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Gay Irish Scout drops out of leadership race after receiving threatening email

20/08/2015 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

The email was received on the eve of the leadership vote1
The email was received on the eve of the leadership vote

An Irish Scout leader, who is openly gay, has revealed that he dropped out of the running for Chief Scout due to a threatening email.

Kieran Gildea (58), is a long-standing member of Scouting Ireland, and was a favourite for the position of Chief Scout, but dropped out of the race after receiving an anonymous email which contained ‘insinuations and threats’ which led to his ‘immediate collapse’.

The email was received on the eve of the National Council in April, where it was expected that Mr Gildea would have been elected as Chief Scout.

Speaking to The Irish Scouter, Mr Gildea said that the email triggered repressed guilt he had felt at being gay and thew him into depression.

“The message triggered a flood of bad feelings about myself and convinced me that I was letting everyone in my life down in the most hurtful way and that the principles that I strive to live by were all a lie,” he said.

“All the years of repressed fear around being gay alongside a deep sense of guilt and responsibility for what happened in Kenya flooded over me.”

Mr Gildea said that the death of a colleague in Kenya in 1997 had resulted in his long-term depression.

In the immediate aftermath of receiving the email, Mr Gildea felt that he had no choice but to drop out of the running as he was ‘both in shock and having a physical and mental breakdown’.

Despite the email, Mr Gildea, who is Director of Operations and Corporate Services at the Adoption Authority of Ireland, said that he does not think homophobia is widespread in Scouting in Ireland..

“I believe the overwhelming majority of people in Scouting are kind, decent people who believe in fairness, inclusivity and openness,” he said.

“There are clearly a small minority – a tiny minority – who do not.”

Mr Gildea said that he won’t run for Chief Scout in the near future but didn’t rule out running for the position at some stage.

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Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia Tagged With: Irish Scouting, Kieran Gildea, leadership race

6 Queer TV Favorites Returning This Fall (Autumn to you and I)

20/08/2015 By ACOMSDave 1 Comment

6 Queer TV Favorites Returning This Fall

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Get ready to clutch your pearls.
BY OUT.COM EDITORS
AUGUST 19 2015 11:59 AM EDT
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As a slew of new shows are scheduled to premiere in the coming months, we can’t help but hold onto our favorites—at least five of the best returning for this season. And it’s going to be one dramatic fall as Lee Daniels, Ryan Murphy and Pete Nowalk up the ante with their respective series (Empire, American Horror Story, and How to Get Away With Murder).
American Horror Story: Hotel
Ryan Murphy has done the impossible: made cable’s campiest show even gayer by adding Cheyenne Jackson, Matt Bomer, and “Monster” maven Lady Gaga to the cast of its fifth installment. Cancel that reservation at the Bates Motel—here’s your new haunt. (Premieres Oct. 7 at 10 P.M. ET on FX)
Empire
There’s no stopping Cookie Lyon (Taraji P. Henson) or her flying shoes, but Lee Daniels is upping the ante in season two with a sleuth of guest stars. Andre Leon Talley, Chris Rock, Kelly Rowland, and Mariah Carey are all scheduled to make appearances. But nothing tops Marisa Tomei as a venture capitalist who loves hip-hop, fashion and beautiful women. (Premieres Sept 23 at 9 P.M. on Fox)
The Good Wife
Following a bumpy season six and the loss of Kalinda (Archie Panjabi), the legal procedural looks to woo us back with a hunky new addition (Jeffrey Dean Morgan). Also joining the fray is a new campaign strategist (Margo Martindale) who will battle with Alan Cumming’s Eli Gold. (Premieres Oct. 4 at 9 P.M. on CBS)
How to Get Away With Murder
The Viola Davis-led ensemble is back for a second season and it’s going to be just as killer as the first—literally. A fresh murder and strained relationships has the cast, including Jack Falahee and Alfred Enoch, on edge with only a few people they can trust. (Premieres Sept. 24 at 10 P.M. ET on ABC)
Kingdom
While Nick Jonas downplays his gay icon status, there’s no denying he adds a punch of heat to the fighting drama. The new season will see Nick’s character continue to battle his demons as secrets come back to haunt him. (Premieres Oct. 14 at 9 P.M. ET on DirecTV)
Transparent
Making us wait the longest is the return of the Emmy-nominated series now at the center of the transgender zeitgeist. Creator Jill Soloway says the show will move past explaining the trans community to audiences as it dives deeper into each character’s experiences. (Premieres Dec. 4 on Amazon)

