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UK Poll Shows Alarming Racism in Gay Community

10/06/2015 By Dave McFarlane Leave a Comment

Editorial:  Are you a racist, have you allowed racism to go unchallenged when you have heard it being said?  We would be the first to complain (hopefully) if we overheard homophobia being discussed as acceptable.  We mustn’t loose sight of the fact that we are all supposed to be ‘equal’ and that we must treat everyone as equal!

 

Tuesday Jun 9, 2015

 (Source:Noah Berger/AP)

(Source:Noah Berger/AP)


As much as the global LGBT community prides itself on inclusiveness and tolerance, results from a new poll show that while we like to see ourselves as wrapped in a rainbow, color is still an issue with many gay men.
A recent survey taken by the U.K.-based FS magazine which polled over 850 white, black, Asian, South Asian, Arab and mixed race gay men, shows an alarming amount of racial and sexual stereotyping among gay males. Results of the survey showed that more than two-thirds of non-whites surveyed experienced racism from within the LGBT community in the U.K. with 80% of blacks and 79% of Asians reporting the highest incidences of racism. As a minority group, hispanics reported the lowest incidences of racism with 35%.
An interactive poll on the FS website shows 87% of readers agree that the gay community is in someway racist.
The report also points to a disturbing trend where pick-up apps like Grindr were a prime vehicle for sexual racism.
“I’ve been blocked on apps because I am South East Asian,” says Ari, 39 from London, “or thought of as Muslim, even though I am not a Muslim. I have had abuse sent through messages, saying ‘go back home Paki’ or a question asking if Allah is happy I am on here.”
The FS poll is a follow-up to a previous study conducted by the publication where 400 white men were polled about sexual stereotypes.
When asked about stereotypes within ethnic groups, the respondents said:
• Black men have large cocks: 78% of white gay men in our survey believe this to be true.
• Asian men have smaller than average cocks: 75% believe this to be true.
• Latin men are crazy, wild and passionate: 70% of white gay men believe this to be true.
• Mixed race men are more likely to be accepted by white men: 67% believe this to be true.
• Black men are more active, strong and dominant in the bedroom: 60% of white gay men believe this to be true.
• Asian men are mostly submissive bottoms: 56% believe this to be true.
• Arab men aren’t gay if they’re top only: 35% thought this to be true.
• Latin men are mostly rent boys or in it for a passport: 10% of white gay men believe this is true.
While the FS polls only surveyed gay men in the U.K., the results are mirrored across the ocean in the United States where, according to Wikipedia , many people experience racism in the dominant LGBT community where racial stereotypes merge with gender stereotypes, such that Asian-American LGBTs are viewed as more passive and feminine, while African-American LGBTs are viewed as more masculine and aggressive.
 

Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia Tagged With: gay, homophobia, llgbt, racism

Bloody hell: Britain under pressure to lift gay and bisexual blood ban

10/06/2015 By Dave McFarlane Leave a Comment

 

09 JUNE 2015 | BY JOE MORGAN
 

As NHS struggles to find new donors, former Green Party leader Caroline Lucas tells Gay Star News why she wants gay and bisexual men to be allowed to give blood

