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80% of gay men now meet their long-term partners on dating apps

12/04/2015 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

14% of gay men met online in 2001

Reprinted from GayStarNews:09 APRIL 2015 | BY JOE MORGAN

If you think apps for gay men were all about hookups, it turns out that 80% of gay men say they have met their long-term partner on one of them.
New research published in AIDS and Behavior has shown the number of gay men who have met their partners online has jumped dramatically, going from 14% in 2001 to 80% last year.
During the same time period, men who met partners at bars, sex-on-premises venues and through friends or other venues dropped.
Researchers argue health organizations need to rethink how they are comminicating sexual health messages online, saying it’s time to move past condoms in club toilets and onto effective multimedia tools for different users depending on what they are looking for.
Garrett PRestage, a sociology associate professor at the University of New South Wales in Australia, said the sheer amount of men using apps like Grindr, Scruff and Tinder cast doubt on who is exactly in danger of STIs.
‘One of the things that been talked about a lot over the last decade is that men who meet online are of a higher risk,’ he told The Star Observer.
‘This data show that this is faulty logic because most gay men meet partners this way… be that romantic or sexual.
‘If they’re comparing it with men who don’t use apps they’re comparing men who are sexually active with those who are not.’
Research that showed people who used these apps had more STIs are only stigmatizing users, Prestage suggests.
‘A more sensible approach is simply to accept that men are more likely to meet via online methods these days and make sure that there are appropriate online interventions and information,’ he said.
‘Instead, health bodies should use different messaging of different apps depending on whether users were looking for long term partners or simply a fuckbuddy.
‘You can’t just talk about “hook up apps” because it covers too much, it would be the same as saying all gay bars are the same.’
Previous research has indicated that gay dating apps could be to blame for the rise of gonorrhoeaand syphilis.
As a policy, the majority of gay dating apps bans users from mentioning they are looking for unprotected intimate activity, and will remove profiles of those who violate that regulation
 
Editorial:
 
Sexual well being has to be at the forefront of who we are as human beings.  We should take care of both ourselves and also of others – The Rainbow Project is an organisation which actively promotes safe sex, and its page ‘Sexual Health‘ gives clear advice on how you should take care.  At the bottom of its page is a link to getting your free Safer Sex Pack, but in case you miss it :

 

Filed Under: Campaigns Tagged With: apps, gay men, gay partners, safer sex, safer sex pack

BBC Archive on Gay Rights

12/04/2015 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

It is amazing how when you start surfing the net you end up so far from where you started off, it makes you wonder if you have been spending your time wisely?

I was sent a link to Irish Centre for the Histories of Labour & Class, purely because it is known that I like reading history, and that I like researching.  So I get to the link, and start browsing, and then decide to find out if there was any ‘gay’ material on the site.  The search gave me a link to the BBC Archive on Gay Rights, which has 30 podcasts on a range of historically significant points in history for Gay Rights; the BBC says:

In 1967, homosexuality was partially decriminalised in England and Wales. Since then, terms like ‘clause 28’, ‘the age of consent’ and ‘civil partnerships’ have become part of the political language in the fight for gay rights.
In this collection, we chart the story so far for gay and lesbian equality in the UK. Many of the programmes reflect the language common at the time when they were first broadcast and illustrate the changing attitudes towards homosexuality in the last 50 years.
Campaigners unroll a rainbow banner.

Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia, Campaigns Tagged With: Archive, BBC, gay rights, Histories of labour and class, Irish centre

Burlesque Bottoms

12/04/2015 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

Here’s Your First Look At ‘Broadway Bares: Top Bottoms Of Burlesque’ (NSFW)

