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First Childhood and Far From The Madding War – a book review

07/07/2021 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

First Childhood and Far from the Madding War

The first section of First Childhood and Far from the Madding War is a simple account of the Gay artist/composer/diplomat ‘Lord Berners’ upbringing as a child in hunting, shootin’ and fishin’ in late Victorian England.  

It is a well-trodden path but is traversed here in an unusually incisive, graceful and charitable way.  Even a genuinely sadistic headmaster is treated gently.  An effeminate man is the object of a distasteful bit of queer-bashing.

The author also appears to have a slight streak of antisemitism which surfaces in the novella “Far From The Madding War”, where he refers to ‘fat Jewesses’.  The book is a parody of The Oxford Novel, unfortunately, the beast was deeply self-parodying and the straining after effect does show.

“First Childhood” is graceful, loveable and beautifully written, make a gift of it to someone you really like (love).

 

This review was written by Sean McGouran during the Spring of 1985 and published in Gay Star Issue No 15.  The reviews for Gay Star and its sister publications were most times short as publishing a paper-based publication was expensive, and resources were in short supply; however, for all of that, our readers came from all sides of the globe, and they liked the honesty of the reviews.

 

Title First Childhood & Far From The Madding War
Author Lord Gerald Hugh Tyrwhitt-Wilson Berners
Publisher Oxford Paperbacks
Amazon Link First Childhood & Far From The Madding War
Pages 192
Price £2.80
Published Feb 1984
Other Formats  

First Childhood and Far from the Madding War

Links:

  • Eustace Chisholm and the Works and A Domestic Animal
  • Amazon – First Childhood and Far from the Madding War 
  • Amazon – First Childhood Hardcover

Filed Under: Book Reviews, Reviews Tagged With: Lord Berners, Oxford University Press, paperback

Thirteen or So Minutes – gay short movie review

05/07/2021 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

 

Thirteen or So MinutesIn ‘Thirteen or So Minutes’ we meet Lawrence Jefferies and Hugh Greery in the bedroom just after sex; the post-coital sex talk is about how both of them are ‘straight’, but what develops is that both of them had talked openly to each other in the bar about themselves and their lives.  What transpires out of this after sex talk is that they fell in love with the person, not just because each of them was men, or that one was a man and the other a woman which would be normal for both of them.  That life is beautiful, and it makes no difference what gender they are, that falling for someone just means you are alive and awake

 

The ending where they both wrap their arms around each other is tender, intimate, and beautiful.Thirteen or So Minutes - Nick Soper

“Dude that’s my shirt”,

 “This feels nice – Shit!”

 

I highly recommend this movie to anyone to show how love has no boundaries, love is love!

 

Title of Movie Thirteen or so minutes  
Running Time 13 mins (or so)  
Director William Branden Blinn  
Writer William Branden Blinn  
Actors Nick Soper and Carlos Salas  
Year 2008  
Star Rating ***** Five Stars  

Links:

  • At the destination [Am Ziel]
  • YouTube – Thirteen or So Minutes
  • IMDB – Thirteen or So Minutes

Filed Under: Movie Reviews, Reviews Tagged With: Carlos Sales, Hugyh Greery, Lawrence Jefferies, Nick Soper, sexuality issues, Short gay movie, Social Issues, William Branden Blinn

Virtual Belfast Reception

04/07/2021 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

 
Virtual Belfast ReceptionOn July 1st, 2021 the PinkNews, in partnership with Citi and the Rainbow Project, under the title “Virtual Belfast Reception” organised a panel discussion on LGBT+ equality in Northern Ireland.  The Virtual Belfast Reception online meeting involved Doug Beattie, UUP leader, Mary Lou McDonald, president of Sinn Fein, Colm Eastwood, SDLP leader, Naomi Long, Alliance leader and justice minister, and Mal O’Hara, a Green Party councillor in Belfast and the event was moderated by John O’Doherty, director of the Rainbow Project.
 