The UK is in need of new blood donors, but they are ignoring one of the largest groups of prospective donors – gay and bisexual men.
With 74% of Gay Star News readers in our poll willing to donate blood if they were allowed to, politicians have renewed calls to lift the ‘outdated’ ban.
In England, Wales and Scotland, gay and bisexual men must be celibate for a year before they are allowed to donate. In Northern Ireland, largely due to the anti-gay marriage DUP, the ban remains indefinitely.
With the number of people donating falling 40% in a decade, it was announced this week, the NHS has started a new campaign to bring in new donors.
But according to some of the UK’s leading campaigners in equality, the solution is obvious.
Caroline Lucas, the former leader of the Green Party, told Gay Star News in a statement that the UK needs an ‘evidence based approach’ on how to deal with the number of donors.
‘That’s why I’ve long called for a review of the evidence on allowing people to donate safe blood in compliance with the Equality Act 2010,’ she said.
‘Crucially, this would also help ensure that men who have sex with men, for example, are not discriminated against when they want to donate blood.’
Conservative MP Michael Fabricant has also recently renewed his call, tabling a question to the Department of Health asking why men who are in clearly stable relationships – civil partnerships or same-sex marriages – are also banned from giving blood.
Both Fabricant and Lucas have previously described the one-year and full time ban as ‘outdated, illogical and unequal’.
Fabricant introduced a Private Member’s Bill last year calling for gay and bisexual men to be allowed to donate.
On introducing the bill, he said: ‘There is no logic to this and it is unnecessarily discriminatory.’
And Peter Black, the Welsh Liberal Democrat Shadow Equalities Minister, has also put pressure on the UK government.
‘This ban not only turns away thousands of willing and healthy potential donors, but it also serves to reinforce negative stereotypes about gay and bisexual men,’ he said. ‘The sooner this unfair and discriminatory ban is lifted, the sooner our blood services can benefit from a greater supply of donated blood and more lives can be saved.’
It led to the UK government announcing in January they would consider consulting on whether a 12-month deferral is necessary when it comes to the blood donation for gay and bisexual men in monogamous relationships.
Jon Latham, assistant director of donor services at NHS Blood and Transplant, told GSN: ‘Some people ask us why these donation criteria exist and express to us their frustration if this means that they are not eligible to give blood. None of the criteria in place for blood donation are intended to be discriminatory.
‘It is specific sexual behaviors rather than sexuality that increase the risk of virus transmission and drive the criteria. Ensuring donor and patient safety is at the heart of what we do.
‘The processes we follow at our blood donation sessions are in line with blood donor selection criteria set by the Department of Health on the advice of independent experts.’
Terrence Higgins Trust, the HIV and sexual health charity, has agreed the stance can only realisitically be changed when the risks of HIV for gay and bisexual men are reduced to the same level as that of most straight people.
To look at the current blood bans in force around the world, see our list here.

– See more at: http://www.gaystarnews.com/article/bloody-hell-britain-under-pressure-lift-gay-and-bisexual-blood-ban090615#sthash.NS5VeljR.dpuf

Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia, Campaigns Tagged With: Caroline Lucas, gay blood ban, Stormont Politics

Target's New Pride Commercial Will Make Your Queer Heart Sing

10/06/2015 By Dave McFarlane Leave a Comment

 

 
 

The Huffington Post  |  By Curtis M. Wong
Posted: 06/09/2015 3:28 pm EDT Updated: 06/09/2015 5:59 pm EDT
https://youtu.be/4Ji8OpjSCXE
Target is ringing in Pride month in a very big way, introducing a rainbow-themed clothing and accessories line as well as an inclusive ad campaign.
Unveiled June 8, the Minnesota-based retail giant’s #TakePride line is available online and in select stores. It includes T-shirts, swim trunks and flip-flops, as well as headphones, iPhone cases and other products.
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Pride Swim Short, Rainbow
The commercial that accompanies the campaign, which can be viewed above, pairs archival footage of LGBT rights milestones with colorful, time-lapse images and present-day Pride clips.
“We’re not born with pride,” a voiceover declares. “We take pride, pride in celebrating who we were born to be.”
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Pride Flip Flop Sandals, Rainbow Chevron
Laysha Ward, Target’s Executive Vice President and Chief Corporate Responsibility Officer, said in a statement:

We’re making our message loud and clear: Target proudly stands with the LGBT community, both as a team member and team player through all that we do – from our volunteer efforts to our long-standing partnerships with groups likeFamily Equality Council and Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network, to the very products we carry in our stores and online.