Filed Under: TV programme reviews Tagged With: American Horror Story: Hotel, Autumn listing, Empire, How to Get Away With Murder, Kingdom, nick jonas, Queer TV, The Good Wife, Transparent

Watch the Trailer for Kiss Me, Kill Me

20/08/2015 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

Editorial:  This movie is on my list of must sees this year, but we would love to hear what your views are on the movie – do you reckon it lives up to the hype?

Kiss Me

The West Hollywood thriller stars Queer as Folk star Gale Harold
BY OUT.COM EDITORS
AUGUST 19 2015 4:30 PM EDT

From director Casper Andreas (Going Down in LA-LA Land) and screenwriter David Michael Barrett (Such Good People) comes Kiss Me, Kill Me, a new gay murder mystery starring Queer as Folk icon Gale Harold and As the World Turns three-time Emmy nominee Van Hansis.
A contemporary film noir set in West Hollywood, the movie makes its world premiere September 18 at REELING: The Chicago Gay and Lesbian Film Festival, followed by an after-party with cast and filmmakers.
Here’s the synopsis:

While confronting his unfaithful boyfriend, Dusty (Hansis) blacks-out. When he comes to, his boyfriend Stephen (Harold) has been murdered and Dusty’s the prime suspect. Rounding out the cast: Jai Rodriquez (Queer Eye), Shangela (RuPaul’s Drag Race), Jackie Monahan (Codependent Space Alien Seeks Same), Kit Williamson (Eastsiders), Yolonda Ross (Whitney), Brianna Brown (Devious Maids), Craig Robert Young (The Last Ship). The movie also features Going Down in LA-LA Land vets Matthew Ludwinski and Allison Lane.

The Chicago premiere launches the film’s worldwide festival run.  More info can be found at the festival’s website: ReelingFilmFestival.org
Watch the trailer below:

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Filed Under: Movie Reviews Tagged With: Casper Andreas, Gale Harold, Kill Me, Kiss Me, Van Hansis

Joe McElderry responds to body shaming article in the most perfect way

20/08/2015 By ACOMSDave 1 Comment

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“Just took my full figured little ass to the gym…”

Former X Factor winner and GT favourite Joe McElderry has hit-back at the Daily Mail over their rather unkind comments at his physical appearance. The article published yesterday by Mail Online describes McElderry as having a “fuller physique” since winning the X Factor in 2009.

“His face had also filled out more from his skinny, boyish days,” the article reads.
The comments come following his appearance on TV chat show Lorraine, to promote Tommy The Rock Opera; a new musical starring McElderry based on the music of The Who’s Tommy.

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Joe has since posted a topless photo on Instagram that’s layered with some serious levels of sass. And, well we totally love it. Joe shuts down anyone questioning his size using hashtags #dailymail #fail.

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Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia Tagged With: Joe McElderry, The Mail, Tommy The Rock Opera