 
The virtual meeting was conducted through Zoom, with the audience being able to view but not comment except through the messenger facility of the program.  Areas under discussion were:
 
                • Transgender
                • Self ID Laws
                • LGBTQ+ and Education
                • Conversion Therapy

 

Obviously, during 1hr 30min+ discussion, there were sidetracks; the main one being over political parties and LGBTQ+ rights to which Paul Bradley, deputy leader of the DUP, said that in response to a question from Mr O’Doherty about the DUP and its history of negativity on LGBTQ+ issues, 

“I’m not going to defend some of the things that have been said over the years, because they have been absolutely atrocious. They’ve been shocking, so they have.
“I certainly couldn’t stand by many of those comments – in fact, all of those comments.
“Because I know that the hurt they have caused people and I know that fed into the hatred some people have had to endure in their life, and I think that’s absolutely wrong.
“I think the vast majority of those people that made those comments are no longer there, and the ones that are there have said that they have learned their lessons, that their language at times has not been right.
“It’s something I’ve brought up on numerous occasions with my own party because I think not sometimes, all the time, our language very much that we use as elected representatives has an impact in wider society.
“I can certainly say I apologise for what others have said and done in the past because I do think that there has been some very hurtful comments and some language that really should not have been used.”

(A full transcript can be found in the Newsletter link which is at the end of this article)

 

Now, this was a welcome response, however, it was then followed by Sir Jeffrey Donaldson speaking on Sunday, July 5th 2021|:

Mr Donaldson acknowledged past comments by members of the party had been “hurtful” to LGBT people here, before adding it was “not just in the case of the DUP”.

While the DUP leader said it is right “that we say sorry and acknowledge hurt”, Mr Donaldson went on to add: “Equally in time, I hope others will be able to acknowledge that they have caused hurt, for example to people from a strongly held faith perspective.”

This is the politician two shoe shuffle, give on one hand and then take away by blaming it all on someone else.

 

Much as Paul Bradly may wish, and indeed believes, that the DUP (Democratic Unionist Party) is making strives to reform, it would seem that its current leader, Sir Jeffrey Donaldson, has more in keeping with the leader he replaced Edwin Poots, or if you go back further Mrs Iris Robinson, a previous MLA and wife of the then First Minister ‘Peter Robinson’,  and ‘her’ psychologist who claimed that he could cure gays (gay conversion therapy).

 

Virtual Belfast Reception

 

 

Whilst I have concnetrated on the DUP during this virtual meeting, the other participants were very clear in the answers and supportive.  Some of the phrases which I have written down are:

  • Even though things have changed, there is ‘always a need to remain alert’.
  • If you ‘Stop pushing forward, then we will move back’
  • Even though we have had ‘Immense change, the lesson is we have to keep gong’
  • ‘Always think about those young people in turmoil’
  • ‘A Safe Place For All Of Our People’

Links:

  • Belfast Telegraph – Iris Robinson slammed for offering gay ‘cure’
  • Pink News – DUP politician tipped to succeed Arlene Foster has a long history of opposing LGBT+ rights
  • Irish Times – The DUP’s Jeffrey Donaldson was accused of homophobia by Sinn Féin
  • AcomsDave – The Conversion Therapy Saga
  • DUP deputy’s entire remarks to LGBTQIA+ gathering

 

Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia, Community Journalist, Editor to ACOMSDave, Government & Politics, History Tagged With: Colum Eastwood, conversion therapy, Doug Beattie, DUP, jeffrey dudgeon, John O'Doherty, LGBTQ, LGBTQ+ equality, Mal O'Hara, Mary Lou McDonald, Naomi Long, NIGRA, Northenr Ireland, Paula bradly, Pink News, politicians, Rainbow project

More Tales of The City by Armistead Maupin – book review

04/07/2021 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

More Tales of The City

 

 

 

The City referred to is San Francisco, and More Tales of The City does have an awful lot of Bay City chic about it.  The first third is a series of short stories; some sections are very short.  So many characters are introduced that it is difficult to keep track of them all.