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Pride Men’s Sunday Funday, Navy
Target, which came under criticism in 2013 for reportedly making a donation to an organization that supported an anti-gay Republican gubernatorial candidate in Virginia, has made great strides toward inclusivity in recent years. Last year, the company signed an amicus brief in support of marriage equality, while a commercial for their “Made to Matter” product line featured two gay men painting with a child.
In 2012, the company created 10 Pride T-shirts, including two designed by Gwen Stefani, that were available online.
View a selection of products from Target’s #TakePride line below:

  • 1
    Pride Women’s 50 Shades of Fabulous T-Shirt, White
    Target
  • 2
    Pride Rainbow Chevron Earbud with Microphone
    Target
  • 3
    Pride Kid’s Thing Called Love T-Shirt, White
  • 4
    Pride Men’s Love is Love Tank, White
    Target
  • 5
    Pride Flip Flop Sandals, Rainbow Chevron
    Target
  • 6
    Pride Love Is Love Tumbler
    Target
  • 7
    Pride Men’s Sunday Funday Navy
    Target
  • 8
    Pride Men’s Vintage Love Is Love T-Shirt, Grey
    Target
  • 9
    Pride Men’s Unicorns On Fleek T-Shirt, Charcoal

Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia, Movie Reviews Tagged With: LGBT, Pride, Target

Tooji turns up the heat

10/06/2015 By Dave McFarlane Leave a Comment

Pop Star Comes Out, Causes Outrage By Having Sex With Priest In NSFW Video

Cavan SieczkowskiSenior Editor, Content Strategy, The Huffington Post
Posted: 06/09/2015 | Edited: 06/09/2015 08:08 PM EDT
A Norwegian pop star came out as gay in a new NSFW music video featuring simulated gay sex with a priest, and the Church of Norway is fuming.
Tooji, a Iranian-Norwegian singer living in Norway and a participant in the 2012 Eurovision Song Contest, came out when announcing the release of his new music video titled “The Father Project.”

The video shows Tooji enter a church and proceed to have simulated sex with the priest in front of a congregation. But the Church of Norway is not pleased with Tooji’s artistic choices. In a statement published Sunday, the bishop of Oslo condemned the video as a desecration.
“No matter what the video’s message might be or who the artist might be, footage of intimate scenes in front of the altar is unacceptable, and it is an abuse of the church,” he said in a Norwegian statement translated by The Huffington Post. “I was informed about the matter after they decided to rent out Frogner Church and had done the shoot. No matter what the content of the video might be, it is not acceptable to perform these types of scenes in front of the altar. It is a misuse of the holy room of the church.”
The bishop added that this would hold true if a straight couple was featured in the same manner in the video.
“A scene shot between a man and a woman would also be unacceptable,” he added. “What has happened breaks several rules of the church. Besides this, I would not comment any further on the matter.”
Tooji is an advocate for equal rights. In a separate video, he spoke out against religious theology that claims God does not accept gay people.
“I want to stand out as an example and let my voice be heard for all those voices mute, for all those who feel ashamed with their beliefs, that are told that God doesn’t accept them,” he said. “Let me tell you: You are a part of God and what you have is the purest gift. Any love between two grown-up, consenting adults — no matter gender, no matter race — is pure … I am gay and I stand up for my rights and that is why I made the video ‘Father.'”



Filed Under: Music Reviews Tagged With: church politics, Norwegian, risky video, Tooji

TOWLEROAD INTERVIEW: ’MAJOR CRIMES’ GRAHAM PATRICK MARTIN

09/06/2015 By Dave McFarlane Leave a Comment


BY BOBBY HANKINSON

 
 
