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R&B artist Russell Elliot debuts beautifully choreographed music video

24/11/2015 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

Gay Times Logo23rd November 2015

by Daniel Megarry

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Queer R&B singer Russell Elliot has released his debut single Around, and the accompanying video is a wonderfully executed story of unrequited love.

The clip, choreographed by the award-winning Kuperman Brothers, also features dancer Alonso Guzman as his love interest.
Russell told Smoothie Tunes: “The song is about a boy I met in college. He wanted me but not meaningfully. He wanted me but not as badly as he wanted heteronormativity, or privilege, or comfort.

“Around is the confrontation I couldn’t bring myself to address in the moment. Frankly, it’s the “go fuck yourself” I never gave him in person.”
 

 

Filed Under: Music Reviews Tagged With: Around, dance music video, R&B, Russell Elliott

Reid Ewing, Modern Family Star, is gay

24/11/2015 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

Reid Ewing has confirmed that he is gay in a very nonchalant, matter of fact way, and for those of us involved in politics and normality, that is the way it should be.  Being gay is normal, and it shouldn’t be any more news worthy than being married, being parents, being a brother or sister.
Reid also discussed why he underwent cosmetic surgery, and body dysmorphia during his Twitter discussion, which is where he confirmed that he was gay!
Reid is an actor, and is currently known for his role as Dylan in the hit TV show from ABC ‘Modern Family’  –  the Modern Family Wiki describes Dylan as  warm, a tad dim but sweet and loves his girlfriend a lot.  I will let you judge, but the character is in no way a representation of the real Reid Ewing I believe.
Here are two pics to let you know who he is is, and also a link to a quick search I did in Google for other pics:
 
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Links:
Google search general:

  • Reid Ewing General Pic Search
  • Reid Ewing with slightly less clothes
  • Huffpost Gay Voices – ‘Modern Family’ Star Confirms He’s Gay In A Totally Nonchalant Way

Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia, TV programme reviews Tagged With: being gay, body dysmorphia, coming out, Dylan, Modern Family, Reid Ewing

Northern Irish gay couple among first to marry in Republic

19/11/2015 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

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Andrew Page, Dan Littauer 17 November 2015

 

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Darren and Tony Day were among the first couples to be married in Ireland (Photo: Darren and Tony Day)

The first same-sex wedding has taken place in the Republic of Ireland – and a Northern Irish couple were among the first to be able to call each other “husband and husband”.

Tony and Darren Day, from County Antrim, had their wedding celebration in County Monaghan on Saturday. However, as same-sex marriage is not yet legalised – or recognised – in Northern Ireland, the short ceremony earlier today made their union official.
Tony and Darren had initially planned to have a civil partnership and had booked a hotel for 14th November. However, as time passed and – following a referendum – it became clear that the Republic of Ireland was set to introduce same-sex marriage, they became hopeful that they would actually be able to get married.
Darren, whose birth surname was Baird, admitted that it had been “a happy coincidence” that he and Tony were able to make history as one of the first same-sex couples to marry in Ireland, but the historical significance of the occasion mattered less than being able to be legally married. He said: “It’s been lovely to exchange our vows and to make it official, to finally be able to call each other husband and husband. Tony was joking that we would only be able to do that for 10 minutes until we went back over the [Irish] border [but] as far as we’re concerned, we’re married – we got married on this island.”

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Parker walks down the aisle with Darren and Tony (Photo: Darren and Tony Day)

The ceremony on Saturday had no legal basis, but was a celebration of the couple’s love before 220 guests. Tony’s eight year old son, Parker, walked with them up the aisle. Darren said: “It was so sweet, and I’ve never sensed a feeling of love like that. Parker suggested holding our hands and walking us up the aisle, which was amazing for a child so young to have that idea.” Tony said “We held the wedding on Saturday and just tied up the legal bits today in a very small ceremony.”

Speaking to KaleidoScot, Tony was keen to explain how much the day meant to both of them. “We met about six and a half years ago online. We would never have thought what happened today would happen for us, we just always figured getting married would never be an option. We are delighted and slightly saddened at the same time. Delighted that we were able to do it, but saddened that when we crossed the border back into our home country it’s not recognised as a marriage.”