SDLP challenged on gay stance as SF readies new vote

20/08/2015 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

 
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Gay Marriage
 
The SDLP has been challenged over its stance on gay marriage, after one of its council leaders declined to toe the party line during a vote on the issue.
Despite the official SDLP policy of supporting gay marriage, its leader on the Causeway Coast and Glens council abstained on the matter on Tuesday night, and then refused to explain why when asked.
Sinn Fein accused the SDLP of trying to “ride two horses”, and revealed that it will soon bring another motion to Stormont asking MLAs to back gay marriage.
It will be the fifth such motion since 2011, something which the DUP described as a bid to “flog the same dead horse”.
On each occasion the matter has come up at the Assembly, MLAs have rejected it – with the most recent such rejection coming just four months ago.
When a pro-gay marriage motion came before a committee of Causeway Coast and Glens councillors on Tuesday, only one out of its three SDLP councillors was present – group leader Maura Hickey.
Asked why she abstained, Councillor Hickey politely told the News Letter: “I don’t wish to comment at this moment in time, if that’s alright.”
By contrast, the very same night the SDLP’s Newry branch was hosting a tribute event to PA Mag Lochlainn, a veteran gay campaigner who died in 2012.
When it comes to the differing approach shown towards gay marriage by SDLP members across the councils, Sinn Fein said last night: “Their hypocrisy on this issue knows no bounds…
“This is not the first time that the SDLP has attempted to ride two horses on the issue and their failure is another let down to the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) community.”
When Sinn Fein’s criticisms were put to her, SDLP Causeway Coast leader Maura Hickey she said: “Again, I don’t wish to comment on it at this moment in time.”
She added that the other two SDLP councillors who could have voted at Tuesday’s meeting (Orla Beattie and Stephanie Quigley) had been on holiday at the time.
She would not comment on how they would have voted if they had been present.
The SDLP’s party headquarters said last night: “The SDLP remains committed to marriage equality with robust protection for faith groups.
“This is a matter for the Northern Ireland Assembly, where a majority of SDLP MLAs continue to vote in favour of the change.
“Since its inception, the SDLP has believed in the power of persuasion and we will continue to make the case for equal marriage and pursue equal rights for the LGBT community.”
Fellow SDLP Causeway Coast councillor Gerry Mullan said: “Obviously it’s a very, very emotive issue, and one people will have very, very strong personal views on.
“And whilst the party may have a line on issues, individuals at the end of the day are free, and given the freedom, to decide which way they want to vote themselves.
“So this is obviously a case of Maura having her own very strong opinions for either religious or moral grounds. And I am happy to support her and her own personal view, but it may not well reflect the position of the party itself.”
His own view is that he supports gay marriage.
Asked about Sinn Fein’s criticisms, he said: “They would say that. They’re playing politics with it obviously, as usual.”
Although the Causeway Coast motion supporting gay marriage failed, it will come back to the full council, possibly as early as next Tuesday.
At that stage all councillors – not just those from that one committee – can debate the matter and vote.
Meanwhile Sinn Fein’s pledge to bring the matter to Stormont yet again was derided by the DUP last night.
Chief whip Peter Weir MLA noted it had been voted down on each consecutive occasion it had appeared.
Mr Weir said: “It’s hard not to see this as a certain form of Groundhog Day, with people trying to flog the same dead horse.”
He noted that the make-up of the Assembly has barely changed since 2011, and added: “When something has been brought forward for the fifth time with the same people, I would assume the result would be the same.”

Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia, History Tagged With: gay marriage, marriage equality, SDLP

Syrian and Iraqi members of LGBT community have found a haven – of sorts – in Istanbul

19/08/2015 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

Bissam

Bissam recently fled Damascus, under threat from Isis death squads. His ‘crime’? Being gay. So he made his way to a city where fellow Arab members of the LGBT community have been gathering to seek a new life – and fellowship – in exile…