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In the criminal justice system on television, some portrayals of LGBT people are considered particularly heinous.
One exception, however, is TNT’s Major Crimes, a spin-off of the beloved series The Closer,created by openly gay writer James Duff. Major Crimes kicks off its fourth season tonight at 9 p.m. Eastern, and features the character Rusty Beck, portrayed by Graham Patrick Martin. Rusty made his debut in the series finale of The Closer and has been a central element ofMajor Crimes since its debut, acting as one of the principle narrative threads connecting the episodes. He’s been a homeless teen, the child of an addict, the witness to a murder and one of the most three-dimensional gay characters on television.
Ahead of tonight’s premiere, we spoke with Martin about the role and what’s ahead for Rusty in season four.
Towleroad: You joined this project during the series finale of The Closer. When you were first introduced to this character, what really interested you about Rusty?
Graham Patrick Martin: What’s great about this show, not to knock on other procedural shows, but what this show does‚ and The Closer did and now Major Crimes‚ is James Duff and the rest of the writing staff really writes these full characters, like even the people down to the one liners. It just feels like they have a full life, and that’s what I loved about Rusty going into it.
TR: What surprised you most about how the character developed over the years?
 GM: What I really love about it is that Major Crimes has taken great care in writing and developing Rusty as a multi-faceted character where the emphasis is just as much on his humanity as it is on his sexual identity. They haven’t really short-changed or accelerated his story for purposes of effect or purposes of making the show more interesting. They’ve really sort of authentically allowed this character to grow into the man he’s becoming. He’s not quite there yet, but he’s on his way. It’s really fascinating because the story’s really unique in the sense that Rusty sold himself on the streets at the age of 15 years old. At that age, you know, James and I both talk a lot about this, sex is not, in that specific circumstance, sex is not an act of love; it’s an act of violence, really. That was really his first introduction into sex. So, sort of watching Rusty develop, watching Rusty now sort of assimilate himself into normal life has really been interesting, because it’s challenging, his introduction into his sexuality, viewing it as kind of a bad thing. When Rusty first came out to everyone, it was very hard for him because the only gay people he knew were bad people. It was kind of this shame he felt and this fear that there was something wrong with him that he couldn’t fix. He even says that at the end of, I believe, the end of season two. He said, “I can’t fix it, I can’t fix it.” So, watching him sort of come to terms with that and sort of really — with the help of the love and support of Captain Raydor, who’s his adopted mother, and the rest of theMajor Crimes team, really, with their support — come to terms with who he is and accepting it and really thriving in it has been the most interesting part of playing this character, I think.
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TR: The show is wildly popular. People love this show. Lots of them. Tell me about the reaction to Rusty that you’ve seen over the years.

GM: It’s so crazy every time. I live in Los Angeles, and people in LA are kind of too cool to approach you, so I don’t get approached that much in LA. But, if I do, like last night, my girlfriend and I were out to dinner, and some guy just walked by and was like, “You do good work.” And that was it. That’s like the most I get here. But I always say the second I pass the TSA checkpoint at LAX, when I leave LA, it’s like everybody in the world comes up to me. I get a wide range of reactions, specifically older women pinching my cheeks and viewing me like a son. They care so much about me, because they’ve been through a lot with me. They’ve been watching Rusty go through so much that they view me like a child to them. Then I’ve had other people send me messages on the Internet, because I read a lot of what fans write in. People have sent me messages and other cast-members messages and the writers messages saying like, “Hey, thank you so much for writing this Rusty character, because this is my story‚” or “This is my son’s story‚” or “This is my brother’s story,” and to see it being told just means a lot to people. I have one guy who just wrote me this really long message just saying, “Hey, Graham, I don’t want anything back from you. I don’t want a response from you. I don’t want you to send me a signed picture. I just want to tell you thank you, because Rusty’s story is my story, and seeing it told authentically is something that I’ve never witnessed before and means a lot to me.” The response that I get from people is a lot of gratitude. A lot of gratitude for this character, a lot of gratitude for being written and portrayed as sort of a real story and not so much a stereotype.
TR: In terms of your own understanding or exposure to these stories from the LGBT community, how has playing this role affected you personally?
GM: I mean, it’s definitely changed me a lot. I’m a straight guy. I have a girlfriend and this is a sort of world I’ve never really had a personal connection to. I’ve had a lot of gay friends, I’ve had gay family members, but this personal connection is something that I didn’t have before. I’ve really learned a lot. Specifically, I remember the episode where Rusty comes out to the squad. I got that script and I was like, “OK, I can play with this. I know Rusty well. This will be fine.” But I sort of realized I don’t know what it’s like to have to tell people a part of who I am and risk losing their love or their support or their friendship for it. I didn’t know what that’s like. That’s something that I, Graham, have never experienced, and I couldn’t fake. Because I’ve never experienced anything near that. I can’t imagine, for example, having to tell people that my hair is blonde‚ something that’s just a part of who I am, and that potentially meaning that I could lose those relationships or be judged for it or be rejected or disowned for it. I didn’t know what that was like, so I spoke to Phillip Keene, who is a castmate of mine, and asked him to lunch one day the week of shooting. I just asked him, “Hey man, if it’s ok with you sharing, what was your experience like?” I’m not going to get into it, because it’s personal for him, but hearing his side of it and really getting that personal connection to this experience that I have never had to go through, and I can’t imagine or fake going through, hearing that personal experience from him was really eye-opening and really powerful. I feel like we bonded, and I really sort of learned something new and was able to, I think, more authentically capture what that experience would be like.
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TR: What are you most excited for viewers to see from Rusty in this upcoming season?