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“We held the wedding on Saturday and just tied up the legal bits today in a very small ceremony” (Photo: Darren and Tony Day)

Asked how their marriage has been received back home in Northern Ireland, Tony said that most people have been positive. “Most of the comments we’ve seen have been very supportive”, he said. “Of course you are gonna get haters – you can’t please everybody all of the time. As our celebrant Eileen Morris said during our ceremony ‘those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.’”
Tony added that he believed marriage equality will eventually come to Northern Ireland. He told KaleidoScot: “I think eventually it’ll be recognised. It’s always just a matter of time for these things. General opinion is changing, we just need our main political party to try to catch up.”
The party he is referring to is the Democratic Unionist Party, who recently blocked a motion in support of same-sex marriage after a majority of assembly members had voted in favour of it.
John O’Doherty, from the Rainbow Project – a Northern Irish organisation promoting health and LGBTI rights – told KaleidoScot: “We at The Rainbow Project send our congratulations to Tony and Darren. Both have been long time supporters of ours. Tony and Darren are Married and should be recognised as such. Our campaign continues and hopefully it won’t be long until their marriage is recognised in Northern Ireland.”

Filed Under: History Tagged With: Darren Day, equal marriage, gay marriage, Irish politics, Tony Day

Review – Trouble: A rock and a hard place

19/11/2015 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

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Jane Coyle
 

A chilling and challenging piece shows how far equality and gay rights have come in Northern Ireland – and how far is left to go

 

Trouble

Venue: The Mac Date Reviewed


 

Trouble

The Mac, Belfast

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It’s no picnic being gay in Northern Ireland, but it’s better than it used to be. In 1991, a hundred or so people took part in Belfast’s first Gay Pride march. Thanks to the campaigning efforts of those defiant few, a procession of some 20,000 made its way through the city centre in 2015. Then there is the other side of the coin. Northern Ireland is the only region in these islands where same sex marriage does not exist and where a majority vote in the Assembly can be overturned by a benign-sounding Petition of Concern.

In this chilling and challenging piece, Theatreofpluck’s artistic director Niall Rea has joined forces with writer Shannon Yee, who is currently involved in a High Court case to lift the same sex marriage ban, while celebrating the 10th anniversary of being one half of the UK’s first civil partnership. Yee grew up in the liberal, socially diverse environment of America’s east coast from where, in 2004, she moved to Belfast. Her own contrasting experiences of navigating one’s sexuality promoted her to interview 46 LGBT individuals about their agonising existence below the radar during the Troubles.

Rea’s design and direction – the latter in cooperation with Anna Newell – are both disorientating and sharply focused. Conan McIvor’s video images are embedded into a large gauzy cube, around which the audience moves in semi-darkness. Glimpses and snatches from other lives bleed into a quagmire of verbatim testimonies, recorded on screen by a cast of high-profile actors. Out of Eduardo Patricio’s pulsing soundscape, emerges a heady mix of laughter, fear, isolation and self-destruction. Notably, Alexandra Ford’s admission of forbidden love comes wrenched from the depths of her soul, while PJ O’Reilly wryly recalls grubby back street bars and clubs where homosexuality and punk music became natural bedfellows.

Unsettlingly, Andrew Sandford is the sole live presence, transforming before our eyes from a beautiful, bare-torsoed young man into a resolute pillar of the community. Proceedings climax in a joyous dance celebration, but even there in that ostensibly safe place, reality intervenes suddenly, shockingly and with a horrible inevitability.

Trouble is at Belfast City Hall as a video archive installation throughout December

 

Filed Under: Theatre Reviews Tagged With: Andrew Sandford, Belfast City Hall, installation, Niall Rea, Shannon Yee, Theatreofpluck, Trouble

Openly gay footballers would get respect – Richard Scudamore

19/11/2015 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

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Gay footballers would be treated with respect if they choose to publicly reveal their sexuality, says Premier

Richard Scudamore

League boss Richard Scudamore.

“The environment would be entirely suitable for them to come out,” Scudamore told BBC Newsnight.
There have been no openly gay male footballers in England since former Norwich striker Justin Fashanu in 1990.
The Daily Mirror  has reported that two top-flight players are set to come out with support from their clubs.
“It would be welcomed and I think there would be a tolerance to it. I think the time would be right to do that,” Scudamore added.