But the author shows his art, as in guile, by pulling these zany yarns into a ‘whodunnit’ with ghoulish undertones, that keeps the reader interested for the greater part of the novel.  The sub-plots go off in the near foreground, like a particularly colourful fireworks display.

The ending is over-neat though there are a number of loose ends, possibly deliberate to hand a sequel on.  this is the liveliest book I have read for a very long time, and I’d recommend it even though it is a bit pricey.

(Originally published in Gay Star in Spring 1985)

 

Links:

  • Amazon – More Tales of The City by Armistead Maupin
  • Book Reviews for gay Teens and Young Adults

 

Title More Tales of The City
Author Armistead Maupin
Publisher Black Swan
Amazon Link Armistead Maupin – More Tales Of The City
Pages  
Price £33.98+p&p
Other Formats  
   

 

Filed Under: Book Reviews, Reviews Tagged With: amazon, Armistead Maupin, fireworks, gay characters, LGBTQ+ characters, More Tales of the City, San Francisco

A Boy’s Own Story by Edmund White – a book review

01/07/2021 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

 

A Boy's Own Story

 

A Boy's Own Story

With A Boy’s Own Story, after coming to terms with the author’s rather ornate writing style, the main problem for the reader is trying to work out whether the tale is being told in hindsight, or are the current thoughts of rather precocious youth.  a pity because apart from this, possibly deliberate, ambiguity the characters are very well imagined.

White can actually tell a story, there is a very long paragraph towards the end where he rounds up the subplots in a very sharp and funny way, the humour is quite zany in its part.

Plough through this book, you will enjoy it for the incidental charm, the central character is just a piece too previous for local tastes.  And the writing is too overripe for a genuine masterpiece.

 

Links:

  • Amazon – A Boy’s Own Story by Edmund White
  • Lockdown by Peter May

 

Title A Boy’s Own Story
Author Edmund White
Publisher Picador Classic
Amazon Link A Boy’s Own Story
Pages 256
Price £7.31
Other Formats Audio and Kindle
   

 

 

 

 

 

Filed Under: Book Reviews, Reviews Tagged With: 1950s, A Boy's Own Story, Edmund White, fantastic imagination, homosexuality, Triology

Eustace Chisholm and the Works and A Domestic Animal – two book reviews

29/06/2021 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

A Domestic Animal Eustace Chisholm and the Works Eustace Chisholm and the Works

 

John W Cairns wrote the review of these two novels ‘Eustace Chisholm and the Works’ and ‘A Domestic Animal’ for Gay Star in the Spring of 1985.

These novels, Eustace Chisholm and the Works and A Domestic Animal,  are both published by Gay Men’s Press in its Gay Modern Classics series.   Both are by novelists of considerable repute not known as essentially gay novelists.  They are novels which, while having gay themes – indeed revolving around different experiences of being gay, illumine the human condition in a more general way.

Purdy is American while King is English and their novels both confirm to well-established traditions within their respective national literatures.  Thus, A Domestic Animal is the type of English novel which involves the detailed and sensitive exploration of personal relationships, while Eustace Chisholm concentrates more on the general socio-economic context – the Depression years – in which the narrative is set.  Both novels accordingly display the strengths and weaknesses of the traditions within which they were written.  In King’s work, the socio-psychological forces which shaped the characters lives in a certain way have little significance: the motivations and emotions of the characters are, however, thoroughly, and convincingly depicted.  Purdy’s characters, on the other hand, remain perhaps rather two-dimensional – like puppets whose strings more in accordance with the social forces determining American life at a given instant:  his strength lies in the description of the reality the characters in habit and how it affects their actions.