GM: I’m really excited, because Rusty has this whole new storyline that’s unlike anything from previous seasons. It’s his first year of college and he’s really embraced journalism. Through this newfound passion, he’s taken the challenge to identify a teenage murder victim from last season who is a Jane Doe. She died last season, and her identity is not known. Rusty really takes it upon himself to start this vlog, this investigative vlog where he tries to find the identity of this girl who died a year ago without an identity. He can relate a lot to her, because she was a homeless teen, just like himself. In trying to locate her name, he’s also trying to locate himself, and trying to, I guess, sort of save her, save her identity in any way he can. I’m really excited about that. It’s a really awesome storyline. Also, I’m excited, I can’t give away too much, because we’re shooting these episodes right now, but Rusty’s first sort of real, I guess I’ll call it “an opportunity for a love interest.” That’s what I’ll call it as of now, because that’s something that’s really complex. As I’ve talked about before, Rusty’s experience with sex is not necessarily a positive one at all. We’re sort of getting to this place where he’s inching toward the idea of maybe, possible dating, and sort of the challenges that that brings. I’m excited for both of those.
Have you watched the new series of Major Crimes yet?  If not why not?
This interview has been edited and condensed.
POSTED JUN 8, 2015 AT 7:30 PM EST BY BOBBY HANKINSON

Filed Under: TV programme reviews Tagged With: gay character, Graham Patrick Martin, Major Crimes

Ricky Martin sings on The Tonight Show

09/06/2015 By Dave McFarlane Leave a Comment

We get to see Mr Put It Down

Did you miss it? Were you asleep or in a different country? Well you’ve got no excuse now because it’s online.
Ricky Martin performed his new single on The Tonight Show.
Mr Put It Down ft. Pitbull is the first single from Ricky’s upcoming English project which is arriving later this year.
He’s currently touring around America as part of his One World Tour.
So if you can’t see him live, check out this rather amazing performance of Mr Put It Down.

Filed Under: Music Reviews Tagged With: music, Ricky Martin

A New Kind of Fairytale Spotlights Gay Hero

09/06/2015 By Dave McFarlane Leave a Comment

 

BY ADAM SANDEL

JUNE 08 2015 6:00 AM ET

 

Hulu premieres a groundbreaking children’s tale with an out hero.

 

The Bravest Knight Who Ever Lived illustration by Ida M. Schouw Andreasen

The Bravest Knight Who Ever Lived illustration by Ida M. Schouw Andreasen

The Bravest Knight Who Ever Lived, the charming story of Cedric the pumpkin farmer — who shows courage, smarts and kindness as he grows to be a knight — may very well be the first children’s book to feature a hero who just happens to be gay.