Former England women’s captain Casey Stoney was the first active footballer to come out in England since Fashanu in February 2014.
Former Aston Villa midfielder Thomas Hitzlsperger publicly revealed his homosexuality in 2014, after his retirement, and Scudamore is “absolutely sure” there are gay players in England’s top flight.
“It would be very strange if there wasn’t,” the Premier League chief executive said.
In other sports, high-profile athletes have openly spoken about their sexuality, with Olympic diver Tom Daley revealing in December 2013 he was in a relationship with a man.
British race walker Tom Bosworth became the first Team GB athlete to come out as gay, while former British and Irish Lions captain Gareth Thomas, who played rugby for Wales in both codes, and rugby league player Keegan Hirst have also come out.
Examples in football are less common. In 1990, former England Under-21 international Fashanu was the first professional footballer in Britain to come out as gay. He retired from football in 1997 and took his own life a year later, aged 37.
Swedish footballer Anton Hysen, son of former Liverpool defender Glenn Hysen, announced his sexuality in an interview with a Swedish football magazine in 2011.
In February 2013, former United States and Leeds United winger Robbie Rogers said he was gay in a post on his website.
Arsenal manager Arsene Wenger said last year a gay Premier League footballer may never be able to reveal his sexuality during his playing career because of the intense scrutiny he would be under.
And retired basketball star John Amaechi, the first NBA player to come out, has called football “toxic” for gay people and minorities.

Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia Tagged With: gay footballers, Richard Scudamore, society

BBC Radio 4 broke the news to Stan Lee that his Marvel character Iceman was gay

19/11/2015 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

Metro LogoHanna Flint for Metro.co.uk
Wednesday 18 Nov 2015
 
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Marvel Comics chairman Stan Lee didn’t know that one of his own superhero creations was gay.
Bobby Drake, AKA Iceman, was created by and artist Jack Kirby and made his first Marvel appearance in The X-Men #1, September 1963, but in April 2015, in issue 40 of All-New X-Men, writer Brian Michael Bendis decided it was time for him to come out.
On BBC Radio 4’s Today programme, Lee was informed of this character’s sexuality, and was pretty surprised to hear it.
‘You telling me that, is the first I’ve heard that Iceman is gay, is Iceman really gay?’ he asks. ‘I don’t read the magazines anymore because my eyesight isn’t that good and the print is so small. As I said this is the first time I learned that Iceman is gay.’

Stan added: ‘Wow! I never knew that. I don’t care what happens as long as they tell good stories.’
In the X-Men films, Bobby is been played by Shawn Ashmore and his character has had relationships with both Rogue (Anna Paquin) and Kitty Pryde (Ellen Page).
Maybe if he makes an appearance in X-Men: Apocalypse, Iceman will be romancing one of the X-Men this time around.
 