Sweat drips down brows and whirling lights illuminate the faces of the energised crowd as Saturday night slips into Sunday morning in Tek Yön, Istanbul’s best-known gay club.
You may think of Istanbul as a place of postcard-pretty mosques, winding markets and exotic spices. Or you may recently have heard it mentioned in the news, as a gateway for foreign jihadists headed to Syria and Iraq. Among all of these realities sits Tek Yön, where you’ll find gay exiles from every sect and ethnicity in the Middle East. Elsewhere, they might be enemies; here, they dance together. “Istanbul is a bubble of freedom and gay rights in the region, and Tek Yön is a good meeting point for gay Syrians and gay Arabs in general,” explains Subhi, from Syria.
While those waving flags of black head south from the city, another community has trickled in from the opposite direction, carrying the rainbow banner: LGBT refugees from across this volatile and conservative region have found in Istanbul a sanctuary of sorts.
A native of Maarrat al-Nu’man in north-west Syria, Subhi witnessed the rise of extremism and violent homophobia in the early stages of the insurgency. “Back in 2012, there was an announcement from the mosque speakers about cleansing the city of gays,” he recalls.
The group that made the announcement was Jabhat al-Nusra, al-Qa’ida’s Syrian franchise, which later allied with Isis. They arrested at least 22 men in Subhi’s town, condemning them to weeks in detention and hefty fines for committing “gay” acts. Fearing the same fate, Subhi fled to Turkey. “This event was the first I knew about in Syria, in which opposition forces publicly targeted gay men,” he says now.
Yet threats against sexual minorities were present in Syria long before the uprising began in 2011. Police were known to raid gay house parties and cruising areas, and individuals even faced violence from families and friends if they were outed. As Subhi says, “The government has been targeting LGBT people for years.”
Like many other Syrian LGBTs, Sami is waiting for his resettlement case to be processed (Bradley Secker)
Like many other Syrian LGBTs, Sami is waiting for his resettlement case to be processed (Bradley Secker)
After the civil uprising, the Syrian regime was swift to take out its ire on the LGBT community. But Isis militants may well be the most boastful, and brutal, of the lot, routinely circulating images of men they have labelled as gay being hurled to their deaths from rooftops, or being stoned to death in fields.
Isis has also violently persecuted sexual minorities in Iraq. Turkey, which shares a border with both conflict zones, has absorbed millions of refugees, among them sexual minorities who have become outcasts from their own communities. In a Middle East that is becoming increasingly divided along political, religious, and ethnic lines, eclectic Istanbul offers a rare chance to cut across these invisible borders – the type of opportunity the recently formed group LGBT Arabie has jumped on.
“There are hundreds of us here,” says the group’s co-founder, Nader, a 25-year-old gay Syrian from Homs. Sporting an earring, Nader wears his beard long, breaking the stereotypes of hardline religion associated with it. His rallying cry is a glimpse of optimism for both a community and a region living in turmoil and fear. Since March, on Sunday afternoons he has hosted “Tea and Talk”, an Arabic-language meeting for LGBT people on Istanbul’s Asian side.
In a room furnished only with fold-out chairs, and walls decorated by photographs, newspaper clippings and banners from the LGBT rights struggle in Turkey, tea is poured and conversation begins, as a small rainbow flag flutters from the window. The first meeting welcomed nine intrigued but slightly nervous guests, and has grown ever since. Participants from across the Arab world, from Morocco via Libya to the Levant countries, discuss issues of refugee rights and asylum, Islam and homosexuality, and coming out. Most LGBT activities and connections in the past were largely online – yet here there is a tangible sense of grass-roots activism.
Salah, from Damascus, now lives in Istanbul alongside thousands of displaced Syrians (Bradley Secker)
Salah, from Damascus, now lives in Istanbul alongside thousands of displaced Syrians (Bradley Secker)
It is an activism that Mahmoud Hassino has tried to inculcate since the early years of the Syrian uprising. After fleeing Damascus for Turkey, the journalist created Syria’s first and only LGBT magazine from exile, Mawaleh (“Nuts” in Arabic). “Mawaleh had been an idea in my mind for years, but when the situation in Syria started to escalate, I realised that LGBT Syrians would face the same threats as LGBT Iraqis faced and still are facing,” says Hassino.
He established a blog in 2006, which acted as a visitors’ guide to gay Syria, written under a pseudonym. As sectarianism rose, Mawaleh was the first to push for a more united front among Syrian LGBTs, whatever their ethnicity.
Despite finding something of an oasis in Istanbul, the situation in Turkey is still far from perfect.Being LGBT and Syrian here means facing not only homophobia and transphobia from within the Syrian diaspora, but also rising animosity from Turks. Minutes before it was due to begin this year, Istanbul Pride was cancelled under orders from the city’s governor, who cited the Muslim holy month of Ramadan as the reason. Subsequently, the amassing crowds of thousands were faced with riot police, who fired tear gas, plastic pellets and water at them.
It is understandable, given this atmosphere, if not everyone who arrives in Istanbul plans on staying. Hassino himself recently received political asylum in Germany; Subhi has been formally resettled to the United States.
LGBT people departing for ever from the region may seem drastic – and it doesn’t tackle the persistent problem of persecution. But for many, it’s the only way they believe they can have a truly fresh start and think about the future in terms of years rather than mere months.
Resettlement is seen as a last resort by the UN Refugee Agency the UNHCR, which makes it an option only if there is no hope of the person returning to their homeland, or continuing to live in their host country. Mary, a transgender woman from Aleppo, left Syria six months before the uprising, in March 2011. She moved to Turkey so she could apply for resettlement in a third country. Three years on, she was finally resettled to Canada. Before departing, her thoughts on returning to Syria one day were like those of many other LGBTs being evacuated: “No reason in this life will make me think to go back to Syria, whether there is war or not. My problem is not just the war.”
Bissam, a gay Iraqi from Diyala province, spent five years in Syria waiting to be resettled. His case was still being processed when war broke out. From Damascus, a city he had grown to love, Bissam fled again, this time to Turkey. Yet he felt unsafe as a refugee and as a homosexual, as the Syrian population began to scapegoat both communities for the conflict.
Nader, a 25-year-old gay Syrian from Homs, is one of LGBT Arabie's co-founders
Nader, a 25-year-old gay Syrian from Homs, is one of LGBT Arabie’s co-founders (Bradley Secker)
“When you take the decision to leave your home country, it means you’ve really hit the bottom, and death would be better than staying in your country,” he says. “I see some countries send refugees back and they die in the sea, or they leave them, like me, for seven years and nobody asks about you.”
While Bissam’s perseverance paid off – he ended up resettled in the US after seven years in limbo – many gay refugees in Istanbul struggle with the uncertainty, often falling into poverty. Faced with a lack of options, some turn to sex work to survive. Back at the club, Sami, from Homs in Syria, is a regular. He goes to dance and have fun, but also for business. “You can call me Mother Teresa!” he says, with a cheeky but proud look in his piercing green eyes. “I help everyone. I have money. I work as a sex worker in order to help my friends. I had four chances for a job when I arrived in Istanbul. The first and easiest was sex work. The second was a marketing job with Microsoft.”
Like many other Syrian LGBTs, Sami is waiting for his resettlement case to be processed. In the meantime, Saturday nights are his liveliest. As he dances in his regular spot, you can hear Arabic dialects from all over the region. For at least one night a week, Arab Christians, Sunnis, atheists and others dance to the same beat.
“There is freedom in Istanbul, but not much,” concludes Sami. “I want to go to a place far away.”
Bradley Secker is a British freelance photojournalist based in Istanbul, Turkey. For more: bradleysecker.com

Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia Tagged With: Iraqi LGBT, Syrian LGBT, Turkey LGBT community

Half of UK's Young Adults Not '100 Percent Heterosexual'

19/08/2015 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment


Originally published on Advocate.com August 18 2015 9:32 AM ET
A stunning survey by YouGov UK has found that 23 percent of British people surveyed do not consider themselves exclusively heterosexual. As many as 49 percent of adults aged 18-24 described themselves as “not 100 percent heterosexual,” indicating bisexuality is more common among younger adults, who enjoy more sexual fluidity.
The survey used a modified Kinsey scale to measure sexuality by asking participants to place themselves on a range between “exclusively heterosexual” and “exclusively homosexual.” Kinsey’s groundbreaking study of human sexuality found that 10 percent of males were “more or less exclusively homosexual for at least three years between the ages of 16 and 55.” The British survey found that four percent of total respondents identified as “completely homosexual.”
Younger adults tend to be more willing to experiment with members of the same-sex than older adults, according to the survey. Six percent of young adults classified themselves as completely homosexual, but 43 percent identified as neither exclusively homosexual or heterosexual.
While most of respondents still identified as heterosexual or homosexual, the scale numbered between zero (completely heterosexual) and six (completely homosexual) allows for subjects to be more specific about their sexuality and indicate that they have had experiences or attractions outside of their declared identity.
“Clearly, these figures are not measures of active bisexuality – overall, 89 percent of the population describes themselves as heterosexual – but putting yourself at level one allows for the possibility of homosexual feelings and experiences,” researchers wrote. “More than anything, it indicates an increasingly open minded approach to sexuality.”
“In a further set of questions asking if respondents could conceivably be attracted to, have sex with or have a relationship with someone of the same sex (if the right person came along at the right time), level ones were at least 35 percent more likely to say they could than level zeroes.”
According to the research, the closer heterosexual identified respondents rated themselves closer to a three (completely bisexual), the chance that they have had a sexual experience with a member of the opposite sex increased. The survey found 23 percent of those at level one have had a sexual encounter with a member of the opposite sex, while 52 percent of people at level two have had such an experience.
Read the full results of the survey here.