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Creating the tale was an act of bravery itself for writer Daniel Errico – who just happens to be straight.
The author of more than 100 children’s e-books, many of which are available on his website (FreeChildrenStories.com), Errico is widely known for his Barnes and Noble best-sellers The Journey of the Noble Gnarble and The Journey of the Marmabill.  
So why would a straight, successful children’s author take on the risky challenge of creating a gay hero?
“I’m close friends with a gay couple, and when it comes to children’s literature, it was clear to me that they were being left out of the conversation,” Errico says. “There are some great children’s books about non-traditional families and gender non-conformity, but the biggest omission is gay heroes who kids can look up to and relate to.”
Errico faced resistance as soon as he began to develop the tale. “People who were close to me were concerned it might end my career,” he says. “They didn’t understand why I, as a straight man, would want to do it. But for me it’s a human rights issue. I can choose to be a part of this or not, which makes me even more determined to do it.”
The Bravest Knight Who Ever Lived was first published as an e-book, with sweetly droll illustrations by Danish artist Ida M. Schouw Andreasen. Having studied traditional fairy tales, Errico tells the story in charmingly witty verse that would make Oscar Wilde proud.
“I got amazing feedback from people who said they wish they’d had a book like this when they were growing up,” the author adds. But not all of the feedback was positive.
“There were conservative sites that said I was trying to brainwash kids and promote a gay agenda,” he says. “It was the first time in my career that people said, ‘I wouldn’t show this to my kids,’ even people who I considered liberal and gay allies. It changes for them when kids are involved. At the heart of it, some people are not fully convinced that their children’s sexuality cannot be influenced.”
Errico self-funded an animated eight-minute version of the story, which Andreasen then created. “I got unbelievably excited when Hulu decided to pick it up,” he says.
“We definitely recognized that The Bravest Knight is not for all audiences,” says Andrew Thomas, Hulu’s senior manager of content acquisition. “We wanted to be respectful and mindful of parents who are not ready to have a conversation with their kids about LGBT issues. But we hadn’t come across kids’ content that spoke to LGBT issues before. We’re in the business of telling great stories to kids, and this is such an adorable, sweet story. I feel very privileged that our whole team and our management is behind it.”
Hulu premiered The Bravest Knight Who Ever Lived on May 28, to kick off the site’s June Pride month initiative. And although it runs a mere eight minutes long, it is indeed a tale of which everyone can be proud.
Watch The Bravest Knight Who Ever Lived.
 

Filed Under: Book Reviews, Movie Reviews Tagged With: Cedric, Daniel Errico, gay hero

BELFAST CITY COUNCIL EQUAL MARRIAGE MOTION

09/06/2015 By Dave McFarlane Leave a Comment

1 June 2015
Cllr Jeffrey Dudgeon (UUP Balmoral)
I share the sheer joy of friends and comrades in the south at the referendum result.
Ireland, as someone has said, CAME OUT, and became a Republic of Freedom, perhaps for the first time.
Self-confident, modern, generous and tolerant.
Nothing illustrates that more than those hundreds who flew back into Dublin to vote.
It was not ever thus.
When they decriminalised in 1993, it was eleven years since I and a small band achieved the same in Northern Ireland. We had then a handful of non-gay supporters – Mary Holland the journalist, the poet John Hewitt and his wife, and another journalist still with us, Fionnuala O’Connor.
It took the south another decade, David Norris following in my footsteps at the European Court of Human Rights.
Contrary social forces there were strong. Not so now.
Although four out of ten did find reasons to vote NO, the campaign was civilised and largely polite.
So why the change? What happened?
Gay people came out, and the world realised we were not what they were led to expect. That then became a geometric process. Everybody had a gay person in their family or one amongst their friends.
When we decriminalised in 1982, there was a small party in Belfast of a dozen people and later a celebratory disco, not a huge street party with global support.
There was still to be a series of uphill battles in Northern Ireland, to bring about an equal age of consent, a fair and non-discriminatory sexual offences law, and civil partnerships. All were achieved by and through Westminster, with the signal help of Kate Hoey MP in the age case.
Being realistic, most countries in Europe still do not have equal marriage laws.
And the fact remains that in communist and post-communist countries, in the Islamic world and in much of Africa there is prosecution, persecution and worse. A ray of hope – Mozambique has just decriminalised. London a recent opinion poll told us, worryingly, is twice as homophobic as anywhere else in Britain.
Now in Northern Ireland we are being asked to follow suit immediately in the matter of marriage.
I don’t want to be churlish, but decriminalisation in the 1980s was achieved without support from any political party in Northern Ireland.
When the going was tough, the tough were found wanting.
Even today the Alliance Party has an equal marriage policy but it does not discipline MLAs who defy the whip.
Sinn Fein who were not supportive of law reform when it was unpopular, still can’t celebrate or even recognise their most famous gay hero and martyr, Roger Casement.
I am living history and can only take the long view.
I also campaigned for civil partnership when that was the limit of what progressives in the Labour Party and LibDems were offering. I did not say then marriage was next.
We don’t want or need a referendum here. That is a silly notion. The Bill would still have to get through the Assembly where it would be vetoed.
I don’t think the proposers of this motion are showboating or trying to test those who have concerns about a change in the marriage law, but I am nervous of opponents getting demonised for opposing something that was common currency a few short years ago.
I have respect for those I know who cannot support this motion, either because of theological beliefs, or simply traditional views, but not for those in the DUP who would reverse the reforms achieved, even decriminalisation itself. I have said we need to be careful that the balance between the European Convention articles on freedom of conscience and the right to a private life do not get out of kilter. Equality law should not trump human rights.
In my own party there are differing views. We tend to hold to the status quo, and that I understand, but some have already voted for change and it cannot be said they have paid a political penalty – unlike Montgomery Hyde MP, the most prominent exponent in the House of Commons in the 1950s for enacting the Wolfenden report reforms. He lost the Ulster Unionist nomination for his North Belfast seat in 1959 for his courage.
To conclude, I got selected in South Belfast by the UUP for this august body, and elected in 2014, as an openly gay man, and have been treated with respect and courtesy by all the other members. This has warmed my heart like little else.
As to the matter in hand, I am not of the view that the legislative change sought will be achieved through Stormont, certainly for a number of years. This motion is not going to change many minds there. I rather expect my learned friends in the High Court and in Strasbourg will again be the vehicle of change.
jeffreydudgeon@hotmail.com
Motion re: Civil Marriage Provisions for Same Sex Couples – Cllr. Emmet McDonough-Brown (Alliance) to move (Seconded by Cllr. Jim McVeigh, Sinn Fein leader):“This Council believes that all couples in Belfast and across Northern Ireland, regardless of sexual orientation, should have the right to a civil marriage; that the rights of religious institutions to define, observe and practise marriage within their beliefs should be given legal protection; that faith groups which wish to marry same sex couples should not be prevented by the state from doing so; that all married couples of the same sex should have the same legal entitlement to the protections, responsibilities, rights, obligations and benefits afforded by the legal institution of marriage; and calls on the Minister of Finance and Personnel to introduce legislation to extend civil marriage provisions to same sex couples.” Passed by 38 to 13 with two abstentions.

Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia, History Tagged With: Belfast City Council, equal marriage, same sex marriage

"Gay and Proud"

09/06/2015 By Dave McFarlane Leave a Comment

A poem from a gay-unionist called “Gay and Proud” which appeared in the March/April 2013 issue of Humanism Ireland which is the magazine of The Humanist association of Northern Ireland

I am an Ulster-Scot

Gay and Proud

Save Ulster from Sodomy

Is the message from Paisley (SNR)

The Catholic Cardinal is no better

in his message

But gay is what I am

Small town Ulster beware

From Comber in County Down

to Comber in Ontario, Canada

Gaymen and Lesbians arise

No longer in chains

Am now free to say I am gay

From the top of Scrabo Tower

Or from Rough Island at Islandhill

Gaymen and lesbians Stand United

and be Proud to be Gay.

 
 

Filed Under: Poetry and Prose Tagged With: gay, gay-unionist, unionist

A Look At The Complicated Politics Of The Word 'Lesbian'

09/06/2015 By Dave McFarlane Leave a Comment

Curtis M. WongDeputy Editor, Gay Voices
Posted: 06/08/2015 | Edited: 06/08/2015 05:09 PM EDT

 
After Ellen Editor-In-Chief Trish Bendix opened up about the complicated politics of the word “lesbian” in a HuffPost Live interview this week.
Sounding off on reports that “lesbian” was being phased out in favor of more inclusive terms, Bendix noted, “It’s scary because I feel like I’m erasing my identity, and a lot of other women’s identities.”
She went on to note, “We need to figure out a better way to also keep our identity in check and in place while also making sure to be touching all the bases that we want to be. …We still need to be able to have some term that gets us to say, ‘This is who we are and this is what we want and this is what we deserve.”
Bendix’s site emphasizes pop culture in the lesbian and bisexual community, with a “fun, feminist perspective” on everything from Hollywood to sports.
The topic has been a hot one as of late, after San Francisco’s Lexington Club, which is dedicated to a lesbian clientele, closed at the start of 2015 after 18 years of operation.
A Look At The Complicated Politics Of The Word 'Lesbian'


 

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