The Huffington Post  |  By Curtis M. Wong
Posted: 04/10/2015 11:16 am EDT Updated: 04/11/2015 1:59 am EDT
  • More than 150 of New York’s hottest dancers are set to turn back the clock to the golden age of Broadway for an “unrivaled evening of sexy striptease” this June.(WARNING: Some images may be NSFW) – burlesque ‘bottoms’ are wonderful
Broadway Cares/Equity Fights AIDS (BC/EFA) officials released these sizzling images and behind-the-scenes video ahead of “Broadway Bares: Top Bottoms of Burlesque,” which hits Manhattan’s Hammerstein Ballroom on June 21 and features “a cast of colorful characters for every desire and fantasy.”
Tony Award winner Jerry Mitchell (“Kinky Boots”) returns to the director’s chair in honor of the 25th anniversary of the annual Broadway Bares event. In 24 years, the show has raised more than $12.6 million for BC/EFA, and starred more than 200 of the Great White Way’s most able-bodied performers, with themes ranging from 2012’s sexy storybook “Happy Endings” to the risqué rock-and-roll of “Broadway Bares: Rock Hard!” in 2014.
“A lot of things can happen in 25 years, but who would’ve thought that seven guys dancing on a bar could grow into an annual event that has raised so much to help people living with HIV and AIDS,” Mitchell said in a statement. “Broadway Bares has done that. And this year we’re going full out, maybe even with a top hat and our version of tails, ’cause if baby, you’re a bottom, you’re the top.”
Check out some teaser photos below, and read more about “Broadway Bares: Top Bottoms of Burlesque” here.

  • The Casting Director
    Andrew Eccles
    Casey Lee Ross
  • The Choreographer
    Andrew Eccles
    Alec Varcas with Betsy Struxness, Adriene Couvillion, Skye Mattox, Elizabeth Dugas, Paloma Garcia-Lee, Holly Ann Butler and Greer Gisy.
  • The Dance Captains
    Andrew Eccles
    Joshua Buscher-West and Ryan Worsing
  • The Director
    Andrew Eccles
    Erik Altemus
  • The Female Ingenues
    Andrew Eccles
    Shiloh Goodin, Shina Ann Morris and Naomi Kakuk
  • The Male Ingenue
    Andrew Eccles
    Steven Wenslawski
  • The Stagehands
    Andrew Eccles
    Colby Q. Lindeman, Alfie Parker Jr. and Evan Siegel

Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia, Campaigns Tagged With: Broadway Bares: Rock Hard!, Broadway Cares/Equity Fights AIDS (BC/EFA), burlesque bottoms, Jerry Mitchell

Be careful where you wash your hands

12/04/2015 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

 

Editorial: Cottaging is a British gay slang term referring to anonymous sex between homosexual men in a public lavatory (a “cottage”, “tea-room” or “beat“), or cruising for sexual partners with the intention of having sex elsewhere. The term has its roots in self-contained English toilet blocks resembling small cottages in their appearance; in the English cant language of Polari this became a double entendre by gay men referring to sexual encounters.

According to Roger Casement’s diaries, from 1903 to 1911, the gay cruising areas in Belfast were at the Albert Clock (probably also around the Customs House toilet), Botanic Gardens, Ormeau Park, and the Giants Ring. Cottaging went on in Victoria Square in an elegant wrought iron edifice (which was still operating in the 1960s and may be in the Ulster Folk Museum) and at the Gasworks.

Cottaging is not something that is recommended as the police will take action, and in the past this had led to prosecution and unfortunately to individuals feeling so threatened by this that they have committed suicide.

The Rainbow Project offers a free Safer Sex Packs delivered direct to your address in Northern Ireland. To receive these please fill in the form on their website. You are eligible to receive our free Safer Sex Packs if you identify as the following:

  • A Gay, Bisexual or Man who has Sex with Men (MSM) living in Northern Ireland

Want to find out more about where to get condoms?