Eustace Chisholm is set in Chicago of the Depression.  The eponym of the title lives in a decayed apartment writing on old newsprint a long poem of the novel:  all the other characters tend to have met one another in his apartment, to visit, or to write to him – they even communicate their love for one another through Chisholm, and their deaths are reported to and through him.  Amos Ratcliffe is young and beautiful.  He teaches Chisholm Ancient Greek.  He loves, and is loved by, Daniel Haws (though the latter refuses to admit his love to Amos).  Amos is taken up by Reuben Masterson, a rich, middle-aged drunk, while Haws joins the army to suffer under a sadistic captain.  The novel is full of violence and horror (one of the characters, Maureen O’Neill, has an illegal abortion, the description of which, one would have thought, should convince any doubter of the desirability of legislation of abortion).  At the end, the Depression years have given way to the Second World War:  Haws and Ratcliffe have been destroyed by the contradictions of their lives, while Chisholm, suffering from syphilis, survives in his apartment with his wife, his poem accidentally burned, bar or some news pages reporting the marriage of Masterson to O’Dell.  Though love is destroyed and cynicism flourishes in the ruins of a warring world, there is a hint of the possibility of a future, if limited, for the homosexual Chisholm and his wife.

A Domestic Animal is the story of an unrequited and hopeless passion.  It is delicately told in the first person by Dick Thompson, a confessedly ‘closeted’ novelist, who falls in love with his Italian lodger – Antonio, a philosopher on a visiting fellowship in an English university.  Antonio is an undomesticated animal who causes havoc and devastation in both Dick’s emotions and rather previous Regency house.  Antonio childishly craves affection and admiration which Dick duly gives him.  Antonio is, of course, heterosexual; but Dick searches every statement, every action of Antonio for signs of reciprocation of his passion.  For Antonio’s sake, he behaves badly and dishonourably towards others and neglects other, potentially more profitable, relationships.  This is a novel written with an intense and painful emotional honesty.  King plumbs emotional depths which Purdy, with his more ambitious scope, fails to reach.  The reader is profoundly moved.

 

The category of ‘gay fiction’ is in many ways a difficult one to accept.  Surely the only worthwhile way to classify novels is into the good and the bad on artistic criteria (though such criteria may encompass social considerations)?  Novels with gay themes, however, are bound to interest gay readers as reflecting, informing and expressing their experiences of life.  An in this Gay Men’s Press, as a specialist publisher, provides an excellent, worthy service; and is particularly to be congratulated for republishing these two novels, however, for a novel to be written for a specifically gay audience by a writer who is gay for it deserves acclaim (consider, for instance, the pious inanities of the fiction of David Rees):   what is wanted are not ‘gay novels’ as such, but good novels about and involving gay people.  Eustace Chisholm and the Works and A Domestic Novel are such novels.

 

John W Cairns

(First published in Gay Star Issue 15 Spring 1985)

 

Links

  • The Bookseller
  • Amazon – Eustace Chisholm and the Works
  • Amazon – A Domestic Animal

 

 

Book Reviews

TitleEustace Chisholm and the Works Domestic Animal
AuthorJames PurdyFrancis King
Current PublisherLiverightFaber and Faber
Amazon LinkAmazon - Eustace \chisholm and the WorksAmazon - A Domestic Animal
Pages256220
Price£11.09 paperback£13.00 paperback

Filed Under: Book Reviews, Reviews Tagged With: A Domestic Animal, Eustace Chisholm and the Works, Faber and Faber, Francis King, gay men's press, Gay Start, James Purdy, NIGRA, Silveright

Travellers and Roma – Calling All LGBT+

18/06/2021 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

Calling ALL Travellers and Roma, June is PRIDE Month would you like to appear in the Digital Dublin Pride Parade Video?

 

If so then look at our Info Sheet 21 which is available for download, and it also contains a wealth of other interesting bytes of information for everyone, but especially for ‘Travellers and Roma’.