Contributor:
Bil Browning

Source URL: http://www.advocate.com/bisexuality/2015/08/18/study-half-british-young-adults-not-100-percent-heterosexual
Links:
[1] http://www.advocate.com/
[2] https://yougov.co.uk/news/2015/08/16/half-young-not-heterosexual/
[3] https://d25d2506sfb94s.cloudfront.net/cumulus_uploads/document/7zv13z8mfn/YG-Archive-150813-%20Sexuality.pdf
[4] http://www.advocate.com/bisexuality
[5] http://www.advocate.com/breaking
[6] http://www.advocate.com/united-kingdom
[7] http://www.advocate.com/world
[8] http://www.advocate.com/health/love-and-sex

Filed Under: History Tagged With: homosexuality, sexuality, young adults

School to offer LGBT History course

19/08/2015 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

Schools Out
 

Ruth Asawa School to offer course on LGBT History

A San Francisco public high school is ready to launch an LGBT history class in the new school year.
Ruth Asawa School of the Arts is going to be one of the few public schools across America that will offer this class.
The curriculum will include topics such as the gay rights movement, AIDS crisis, and the Stonewall Riots.
Leader of the course Lyndsey Schlax said, “This is history. This is an experience that happened. How can we not teach history?”
The class will also be tailored to include San Francisco’s own gay heritage including how World War 2 help to set up the gay scene in the city.
“It has to do with how the war ended – people ending up in San Francisco after. People finding each other. People not necessarily wanting to return to where they came from.”
The curriculum was supposed to launch back in 2010 but when the recession hit the school budget took it hard.
However back on track the funding has returned and Ms. Schlax has been given the money for 40 audio and video players making her course multimedia.
This means it will be able to focus on how Disney villain’s can often have speech patterns associated with gay men, leading on to a discussion on the use of gay stereotypes in Hollywood.
A member of the school board, Sandra Fewer, has discussed how she wants schemes and classes such as this set up in every school district and not to confined to art schools.
“As the mother of a gay child, I’m very sensitive to the issues of our LGBT youth,” she said. The course offers “a deeper understanding. It separates fact from fiction.”
Representatives of the school have clearly stated that they are not teaching “gay sex 101” There is nothing do with sex, another board member stated: “People always think it’s about sex. It’s not about sex.”
Words Bethany Mosettig, @bethanymosettig

Editorial:  Will this ever happen in Northern Ireland schools?

Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia, History

Brewers minor leaguer says he's gay; MLB lauds his courage

19/08/2015 By ACOMSDave 1 Comment

 

David Denson

David Denson during an Instructional League game against the San Francisco Giants in October last year. Photograph: Four Seam Images/AP

IDAHO FALLS, Idaho (AP) — It had been a long day and night for David Denson, in so many ways.