You can get free condoms from:

  • Brook NI if under 25 – www.brook.org.uk

  • Rainbow Project Belfast and Foyle Offices

  • Partner Bars and Clubs

  • GUM Clinics and Community Pharmacies

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Pensioner who groped burly trucker after mistaking lay-by for gay hook-up spot guilty of sex assault

The Mirror : 15:39, 11 April 2015 By Nick Towle

The horrified victim thought Dennis Cockerill, 82, was asking for directions before he began touching his legs and crotch

Guilty: Cockerill said he wanted to “verify” rumours the lay-by was a gay sex hotspot
A randy pensioner who groped a trucker after he mistook a lay-by for a gay hook-up spot has been convicted of sex assault.
Dennis Cockerill, 82, stopped at the Skipbridge lay-by in Hammerton Green, near Harrogate, looking for “a bit of fun”, a court heard.
He approached the victim, a burly lorry driver in his 40s, believing he was also a sex cruiser, York Crown Court was told.
But Cockerill was misinformed, and the Yorkshire trucker had stopped in the lay-by to load some pig feed onto another wagon.
Prosecutor Paul Newcombe told a jury how Cockerill got up on the step at the side of the victim’s cab and began chatting him up, before reaching through an open window and touching him on the arm, his knee and then his crotch.
The horrified trucker nudged the lustful pensioner away and called the police, who turned up and arrested Cockerill.
Cockerill, from Kent, told officers he’d heard a rumour that the lay-by was used as a meeting placed for gay men and he wanted to “verify” this.
Read more at: http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/pensioner-who-groped-burly-trucker-5499825

Filed Under: Campaigns Tagged With: cottaging, court case, history, pensioner, safe sex

30 Years On, Miners Take Pride Again

18/03/2015 By David McFarlane Leave a Comment

 

30 years on, miners take pride again,  with their first meeting immortalised on the silver screen, Welsh miners will be reunited tonight with their lesbian and gay supporters.
Twenty-seven members of Lesbians and Gays Support the Miners (LGSM), led by Mark Ashton, travelled from London to Onllwyn miners’ welfare hall on October 26 1984.
That night of “dancing in Dulais” sparked the famous solidarity story told in Bafta-winning blockbuster Pride…
 
 

 

LGSM activists return to Wales for another ‘dance in Dulais’

Reprinted from : The Morning Star
 
 Saturday 14th Mar 2015  posted by Luke James in Britain

…Many of the miners and LGSM members there from the outset will be among more than 250 people packed into a sold-out celebration at Onllwy’s Palace of Culture tonight.
The special event is being staged after both LGSM and the Neath, Dulais and Swansea Valleys Miners Support Group reformed in the wake of the film’s success.
Hywel Francis, the historian and local miners’ support group leader turned Labour MP, will launch a new edition of his book History on Our Side at the event.
Speaking to the Star yesterday he said: “It will be almost as if we were back 30 years ago.
“It’s a sense of reminding ourselves of the struggle and also renewal for the future.”
Pride was the catalyst for Dr Francis to take a fresh look at the consequences of the miners’ dispute in 1984-85.
He said that the “valuable alliance” built between miners and LGSM is part of the legacy that have helped coalfield communities endure in the face of industrial devastation.
“There were resources of hope that came out of that, including a tremendously strong sense of community and a sense of responsibility to one and other,” said the MP.
“That message, that eternal message, is still there and in that sense, despite the defeat, we feel that history is on our side.”
Pride actor Bronwen Lewis will join miners and their supporters, who are coming from across Britain and Europe, to attend the Onllwyn miners’ welfare hall tonight.
In a foreword for Dr Francis’s new book, LGSM secretary Mike Jackson describes his fateful first visit in 1984 “as one of the most memorable experiences of my life.”
He recalls: “As we walked through the double swing doors the level of the conversations dropped for a moment.
“Then someone started clapping and the rest followed.”

