past.

At the same time there has been an explosion in the growth of gay history studies at Queen’s University and through Gay History Month. PRONI and the Linen Hall Library now have considerable LGBT documentary collections. Cultural events, many organised by Outburst, have featured strongly in the new millennium as of course have the increasingly popular Belfast Pride parades which started in 1991, being first organised by Sean McGouran and P.A. MagLochlainn. They have now spread to other cities and localities.

 

 

Jeff Dudgeon

(Author of ‘Roger Casement: The Black Diaries – With a Study of his Background, Sexuality, and Irish Political Life’ (3rd edition 2019); and ‘H. Montgomery Hyde: Ulster Unionist MP, Gay Law Reform Campaigner and Prodigious Author’ (Belfast Press, 2018) – website https://jeffdudgeon.com/ )

 

Links:

  • Wikipedia – Jeff Dudgeon MBE
  • Wikipedia – Sailor Town, Belfast
  • The Portsmouth Defence by Jeff Dudgeon
  • Pushing the Boundaries; Decriminalising Homosexuality 1974-1982: The Role of the Northern Ireland Gay Rights Association by Jeffrey Dudgeon & Richard Kennedy

Filed Under: History Tagged With: Albert Clock, Cara Friend, Custom's House, Dubarry's Bar, European Court of Human Rights, Gay Liberation Society, GNR Station, Jeff Dudgeon, Maurice Leitch, NIGRA, Queen's University, Rosemary Street, Royal Avenue Bar, Royal Avenue Hotel, The Liberty Lad, The Strasbourg Case

Coming to Power by Samois: Writings and Graphics on Lesbian S/M. – a gay book review by Anne Ross

27/07/2021 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

The interesting and fun things you find when you review older publications of your own are reviews by friends; in this case the review by my friend Anne Ross of the book ‘ Coming to Power: Writings and Graphics on Lesbian S/M.

First and foremost Anne was a dear friend of mine, sadly passed away due to cancer almost too many years to remember.  I remember her from her hard work and support on various committees and groups like Cara Friend, NIGRA, various woman’s support groups, but I also remember her sense of fun like when she moved into her first house and decided to hold a party, and because she had no glasses she coerced me and a few others to go to the local pub and ask if we could borrow some glasses – she also decided to make up a green punch coloured punch which looked hideous but turned out to have a lovely taste but horrible hangover.  I missed her when she moved to London, and now miss her even more as I can never hear her infectious laugher again.

Now to her review:

Coming to PowerComing to Power: Writings and Graphics on Lesbian S/M

By Samois 

Published by Samois initially then by Alyson Publications

Price:  £ – currently unknown as out of print 

Excellent book on Lesbian S/M.  Clears a lot of myths and uneasiness that folk may have conjured up in their minds about S/M.  Basically, the book is made up of various people’s views of and experiences with S/M.  A few chapters deal with practicalities, like when care must be taken and just when to draw the line.

I would advise anyone unsure of their view of S/M to read this; probably at the end, they’ll find they see it differently from what they originally thought.

 

Anne Ross

 

Links:

  • Amazon – Coming To Power
  • Wikipedia – Coming to Power
  • Book Review: EXPOSÉ by Paul Ilett

 

Filed Under: Book Reviews, Editor to ACOMSDave Tagged With: Alyson Publications, Cara Friend, Coming to Power, Lesbian S/M, NIGRA, Samois

Cross-border LGBT activism in Ireland 1977-1999 – LGBT History Club

27/04/2021 By ACOMSDave

A public talk live on ZOOM, by Abigail Fletcher titled “Cross-border LGBT activism in Ireland 1977-1999 ‘ for the LGBT HISTORY CLUB (a collaboration between the LGBT Heritage Project & The Linen Hall Library) on TUESDAY 27th April, 8pm. To get the Zoom link email Richard O’Leary on history@hereni.org

 

Cross-border LGBT activism in Ireland 1977-1999

Links:

 

  • AcomsDave
  • LGBT History NI

 

 

 

Tagged With: AcomsDave, Cara Friend, LGBT Heriutage NI, Linen Hall Library, NIGRA

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