Filed Under: Movie Reviews Tagged With: gay character, iceman, Marvel

School Is In: LGBTQ Picture Books

17/11/2015 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

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November 15, 2015

By Elizabeth Gartley
November is Picture Book Month, an international literacy initiative which celebrates print picture books, and picture books are worth celebrating. Picture books are a powerful medium, and they are often the first form of literature that young children enjoy. Even as a middle school librarian who works with young teens, I keep a small collection of picture books in my library. Teachers use picture books to teach about such complex themes as identity, bullying, the immigrant experience, even war. Somehow, the simple combination of story and pictures allows readers to experience and empathize with the lives and feelings of others unlike other forms of storytelling.
Considering the powerful and important role that picture books play in the lives of young readers, it’s no surprise that picture books are also often at the center of controversy. In the late 1950s, The Rabbit’s Wedding by Garth Williams, which features a white rabbit marrying a black rabbit, caused outrage because of the perceived message in support of racial integration and interracial marriage. These days, we most often hear uproar over picture books which focus on gender roles and gender identity or same-sex relationships and families.
Since the early 2000s, as the number of LGBTQ-themed picture books has steadily grown, so have the challenges. And Tango Makes Three by Justin Richardson and Peter Parnell, the true story of two male zoo penguins who raise an adopted chick, was the third most challenged book in the U.S. last year, and was the most challenged book from 2006 to 2008, in 2009 Tango got bumped to second place (by thettyl series by Lauren Myracle), but was back in the top spot again in 2010. In 2012, Todd Parr’s The Family Book, which celebrates different family structures, was banned in an Illinois school district for the line “some families have two moms or two dads.”
King & King by Linda de Haan and Stern Nijland, a picture book about two princes who fall in love, made the ALA most challenged book list back in 2003 and 2004 and has continued to be at the center of controversies. In Stuart Biegel’s 2010 book, The Right to Be Out: Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity in America’s Public Schools, King & King appears in a couple of cases. In one such case in 2006, parents filed lawsuit against a school in Massachusetts after a teacher read the book aloud as part of a unit on weddings (same-sex marriage was legalized in Massachusetts in 2004). After the judge dismissed the lawsuit, the parents appealed the case, the First Circuit Court of Appeals ruled unanimously in favor of the school.
But even now, after the Supreme Court’s 2014 ruling that same-sex marriage cannot be denied by the states, earlier this year in North Carolina, a third-grade teacher, Omar Currie, and vice-principal, Meg Goodhand, ended up resigning in the wake of the controversy that arose after Currie read King & King in his classroom.
While I’m often disappointed that most elementary school libraries are completely lacking in any LGBTQ or gender-nonconforming picture books, I’m not surprised. No one wants to be at the center of such a dispute. But fear of challenges isn’t the only factor which precludes the inclusion of LGBTQ picture books in elementary school libraries. Often, even those who otherwise support LGBTQ inclusion in (high) schools balk at the idea of LGBTQ inclusion in elementary schools or even middle schools, assuming that LGBTQ themes are inherently sexual and therefore inappropriate for young readers. However, there are children who have LGBTQ parents or family members, and there are those students who will grow up to identify as LGBTQ themselves. Educators also see that homophobic bullying and bullying based on gender stereotypes begins in primary school. Omar Currie read King & King in his classroom after seeing that one of his male students had become a target for teasing and bullying when other students viewed the child’s behavior as too feminine for a boy.
Teachers and librarians regularly use picture books to teach about differences and to teach kindness toward others, and our efforts to instill such values cannot preclude a specific group of people or certain types of families. If librarians and teachers can read a picture book to children which features mom and dad characters or a princess falling in love with a prince, without sex coming into the discussion, then the same is true of books with two moms or a prince falling in love with another prince.
Picture books with LGBTQ themes can help challenge gender stereotypes and combat homophobic bullying, and they can provide opportunities to teach about relationships and respecting the differences of others. One of the concerns that seems to pop up around LGBTQ picture books is children having questions about such topics, as though children asking questions is something to be feared. Children may indeed have questions, and in that case, a teaching moment arises that people have differences and all people deserve the same kindness and respect.
LGBTQ picture books also benefit LGBTQ youth themselves. Although most LGBTQ people come out in adolescence or adulthood, many LGBTQ adults recall feeling “different” or separate from their gender group as a child. For those children who feel different or who may grow up to identify as LGBTQ, silence sends a very clear message. If children are only exposed to heteronormative stories and characters, they will learn that anything different is “inappropriate” and bad, and that they themselves are bad.
So OK, LGBTQ picture books are important, but what can librarians do to protect themselves against challenges or even lawsuits? The first step is to ensure that your school district has an up-to-date selection policy for library and classroom materials, this policy should include statements in support of intellectual freedom (such as the Library Bill of Rights), an enumerated non-discrimination clause, and specific protocols for reconsideration.
But well-written policies are only effective if they’re followed. In some cases (such as Currie’s case), school administrators are all too eager to ignore school policy if it helps them avoid controversy. Sometimes even school boards themselves will approve policy, but when a challenge comes, ignore their own policies. Creating and approving the policies is the first step, educating administrators and the school community on the purpose and meaning of such policies is just as important.
In the fall issue of AASL’s Knowledge Quest on intellectual freedom, DaNae Leu, an elementary school librarian wrote about her experience standing up for In Our Mothers’ House by Patricia Polacco. During the challenge process, she collaborated with other librarians, and as a result of the challenge, she wrote that she has increased the justification for her acquisitions and regularly refers to the Library Bill of Rights, the Code of Ethics, the Intellectual Freedom Manual, and other resources.
On Wednesday of this week (November 18) ALA’s Office of Intellectual Freedom is hosting a webinar “Picture Books and Challenges: Dealing with Controversial Topics in Children’s Collections.” The webinar is at 2:00p.m. Eastern and will be hosted by Carolyn Caywood and Peter Coyl and is sponsored by ALA’s Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgender Roundtable and Intellectual Freedom Roundtable. This webinar is free to members of GLBTRT and IFRT. $20 for ALA members and $25 for non ALA members. More information at http://www.ala.org/advocacy/picturebookswebinar.