30 years on, miners take pride

File:Photo of plaque commemorating the life of Mark Ashton 02.jpg – Wikimedia Co

Links:

  • Still fighting for equality: So So Gay speaks to Lesbians & Gays Support the Miners

Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia, Campaigns, Community Journalist, Movie Reviews Tagged With: Gays The word, Mark Ashton, Pride, Support the Miners

Current vacancies within the Scottish Transgender Alliance and Equality Network

22/02/2015 By David McFarlane Leave a Comment

 

 
 
 
 
 
 
We are recruiting for staff and volunteers
The Equality Network is a leading Scottish lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and intersex (LGBTI) rights charity. We work to change the law, policy and society of Scotland to deliver full equality for all LGBTI people.
Scottish Transgender Alliance Policy Officer
Full time 35 hours per week, flexible hours
Salary: £23,697 (SJC point 27, AP4.1)
Fixed term post until 31st March 2016 (subject to finalisation of funding) (We also hope to continue the post after that, subject to funding)
Based in Edinburgh
We are looking to recruit a full-time Scottish Transgender Alliance Policy Officer to join our dedicated staff team, to support the development and delivery of the Scottish Transgender Alliance project to improve gender identity and gender reassignment equality, rights and inclusion in Scotland. This post will include developing policy and good practice guidance and informing, equipping and supporting transgender people, equality organisations, government policy makers and other employers and service providers to engage together.
Closing date for applications: 9.00am, Tuesday 3rd March 2015
Interviews will be on Tuesday 17th March 2015
We are an equality organisation. We welcome applications from all communities, and in particular from trans women, non-binary people and minority ethnic people, who are currently under-represented in our staff team. Disabled people who meet the essential requirements of the person specification will be guaranteed an interview.
Download the application pack for this vacancy from:
www.equality-network.org/vacancies or call 0131 467 6039 or email Lynne Davies,lynne@equality-network.org for an application pack or further information.
Equality Network Board members
We are seeking to recruit at least two new members to join our team of volunteer Board members, who oversee the work of our dedicated staff and volunteers, and develop our strategy and vision. We would like one of the new members to take on the role of Treasurer.
The Board meets seven times per year in Edinburgh, usually in the evening. Travel and all other expenses are paid to attend meetings from any part of Scotland.
We are an equality organisation and we very much welcome applications from all communities, and in particular from minority ethnic people, who are currently under-represented on our Board.
More details are available from www.equality-network.org/vacancies or by email from Lynne Davies lynne@equality-network.org or call Tim Hopkins, Director for an informal chat on 0131 467 6039.
Closing date for applications:  Monday 16th March 2015

Yours for equality,
Tim Hopkins
Director

Filed Under: Campaigns Tagged With: equality network, scotland, vacancy

Politics – What’s on your conscience?

08/02/2015 By David McFarlane Leave a Comment

In December 2014 Paul Givan MLA launched a consultation for his proposed ‘Conscience Clause’. If introduced this would allow businesses to refuse service to same couples, based only on religious belief against what is referred to as promoting same sex relationships. This would mean that a restaurant  or B&B could refuse service to a same sex couple or a landlord could refuse a tenancy to a same sex couple and their family.

 

Join the campaign against the Conscience Clause. Simply just print out the attached speech bubble or draw your own and tell us ‘what is on your conscience’. Whether it is a story or message to inspire others or simply just a limerick we want to hear your thoughts. For some inspiration check out the images above! You can check out more by searching #noconscienceclause
You can also support the Riinbow Project’s  work by texting NOCC15 £3 to 70070 to donate £3, or NOCC15 £5 to donate £5 etc. Remember to tag us on Facebook and Twitter. Remember to use the #noconscienceclause

For more information on our campaign against the Conscience Clause please visit www.rainbow-project.org/noconscienceclause

Please forward throughout your networks and thanks for the support

Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia, Campaigns Tagged With: clause, conscience, conscience clause, paul givan.mla, rainbow p, Rainbow project, roject, speech bubble, speech bubble campaign

Thought for the Day

07/02/2015 By David McFarlane Leave a Comment

 
 

If a problem cannot be solved, enlarge it.

Dwight D. Eisenhower  

Read more at http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/quotes/d/dwightdei135980.html#romQDgWEX8VZpf4Q.99

Filed Under: Campaigns Tagged With: day, eisenhower, quote, thought

Thought For The Day

03/02/2015 By David McFarlane Leave a Comment

Quentin Crisp
 

“I don’t think you can really be proud of being gay, because it isn’t something you’ve done.  You can only be proud of not being ashamed.”