His team had been swept in a doubleheader in the low-level Pioneer League, he didn’t have much luck hitting and he’d made a throwing error, too.
But it wasn’t a total loss.
As the 20-year-old Denson headed to the Helena Brewers’ clubhouse at Melaleuca Field late Saturday, a middle-aged fan of the opposing Idaho Falls Chukars approached and extended his hand.
“I’m proud of you,” the man said.
“Thank you,” Denson said.
Hours earlier, the Milwaukee Brewers minor leaguer had become the first openly gay active player on a team affiliated with Major League Baseball.
The news broke in the middle of the second game, after he reached out to the Milwaukee Journal Sentinel.
Milwaukee manager Craig Counsell told his team about Denson’s story after its 4-2 win Saturday night over Philadelphia at Miller Park.
“It’s a very courageous move on his part to be the first one, the first active player to make this announcement,” Milwaukee star outfielder Ryan Braun said Sunday. “Hopefully, everybody is at a point where we can just be supportive, not just understanding, but accepting and supportive of him and his situation.”
In June, pitcher Sean Conroy of the Sonoma Stompers of the independent Pacific Association revealed he is gay. The Pacific Association is not affiliated with MLB. Denson’s coming out follows similar disclosures of late across sports: Michael Sam (NFL draftee); Jason Collins (NBA); Derrick Gordon and Edward Sarafin (NCAA basketball, football) and Dale Scott (major league umpire).
Several hours before Denson’s team played at Idaho Falls on Sunday, the Helena club said the first baseman-outfielder didn’t want to do further interviews for a few days.
“It’s a lot to take in right now,” Denson told the Idaho Falls Post-Register late Saturday night. “I’m a ballplayer first. That’s what I’m focusing on.”
When Counsell played in the majors, his agent was the same person who now represents Denson.
“I know David a little bit from going to see him in the minor leagues,” Counsell said. “I always looked out for him a little bit when I went to see him and had conversations with him. I’m happy for him more than anything.”
Denson was picked by Milwaukee in the 15th round of the 2013 draft from West Covina, California. He has split his time this year, starting and struggling at Wisconsin of the Class A Midwest League before being sent back to the rookie level Helena team.
Denson is hitting a combined .227 with five home runs and 26 RBIs this season. He homered earlier this month in the Northwest/Pioneer League All-Star game.
The first baseman and outfielder was 0 for 2 with two walks in a 6-5 loss on Sunday in Idaho Falls. He received a few claps before his first plate appearance.
MLB said Sunday that it backs Denson’s decision “to share his personal story and wishes him continued success with his goal of becoming a major leaguer.”
The league added that is “very proud” of the Brewers organization and this disclosure represents a “tremendous example of baseball’s desire to give every player the opportunity to play at their very best.”
The Brewers lauded Denson as a “highly respected member” of their family and “a very courageous young man.”
General manager Doug Melvin said in the statement: “Our goal for David is to help develop him into a major league player, just as it is for any player in our system, and we will continue to support him in every way as he chases that dream.”
Said Counsell: “I just wish him the best of luck trying to become a major league baseball player.”
“It’s not easy becoming a major league baseball player,” he said. “It certainly hasn’t been easy dealing with everything he’s had to deal with up to this point. Hopefully, this kind of gets something for himself out of the way that can allow all his talents to shine through.”
Denson came out with the help of Billy Bean, MLB’s first Ambassador for Inclusion. Bean disclosed he was gay after his playing career in the majors.
“Talking with my teammates, they gave me the confidence I needed, coming out to them,” Denson told the Journal Sentinel. “They said, “You’re still our teammate. You’re still our brother. We kind of had an idea, but your sexuality has nothing to do with your ability. You’re still a ballplayer at the end of the day. We don’t treat you any different. We’ve got your back.’
“That was a giant relief for me,” he added. “I never wanted to feel like I was forcing it on them. It just happened. The outcome was amazing. It was nice to know my teammates see me for who I am, not my sexuality.”
Braun said he would root for Denson and welcome him as a teammate.
“Hopefully, he’s strong enough to deal with everything that comes with it,” he said. “Obviously, he’ll get plenty of support, but I’m sure there will be plenty of challenging situations for him as well.”
“In sports specifically, I do think we’re making progress. We’re certainly headed in the right direction. So, hopefully, that continues. Any time something like this occurs, I think it’s a step in the right direction,” he said.
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AP freelance writer Joe Totoraitis in Milwaukee contributed to this report.

Filed Under: Anti-Bullying & Homophobia Tagged With: David Denson, football, gay

Chad King of A Great Big World Discusses Singing About Loving a Man

19/08/2015 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

A Great Big World

Having made waves with ‘Hold Each Other,’ Ian Axel and Chad King talk about giving pop some heart and taking a shot at Broadway.
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BY ALEX PANISCH
AUGUST 14 2015 3:30 PM EDT

 

Chad King (left) and Ian Axel
Ian Axel and Chad King set the world afire with their 2013 single “Say Something.” Coming seemingly out of nowhere, the track exploded and caught the attention of Christina Aguilera who later appeared on a re-recorded version of the song. Earlier this year, that version of the song netted the duo their first Grammy.
Two years on, history seems to be repeating itself. Once again, A Great Big World has dropped a single—this time “Hold Each Other” a cut of their upcoming second album—that’s whipped up a groundswell of support.
“[The reception] has been really good, overwhelmingly positive,” says King, who sings the most buzzed about lyric on the single: “Something happens when I hold him.”
“Originally the lyric in the chorus was ‘something happens when I hold her,’ ” says Axel. “And after a day away from the song, I was like, ‘Wait a minute, how is Chad going to sing that line? We need to change it.’ So we changed it and it became a very powerful song for us.”