Filed Under: Book Reviews Tagged With: LGBTQ picture books, listing

LISTEN: UK Man Loses Entire Family After He Comes Out As Gay

17/11/2015 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

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By The Gay UK, Oct 26 2015 08:43AM
A caller to a radio station talks about how he lost everything when he came out as gay to his Jehovah Witnesses family.
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A caller to LBC spoke about how he lost everything within 24 hours after he came out to his parents. The man called James, spoke about how his entire family “disowned” him because of their religious beliefs. He and his family are Jehovah Witnesses.
James’s heart wrenching call also revealed that he hasn’t spoken to his mother in 4 years after he came out to her. Whilst he was recovering in a psychiatric hospital she phoned him one night to ask if he was gay.
ALSO LISTEN: Gay Man Talks About ‘Shock’ Cure Given By 1970’s NHS
After he said that he was gay, his mother said, “Well I’ll always love you, but, if you ever have a boyfriend, you know we can never see you again and you will be disowned.”
He said that although he still lives in the same town as his family, if they see him about, they stop whatever they are doing and walk away.

Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia Tagged With: disowned, family, gay, Jehovah Witness

MI5 secretly spied on Tory peer’s ‘gay sex parties’ with Ronnie Kray

17/11/2015 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

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Nick Duffy  26th October 2015
 

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MI5 kept secret documents recording details of gay sex parties attended by Tory peer Lord Boothby and notorious East End gangster Ronnie Kray, it has emerged.
Documents unsealed this month show that both the secret service and Scotland Yard were deeply concerned about the actions of the late Conservative peer in the 1960s.
The documents reveal that agents were worried that Lord Boothby might cause embarrassment to the government due to his alleged “taste for young men” and friendship with East End gangster Ronnie Kray.
In 1964, the Sunday Mirror claimed Kray and Boothby were having an affair – but after Boothby denied the story, the newspaper paid Boothby £40,000 in an out-of-court settlement.
One MI5 agent wrote of the pair in the same year: “Boothby is a kinky fellow and likes to meet odd people, and Ronnie obviously wants to meet people of good social standing, he having the odd background he’s got; and, of course, both are queers.”
“According to Holt there is no improper association between the two, nor is it likely that there would be, as both are ‘hunters’ of young men.”
Homosexuality was still illegal at the time, and would not be decriminalised until 1967. Gay ‘sex parties’ continued to be technically illegal until 2003.
 

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Documents also show that Home Secretary Henry Brooke warned that if details were to emerge of Lord Boothby’s private life, it could be a crisis “along the lines” of the Profumo affair – the scandal widely seen to have helped topple the Conservative government of Harold Macmillan.
According to the Telegraph, the agency also interviewed former prisoner who claimed Boothby had visited a “homosexual brothel” on “more than one occasions looking for ‘chickens’… understood to be homosexual parlance for young boys”.

Filed Under: History Tagged With: gay sex parties, Krays, Lord Boothby, MI5

Openly Gay Musician Of The 1940s Billy Strayhorn To Have Music Relived In London

17/11/2015 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

the-gay-uk-logoBy The Gay UK, Oct 26 2015 10:53AM
You might not know who Billy Strayhorn is but he was openly gay musician and composer in the 1940s when a time when homosexuality was deeply frowned upon.
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CREDIT: CC Carl Van Vechten / Via WIkipedia
Billy Strayhorn is a jazz composer of colour who has often been overlooked in musical history. However his story is of an early LGBT pioneer, choosing to live an open and authentic life as an openly gay man.
To celebrate his life on Friday 20th November at Cadogan Hall, a concert entitled ‘Lush Life – The Songs of Billy Strayhorn’ will celebrate his contribution to the music scene.
The performance is being put together by Alex Webb, and will feature performance including David McAlmont.
Strayhorn was born one hundred years ago. He was diagnosed with esophageal cancer in 1964, he died in 1967 with his partner Bill Groves by his side.

Filed Under: Music Reviews Tagged With: Billy Strayhorn, musician

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