 

Travellers and Roma

 

  • The Traveller Movement
  • Facebook – LGBT Ireland
  • LGBT Traveller and Roma Calendar

Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia, Community Journalist, Education and Development Tagged With: campagina, Dublin Pride Parade, LGBTQ, Pride Parade, Roma, traveller

Make Saving Simple

31/05/2021 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

Make Saving SimpleNow that the lockdown is easing, we all have hidden pressure to go out and enjoy ourselves, which leads to more expenditure.  However, if you follow this simple guide, you can ‘Make Saving Simple’, keep yourself in the black, and switch careful planning you can afford those guilty pleasures that we all long for.

The hated word in any discussion is ‘budget’, it normally causes more rows in a family circumstance than any other as you are talking about money and money is a limited resource.  However, if you implement a simple budget you will be surprised at how quickly (even from small amounts) your savings will develop.

Remember putting a budget is not about stopping you spending, it is about making you realise what you spend on, and then by looking at this expenditure you can decide what is important and what you can adjust to make a saving (if possible); or even, if you need to get help.

I have created a simple spreadsheet for those who have access to Microsoft Excel, and I also have created a PDF so that those who do not have excel can download the four sheets of paper and fill them in that way.

 

The four sheets are:

  • Summary
  • Needs
  • Debts-Savings
  • Wants

If you are using Excel, all you have to do is fill in the Needs / Debts-Savings / Wants sheets and the totals will automatically complete the Summary Sheet.  Then you will need to fill in your earnings figure.

If you are using the PDF sheets, you will have to fill each item in yourself, then use a calculator to get your totals on each sheet, then manually fill in the Summary Sheet and total the figures in the first section, and then fill in your earnings in the second section.

Once you have completed this then subtract your expenditure in box 1 from your earnings in box 2 – if you end up with a minus figure, then you will need to go back to box one and see what (if anything ) you can adjust so that you end up with a positive figure.

 

“When your income is £20 and spending is £19.98, the result is happiness. When your income is £20 and spending is £20.02, the result is misery.”

 

Downloads:

  • Excel – Make Saving Simple
  • PDF – Make Saving Simple

Don’t forget to contact us if you need further help!

Make Saving Simple - Contact Us

Links:

  • Why Charles Dickens’ Micawber was only half right

Filed Under: Community Journalist, Education and Development Tagged With: budgets, Covid, debt, earnings, expenditure, Lockdown, saving, simple

At the destination [Am Ziel] – Gay short movie – Movie Review

15/05/2021 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

Am Ziel

A beautiful, yet non-descript day in Bavaria, to be exact Allgau.  A day like every other day, except for Tom who is about to make a momentous decision – that of coming out and hopefully making new friends with other ‘gays’.  He is full of fears, indecision, and ideas flash through his mind with all the stereotypes that he has heard people, the media (newspapers, radio, television and movies) discussing.

I found this a very appt short movie, having just read various reports and written my own article on how LGBTQ+ youth have been hit hard by the pandemic, and the effect of being forced back into the closet for some of them as they have had to return home with no job, or no university course continuing.

Friendship and Sharing

During the period 10th to 16th May it is Mental Health Awareness Week in the UK, not surprisingly the USA has a Mental Health Awareness Month!  But, the aim no matter where you are is to be aware of others, that they may be suffering, but not showing it.  Be patient with your friends, but not just during this period of awareness, be aware always and be open to providing support, whether that be a cup of tea or coffee, a chat, a walk in the countryside with friends – you never know what will help a person, so put your hand out and see who grabs it, and don’t be disappointed if there is slow take-up, someone somewhere needs your friendship

At the destination [Am ziel}

Tom – At the destination (Am ziel)

The short film was made in a workshop by queerblick eV at the youth group “BONITO” in the Allgäu (www.bonito-allgaeu.de). Its aim is to encourage young people to dare to join a gay youth group, to find friends and support, to not be alone.

I have been lucky enough to get in touch with Andi from the group, who told me that ‘The actual idea behind the story was to show young queer people in our area what a queer youth group is or isn’t in terms of clichés. The story itself was written by the main character Tom played by Axel, literally telling the story of his first attempts (it took him three) to come to Bonito.’

