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Parallel Lives by Peter Burton – a gay book review

10/08/2021 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

Parallel Lives by Peter BurtonParallel Lives by Peter Burton, is a  memoir that falls into three unequal parts:  the first section sees PB (Peter Burton) coming to terms with his adolescent self.  this is very gracefully written as is the very end of the book describing the last few years.

The rest is a carnival of name-droppings and descriptions of unpleasant people getting unpleasingly blotto and/or pilled.

Peter Burton has no time for the ‘Gay’ movement because it is dominated by middle-class types who look down on working-class people like himself.  He also exalts the commercial scene over the efforts of the ‘politicals’, and glossy mags over the likes of … GAY STAR(?), THE PREDECESSOR OF ACOMSDave (the Blog).

This class (ill-) feeling without any impetus towards change is a very English thing – mysterious to a simple Irish queen like myself.  And the inability to spot the symbiotic relationship between the ‘scene’ and the ‘community is very London-village.

Despite these rather sharp criticisms, I look forward to a real autobiography from Peter Burton.  Towards the end of this volume, he edges towards real self-analysis.  He has a good brain, a sharp eye and commonsense, an assessment of himself and the sub-culture and also the general community could be a masterpiece.

 

Product details for Parallel Lives by Peter Burton

  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Gay Men’s Press (18 April 1985)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 128 pages

 

First published in Gay Star No 16, paper copy held at The Linenhall Library, Belfast

 

Links:

  • Amazon – Parallel Lives by Peter Burton
  • The Glass Boat by Alison Ward

 

Filed Under: Book Reviews, Reviews Tagged With: Alison Ward, gay book review, gay star, LGBT+ book review, LGBTQ+ Book Review, Linenhall Library, Peter Burton, The Glass Boat

Make IT Happy Make IT Safe: What Sex is All About by Jane Cousins-Mills – Book Review by Geraldine Johnston

02/08/2021 By ACOMSDave Leave a Comment

You would be forgiven for thinking that a homosexual magazine (Gay Star) is an unlikely place to find a review of a sex education text, namely ‘Make IT Happy Make IT Safe: What Sex is All About’.  After all, these stirling manuals are usually crammed with information on how men and women do  “it”, how often, and how to negate the consequences.

Make IT Happy Make IT Safe: What Sex is All AboutHomosexuals have, for centuries, known the secret of fool-proof contraception – we’re just waiting for the rest of the world to catch on.  However, ‘Make It Happy’, despite its innocuous title, is of some interest to the gay community.  The author, Jane Cousins, regards homosexuality in a very positive light, and, as the book is intended primarily for young people, it’s good to see someone putting across such attitudes in a matter-of-fact, common-sense way.

Chapters on sexual development, masturbation, orgasms, sexually transmitted diseases, hygiene, and the law are of interest to all of us – male, female, hetero, homo.  One of the refreshing things about ‘Make It Happy’ is that Jane Cousins writes for young people in their own language, and she doesn’t assume that they are familiar with technical terms.  Hence in the narrative and index, you’ll find ‘penis’ and ‘tool’, ‘vagina’ and ‘twat’.  Having taught in various Belfast schools, I’ve come across sex education texts in which the basic assumption is that sex is something that happens between a husband and a wife, presumably only in bed with the lights off – anything else is either not quite nice or a mortal sin.

Thankfully attitudes are changing, and Jane Cousins’ book is both a reflection of this and an attempt to meet the demand for hard facts unseasoned with moral overtones.  Unfortunately, the Church and State school authorities either haven’t wakened to or choose to ignore the need for a direct, no-nonsense approach to sex education.  Therefore, I can’t see this book being used in schools, at least in Northern Ireland, for some time yet.

In the appendix of ‘Make It Happy’, there is a list of useful addresses, including major gay organizations.  My feeling is that the sooner such information is made widely available, the better for us all.

 

‘Make It Happy’ was of course available in the NIGRA library, now held by the Rainbow Project, along with a range of other books of interest to gay men and lesbians.  Some of these are not generally available elsewhere.

 

written by Geraldine Johnston in Gay Star No 3 Sep/Oct 1980 – the full magazine can be read in the Linenhall Library

Information:

  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Penguin (30 Jun. 1988)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 224 pages

Links:

  • Amazon – Make IT Happy Make IT Safe: What Sex is All About
  • Coming to Power by Samois: Writings and Graphics on Lesbian S/M
  • UK Government – Relationships education (Primary)
  • Dept of Education (NI) – Relationships and sexuality education

 

 

Filed Under: Book Reviews, Reviews Tagged With: gay book review, Geraldine Johnston, Jane Cousins-Mills, LGBT+ book review, NIGRA, Rainbow project, sex education

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