Quentin Crisp

Writer

  • Quentin Crisp was an English writer and raconteur. From a conventional suburban background, Crisp grew up with effeminate tendencies, which he flaunted by parading the streets in make-up and painted nails, and working as a rent-boy. Wikipedia

 
 

Born: December 25, 1908, Sutton

 

Died: November 21, 1999, Chorlton-cum-Hardy, Greater Manchester

 

Movies: The Naked Civil Servant, Orlando, Resident Alien, more

 

Parents: Frances Marion Pratt, Spencer Charles Pratt

 

Siblings: Phyllis Pratt, Lewis Pratt

Filed Under: Campaigns Tagged With: crisp, day, quentin, thought

Northern Ireland gay activists fight bill which could allow gay discrimination

01/02/2015 By David McFarlane Leave a Comment

The proposed ‘conscience clause’ would allow people to refuse goods or services to LGBTI people on the grounds of strongly-held religious beliefs
31 JANUARY 2015 | BY LIAM JOHNSON
The proposed ‘conscience clause’ would allow people to refuse goods or services to LGBTI people on the grounds of strongly-held religious beliefs

Image via Facebook/The-Rainbow-Project
LGBTI activists are rallying against a new bill proposal which they fear could legitimise anti-gay discrimination in Northern Ireland.
The proposed ‘conscience clause’ is a measure which could allow people to refuse goods or services to gay and lesbian people on the ground of their strongly-held religious beliefs.
An example of this would be the Belfast bakery which refused to bake a gay Bert and Ernie cake. Activists fear if the proposed ‘conscience clause’ was made law, then it would legitimise discriminatory behaviour such as this.
The Private Members’ Bill has been proposed by Paul Givan, a Democratic Unionist Party member of the Northern Ireland Assembly, and has been backed by party leader and First Minister, Peter Robinson.
John O’Doherty, Director of The Rainbow Project which is a pro-LGBT rights group based in Northern Ireland, hit out against the bill.
‘Mr Givan claims that his bill will allow believers to deny goods and services to LGB people when it ‘promotes or facilitates same sex relations’. Let us explain to Mr Givan what this means,’ said O’Doherty.
‘Restaurants could deny same sex couples a table as this could be facilitating same sex relations. A mortgage provider could deny a mortgage to a same sex couple as it would be facilitating same-sex relations. Hoteliers could deny a room to a same sex couple as it would be facilitating same-sex relations.
‘The examples are countless. Mr Givan clearly has not considered the implications of his license to discriminate legislation. Ensuring LGB people can access goods and services without discrimination is good for business, good for the economy and good for Northern Ireland’s reputation with investors.’
In addition to the Rainbow Project, Amnesty International has also criticized the proposal.
‘What is proposed is not a conscience clause, it is a discrimination clause,’ said Patrick Corrigan, Amnesty International’s Northern Ireland Programme Director.
‘This is not about freedom of religion; this is about treating a section of our population as second-class citizens.
‘This change to the law is not welcome and it is not needed. The law already strikes a fair balance between the human right to freedom of religion and the human right not to suffer discrimination.
‘Northern Ireland’s First Minister should concentrate on eradicating inequalities already faced by members of the LGBTI community here, rather than lending his support to a discriminatory new law.
‘He could start by publishing Stormont’s long overdue sexual orientation strategy, which could help tackle homophobia in Northern Ireland society.’
#NoConscienceClause has already begun trending on social media, facilitated by The Rainbow Project.
Today at 3pm (31 January), there is a planned protest against the bill at Belfast City Hall. There will also be partner protests in Derry-Londonderry and Newry.
Stephen Fry has signed a petition arguing for the dismissal of the bill.

– See more at: http://www.gaystarnews.com/article/northern-ireland-gay-activists-fight-bill-which-could-allow-gay-discrimination310115#sthash.MAMacSvl.dpuf

Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia, Campaigns Tagged With: Amnesty INternational, discrimination bill, gay activists, homophobia, Rainbow project, steven fry

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