 

Movie Information:

Main characters:

Tom: Axel – 23

Guy with the bike: Andi – 26

Spooky Queen: Martin – 25

Guy in front of the house: Winni – 22

Length of movie: 5.39

 

Links:

  • YoutTubAt the destination [Am Ziel]
  • Hand Off – Gay Short Movie 2019 – Movie Review
  • The queer youth group in the Allgäu
  • Allgau Short Films and Projects
  • Mental Health Awareness Week 10-16 May 2021

Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia, Editor to ACOMSDave

Pandemic Impact on our LGBTQ+ Youth

14/05/2021 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

Pandemic Impact on our LGBTQ+ Youth

 

In 2018 whilst discussing ‘Rainbow Colours At Ards Town Hall’ reference was made to a report on suicide prevention from the World Health Organisation, Pandemic Impact on our LGBTQ+ Youthand the methods of measuring suicide attempts.  Reference was also made to the Rainbow Project report ‘Through Our Minds’ which indicated that 25.7% of those who responded, ‘had at least one attempt at suicide.’

But this is not the whole story, the following table gives a more concrete overview of the facts and figures:

General population (suicide attempt ever) LGBT population (suicide attempt ever) General population (suicide attempt past year) LGBT (suicide attempt past year)
Northern Ireland 4% 25.7% ? 6.17%
Great Britain 4.4% ? 0.5% 4.02%*
Ireland 7%** 21.4% 1.68%** 5.63%

 

*Excluding transgender people, recalculated on the basis of the two studies (2008; 2011) taken together
**Aged 17-25

 

LGBT Ireland’s Annual Report

LGBT Ireland’s Annual Report for 2020 published yesterday (May 10) highlighted how the LGBTQ+ community was affected by the COVID pandemic with a higher number than ever of younger people calling the LGBT Ireland helpline with a correlating uptake in online peer support groups….[FactcheckNI(https://factcheckni.org/articles/have-1-in-4-lgbt-persons-attempted-suicide/)]

So why am I raising this again?  We are all still living and working within the pandemic and its impact on all of the community within the United Kingdom.  However, the LGBT Ireland’s Annual Report covering the year 2020, has highlighted the LGBTQ+ community was affected by the COVID pandemic with a higher number that ever of young people calling the LGBT Helpline.

Pandemic Impact on our LGBTQ+ YouthBut in Northern Ireland, I would also suggest that the number of calls for support whether by phone, text or online will have gone up.  Our youth have also suffered from the impact of the pandemic, and so many reports, studies and articles over the period have indicated that for so many that had to return home from university halls, or from rented accommodation which they could no longer afford had the ‘return to the closet’ syndrome as they either were not out to their families, or their families preferred that they kept a low profile.

The cancelling of so many venues and the limitation of support groups has also brought further psychological pressure on our LGBTQ+ youth.

Indian Variant

Today we heard that we are moving forward towards new normality, however almost immediately we are being told about the ‘Indian’ variant and that if the numbers continue to increase from this it may lead to local or limited lockdowns. 

None of us knows the future, and indeed the one thing that is guaranteed apart from birth, death and taxes (which are bound to go up due to Brexit fallout and the pandemic costs) is that the pandemic is here forever, and that it is down to us all to be sensible and use the skills we have developed over the last 15+ months, but also that we need to think carefully on how we can support and care for our youth ( and indeed everyone).

 

Links:

  • Number of young LGBTQ+ people seeking support for loneliness in Ireland reaches ten year high
  • Finding Shelter for Homeless LGBT Youth
  • Russia’s LGBT youth left isolated, victimised by “gay propaganda” law

Filed Under: Community Journalist Tagged With: Ards Town Hall, calls for help, Indian Variant, LGBT Ireland Annual Report, LGBTQ+ suicide, pandemic, Rainbow project, suicide, Through Our Minds, World Health Organisation

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