The change was subtle, yet it greatly magnified the track’s emotional resonance, especially for its singer. “I think what is really interesting is that I was [at first] uncomfortable singing it as ‘Something happens when I hold him,’ ” King explains. “The fact that I was uncomfortable singing it, as someone who’s gay, it showed me and Ian that we have to spread this message because I shouldn’t be scared to say what’s in pop music. It isn’t done in pop music often, not in this way. The fact that I was scared to say that showed us that we needed to do it.”
As Axel explains, it wasn’t originally a statement. “But it became a statement in a way. It’s so subtle that I don’t think people really hear it on the first or second listen and it’s just Chad singing about the person he loves and wants to hold and it’s really not a big deal.”
The moment was somewhat revelatory for the pair, who had, in swapping a pronoun, slammed into pop music’s generic heteronormativity.
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“After that first day when Ian changed the lyric it became second nature,” King says. “The initial switching of that pronoun, I’m not used to seeing [in pop music]. Even when we’re writing, there will be some stream-of-consciousness moments where I’m singing about ‘she’ and ‘her’ and ‘the girl,’ but in no way do I actually feel those things. I feel that it’s a habitual thing that I learned over the years listening to pop music.”

It’s songs like “Hold Each Other” that work within pop’s framework while still innovating and challenging convention that will mark A Great Big World’s upcoming LP, slated for a November release.
” ‘Hold Each Other’ is a positive happy love song because we’re in a much better place than we were when we wrote the last album,” Axel says. “I’m getting married, and we were just writing a love song.”
King agrees: “I’m hopeful that we can bring an emotional aspect to pop music that you haven’t seen before. I feel like ‘Hold Each Other’ is in the direction of our new album, where it’s really emotional songs underlying this track that you want to bob your head to and I’m hopeful that we’re on to something.”

“We were being as vulnerable as we could, writing a song that we needed to write because it was our therapy and all of a sudden it found a lane on pop radio,” Axel says. “I think the pop world is the place we want to be because we get to reach the most amount of people. ”
“I feel like if you’re scared to say it, or you’re embarrassed or ashamed or insecure about it, I feel that the general rule of thumb for us is ‘let’s sing about it.’ Because those are things that need to be said and need to be heard and are what people connect to the absolute most and what people need to hear because we’re all in this thing together and we all feel the same things and our stories are everyone else’s stories.”
Considering that “Hold Each Other” has been met with so much positivity and praise, it seems that everyone is ready for Axel and King’s brand of catchy, yet emotionally honest, pop. Well, almost everyone that perhaps. “I thought we would have had a little more resistance to ‘Hold Each Other’, especially getting it played on radio,” King explains. “There have been a couple stations in the South that have refused to play it because they feel it’s too progressive. But I’m OK with that, because it means we’re doing something right. If they can’t play a song like this, which is only about love, if they can’t play a song about love then I don’t want to listen to their station.”

The duo’s putting the finishing touches on their sophomore LP and say that the album will still be classic A Great Big World, just a bit more “grown up.”
“I feel like we’re trying to marry the theatrical sense of what we do and the emotional sense,” Axel says. “Trying to hit a little bit more in the pop arena because we want to reach the most amount of people. I feel the album is a little bit more beat driven as well. I think that our fans aren’t going to be disappointed at all, because it sounds like us and it has the same heart that it did in the first album.”
Beyond finishing the album and gearing up to tour in early 2016, the guys also have a Broadway musical in the works that Axel says they’ve been developing for three years. “It’s been a dream of ours to do this since we’ve known each other. We’re pretty much finished with revisions on the first draft, we’re about to go to a director, and there are some Broadway producers onboard,” he says. “It’s a show about family and what family is and how family is what you make it. There are definitely some twists and turns we can’t give away.”
While things are still coming together, King and Axel do have some information that they can share, including the tentative title: Two Blocks Away. “It’s a pop musical,” King says, “So there’s our music but some songs are eight minutes long.”
“It’s kind of our music but on steroids,” Axel sums up. “We don’t have to write to any form or structure and we can just do whatever our hearts desire because of the stage; anything can happen on the stage.”
A Great Big World’s second LP is due in November. “Hold Each Other” is out now.

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